Copyright 2019 by Jennifer Baritchi and Rob Alex, PhD
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ISBN: 978-1-5107-4006-8
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CONTENTS
INTRODUCTION
IN THE BEGINNING THERE WAS SEX, BASIC AND PRIMAL IN ITS EARLY STAGES, OR SO WE THINK.... Perhaps modern society is simply unaware of the depth of sexual understanding our ancestors truly possessed. Maybe modern society is actually relearning the sexual secrets that have been lost over the years. We can look back to the Kama Sutra and see that thousands of years ago, the various sexual positions were given extreme importance. There are even ancient texts that suggest certain positions and angles of penetration can improve your health, and even fight diseaseproviding more than just physical pleasure. However, intense physical pleasure is an excellent place to start.
The basic missionary position gets the job done, and is quite enjoyable, but year after year of the same sexual position can become boring and less stimulating. Its like eating the same amazing chocolate cake for dessert every night. After a while, it starts to taste bland and we lose our desire for that chocolate cake. So when we try another dessert like strawberry shortcake, the strawberries seem to explode with flavor. Why should sex be any different?
As you explore the more than one hundred different sex positions in this book, youll notice that each position creates a new and unique sensation in your body and mind, resulting in different and exciting lovemaking experiences that keep the passion alive and your sex life thriving.
All of your senses will be heightened as you explore many new sexual positions. Your sense of touch takes center stage when trying new and different positions. You may find one magic position that allows her to finally experience a vaginal or G-spot orgasm, and another position that allows him to last a little longer while still enjoying full penetration. Visual pleasure and stimulation are also amplified as you are able to enjoy your partner from new angles and perspectives. As you venture away from the standard missionary position, you will be able to hear your partner in all their pleasure in new and exciting ways. As we move into oral sex and other positions that will allow you to kiss and lick previously unexplored areas of your partners body, your taste buds will dance with joy. And lastly, there is nothing more erotic than the smell of pure raw sex as you and your partner emit your own delicious scent of orgasmic bliss.
Arent you starting to see how powerful this book is going to be in igniting your sex life and keeping the passion alive?
One of the greatest pleasures for you and your partner will be the fun and adventure you experience together as you try to figure out exactly how to get into each position, and what each new position does or does not do for you. Dont be afraid to have fun on this journey! There will be laughter and giggles coming from your bedroom, as we know for a fact that there will be times that you fall over or end up looking like a pretzel as you work through the positions this book. Thats OKsex is supposed to be fun. Dont ever forget that!
At the end of each chapter, youll find a Sexy Challenge to expand and further enhance the enjoyment of your sexual experiences. Each Sexy Challenge teaches you to look at sex not only as a biological act, but as an emotional and spiritual experience. So open your mind and your body to the possibilities of something more... something exciting and truly orgasmic.
We hope this book and all of the positions and adventures inside add much more passion and fun to your sex life. And, in addition, it will create something special and magical for each and every one of you. Take the risk, and at least try each and every one of these positions. It will create a deeper sexual connection with your lover, as well as a more intimate, stronger love for one another.
SPECIAL NOTE
We want to take just a moment to address an obvious concern that some of you will have about this book. All of the positions in this book portray a malefemale heterosexual couple, where the male partner is generally the dominant partner. We chose this approach because it appeals to the largest group of people, but that is in no way the only group who can get extreme enjoyment from this book.
All of the positions can be modified to work with same sex partners and even more than one partner. This is where sex really gets fun and interesting. Our personal motto is to try everything at least twice, because the first time learning a new skill is always awkward. Normally, after the third try, youll really know if you love it or hate it.
If youre generally dominant, let your partner take control.
If youve never tried anal sex, try it and youll know for sure whether or not you enjoy it.
Switch roles to get in touch with your previously unexplored masculine or feminine side.
Try as many different toys and props as you can get your hands on.
Our personal challenge to you is to have fun with your partner or partners, and try each of these positions from every different angle and role. You will be surprised how much more enjoyable sex will be when you can get out of your personal comfort zone and truly open up to new sexual experiences with your partner.
Peace, Love, and Joy,
Jennifer Baritchi and Rob Alex, PhD
CHAPTER 1: FOREPLAY DONE RIGHT
WHAT IS FOREPLAY?
By definition, foreplay is any sexual activity that precedes intercourse, but this is setting you up for failure. This definition sets you up for a very monotonous and predictable sex life. Foreplay is about much more than just the actions that immediately preceded the penis entering the vagina. Heres another approachone thats guaranteed to keep sex fun and exciting, even if youve been married for thirty years.
New definition of foreplay: Any sexual play that takes sex from boring to mind blowing. It occurs before, during, and after sexual intercourse.
Sex is supposed to be fun, but far too many people take sexual play way too seriously. Its time to get out of the mindset that foreplay is just a motion we go through before we have sex. Foreplay is so many things! It is flirting, teasing, sucking, groping, fondling, squeezing, licking, kissing. The list goes on and on. Foreplay is something that happens all day long. It happens during sex, and it happens after sex. Foreplay is an attitude and a personality that should be living and breathing inside all of us. Its what makes sex really fun and exciting.
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