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Every seven minutes, someone in America commits a rape. And whether thats a football star, beloved celebrity, elected official, member of the clergy, or just an average Joe (or Joanna), theres probably a community eager to make excuses for that person.
In Asking for It, Kate Harding combines in-depth research with an in-your-face voice to make the case that twenty-first-century America supports rapists more effectively than it supports victims. Drawing on real-world examples of what feminists call rape culturefrom politicos revealing gaffes to institutional failures in higher education and the militaryHarding offers ideas and suggestions for how we, as a society, can take sexual violence much more seriously without compromising the rights of the accused.

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Also by Kate Harding The Book of Jezebel wit h Anna Holmes and Amanda Hess - photo 1
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Also by Kate Harding

The Book of Jezebel (wit h Anna Holmes and Amanda Hess)

Lessons from the Fat-o-Sphere: Quit Dieting and Declare a Truce with Your Body (with Marianne Kirby)

Copyright 2015 by Kate Harding All rights reserved No part of this publication - photo 3

Copyright 2015 by Kate Harding

All rights reserved. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored in a retrieval system, or transmitted, in any form or by any means, electronic, mechanical, photocopying, recording, or otherwise, without the prior written permission of the publisher. Printed in the United States of America. For information, address Da Capo Press, 44 Farnsworth Street, 3rd Floor, Boston, MA 02210

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Harding, Kate, 1975

Asking for it : the alarming rise of rape culture--and what we can do about it / Kate Harding.

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Includes bibliographical references and index.

ISBN 978-0-7382-1703-1 (e-book)

1. Sexual harassment of women. 2. Rape. 3. WomenCrimes against. I. Title.

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For every Jane Doe

From time immemorial the rule has been not to punish the male offender, but to get the victim out of his way.

Susan B. Anthony, 1896

Contents

Slut Shaming, Victim Blaming, and Rape Myths

The Power of Myth

Simple Safety Tips for Ladies

Not-So-Innocent Bystanders

The Problem of False Accusations

Law and Order

To Serve and Protect

Unreasonable Doubts

The Politics of Rape

The Culture of Rape

Virgins, Vamps, and the View from Nowhere

Pop Rap

Trolls, Gamers, and the New Misogyny

Reasons for Hope

T he term rape culture has been in use at least since the late 1970s, but for obvious reasons, its been slow to enter mainstream parlance. It sounds so extreme at first that I confess even I, a proud feminist, initially balked at the term. Rape culture? Isnt that overstating things just a smidge?

And isnt such overblown terminology the kind of thing that makes people call feminists humorless and strident, and accuse us of holing up in our ivory towers, theorizing about human behavior without ever witnessing much of it?

I mean, granted, we live in a culture that claims to abhor rape yet adores jokes about the prisoner who drops the soap, the trans woman who discloses to a date that she has a penis and gets punished for it, the altar boy who follows a priest into a back room. A culture in which laws and norms prohibiting sexual harassment in the workplace have been strenuously opposed by folks seeking to protect that fundamental civil liberty: objectifying and humiliating your subordinates.

And sure, yes, its a culture that rewards men for bagging as much anonymous pussy as possible, while condemning women for expressing any sexual impulses at all. A culture in which a young womans supposed friends will videotape her being violated and then use it as evidence that shes a slut. A culture in which most victims of sexual assault and rape never report it because they fear they wont be believedand know that even if they are believed, theyre likely to be mortified and harassed, blamed and shamed, throughout a legal process that ultimately leads nowhere.

Also, we live in a culture in which a lot of people think were too rough on tortured geniuses like Roman Polanski, who pled guilty to raping a thirteen-year-old girl, and Woody Allen, who at the very least took naked pictures of his long-term partners teenage daughter when he was in his fifties, and whose own daughter has consistently maintained that he molested her. Both men have continued to have long, wildly remunerative and award-winning careers since those pesky facts came to light, all the while enjoying the support and company of our cultural elite. But one of them had to do it all outside the United States, and the other has frequently been the victim of jokes and criticism by people who have no power to interfere with his life, liberty, or pursuit of happiness. So havent they suffered enough?

Fighter Mike Tyson was convicted of rape and served time for it, but jeez, that was all such a long time agodid you see his cameo in The Hangover ? Or maybe the episode of the sitcom How I Met Your Mother , in which he was portrayed as a kind, gentle soul with whom youd gladly leave your baby? Or how about the episode of Law & Order: Special Victims Unit a show about how difficult it is to catch and convict sex offendersin which Tyson played a victim of sexual abuse? What an amusingly ironic bit of casting! Wink, wink.

Surely, like all criminals who pay their debt to society and must overcome the stigma of a felony conviction upon their release, Tyson has earned Hollywoods extensive efforts to rehabilitate his image, while paying him lots of money just to show up in front of cameras.

I could go on. I will go on, in fact, for the length of a book. But I trust youre getting the picture.

A Crime Unlike Any Other

In the preamble to their 1993 anthology Transforming a Rape Culture , feminist scholars Emilie Buchwald, Pamela R. Fletcher, and Martha Roth write, In a rape culture, women perceive a continuum of threatened violence that ranges from sexual remarks to sexual touching to rape itself. A rape culture condones physical and emotional terrorism against women and presents it as the norm.

Terrorism . Again, its a bold, shocking choice of words, but not much of an exaggeration. We tend to imagine rapists, like terrorists, as an omnipresent and often unidentifiable threat, everywhere and nowhere at once. Since we dont know exactly who will strike or when, we agree that the best we can do is try to avoid victimhood. We put pressure on potential targets to volunteer for safety rituals that create the illusion of security while quietly eroding our freedom: airline passengers submit to groping by strangers for the sake of thwarting terrorism, and average women restrict their movements and clothing for the sake of thwarting strangers who aim to grope them. Like post-9/11 exhortations for passengers to fight back against skyjackers or die trying, our ostensibly empowering advice to women is to learn self-defense, to plan on disabling potential attackers at the first sign of any impropriety.

The part wed prefer not to talk about, the part thats much less empowering than praising the twin pillars of feminine vigilance and martial arts, is that there will still be victims in this scenario. (Not all of them women, by the way.) Our culture is not equipped to prevent their being attacked, and adding insult to injury, our system is not equipped to bring all of their attackers to justice. Hell, our system isnt even entirely sure what that would mean at this point.

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