Dan Baritchi - The Little Black Book of Sex Positions

Jennifer Baritchi and Dan Baritchi

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Copyright 2013 by Jennifer Baritchi and Dan Baritchi

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Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data is available on file.

ISBN: 978-1-62087-611-4

Printed in Hong Kong

This book is about better sex and trying new things including new positions, new places, new games, new props, and new ideas, all in the name of experiencing more pleasure together as a couple. We hope you will dive into this book with an open mind, open heart, and open mouths and legs!

There are three things that can make sex better in every relationship:

1. Setting the mood

2. Committing to better foreplay

3. Agreeing that everyone gets to have an orgasm

There are certain bedroom products we believe every couple should own that can dramatically help with these three things. This is where having an open mind comes into play. On our website, AskDanandJennifer.com, we often receive comments such as, Our sex life is great. We dont need any help, or Why would we want to use bedroom products? Well, heres why:

Because trying new things is fun. We could all use a little more fun and adventure in our lives.

Because various bedroom products provide a very distinct and unique type of pleasure, which could enrich your sex life as a couple.

Because both you and your partner have the right to as much pleasure as you can possibly stand.

With all that in mind, here are the top seven bedroom products every couple should own:

1. candles and massage oils

Candles can totally change the mood of a room. They create a warm and romantic environmentjust make sure to place them well out of reach. You wouldnt want to accidentally knock one over or catch the bed sheets on fire! Massage oils take the mood from rushed to relaxed and sensual. Keep a good stock of both of these and learn how to give a good, erotic massage.

2. a good lubricant

Every couple should at least have a good water based lube, and many should have a good silicon lube (or combination lube) for water play. I dont care how wet your partner is, at some point the sex will become less comfortable for her. At that point, shes less likely to orgasm and more likely to just want to get it over with. This is especially true when sex lasts more than fifteen minutes. A womans body can only keep up for so long! If youve never tried lube, its time. Just do it! You will never go back...

3. clitoral vibrator

Sex toys are a touchy topic for many couples. Men are intimidated because theres no way that their tongue can do what a clitoral vibrator can do for a womans clitoris. Women for some odd reason feel like they are inadequate if they need a little extra stimulation. Were calling BS on both of these! A clitoral vibrator is a great addition to many of the sex positions that followespecially for women who love clitoral stimulation.

4. rabbit vibrator

Every girl needs a good rabbit vibrator for two reasons: 1) it helps women get warmed up and really turned on during foreplay, and 2) many women are not able to reach orgasm through vaginal intercourse. Guess what? A rabbit can provide vaginal and clitoral stimulation at the same time. Take some of the pressure off of him and get a good rabbit!

5. male masturbator

Okay boys, if youve never tried a good male masturbator, you are in for a real treat. For those of you who are saying, Ive got my hand. I dont need anything else, youve obviously never tried one of these. Our challenge to you: Try it! You just may like it.

6. liberator wedge

Some of the sex positions that follow can be a little challenging to get into. A wedge will really help. Some of the sex positions that follow do not have a good angle for g-spot stimulation. A wedge will really help. Some of the sex positions that follow do not work for a man with a shorter penis. A wedge will really help. Some of the sex positions that follow... You get the idea. A wedge is better than a pillow because its firmer, and the shape is design to improve angles of penetration to make good sex even better.

7. blindfold and silk ties

Even if youre not into the whole Fifty Shades scene, you still need at least these two items. Even just a little sensory deprivation caused by a blindfold can awaken all of the other senses! When we cant see, we are force to feel, smell, and listen better. Silk ties are incredible not only because they feel incredible on the skin, but by having our limbs restrained during sex, we have to focus on what our partner is doing to us rather than what were going to do next. It forces us to turn our brains off and give into the passion of the moment.

Now, off with the clothes and on with the show...

The chicken soup of sex positions, the Missionary is an old favorite enjoyed by many couples. In fact, its probably the first position you ever tried and might still be your go-to sex position when you just want to experience something familiar. Both partners enjoy this sex position!

HOW TO DO IT The Missionary position is often also called man on top and rightly so. The male partner assumes the dominant position on top of the woman, who is lying on her back. Her legs are spread enough so that her lover can thrust, but theyre not raised up or resting on his shoulders. While she can thrust some, the primary work done here is by the man.

WHERE TO DO IT The sofa, bed, and floor are all great locations for this position.

PROPS YOULL NEED A pillow under her lower back can help support her hips and tilt her pelvis so that penetration is more comfortable and pleasurable.

DIFFICULTY LEVEL

HER O-METER She gets almost nothing physically out of the Missionary position, unless shes already very turned on from a lot of foreplay. Its just not the optimal position for either clitoral or internal stimulation.

HIS O-METER He fares much better in the Missionary position than she does, simply because he can control the speed and depth of penetration, and he is able to orgasm how and when he wants to. For some guys, however, the Missionary can be little better than getting it on with a blow up doll if their partners are just not that into it.