Love - Confessions of a Key Holder: Chastity, Cuckolding, and Technical Castration

Yes, we are a happily married couple, and we still have sex. But our sex never involves my husband's penis. This book is both an account of my experience technically castrating my husband and a guide for other women and men who might think castration is right for their relationship. First, I want to explain what technical castration is not. Technical castration is not actual castration. There is no surgery and your man's balls are never actually removed. But, it is technically the same as castration because you get the same effects and benefits. By the time your finished, your man will essentially have no balls.

The benefits for women are that your man will be totally submissive and obedient. Once your man is technically castrated, you'll be the one wearing the pants in the house. Your man will be an ideal lover. He will focus on pleasing you rather than sticking his penis in you and cumming as quickly as he can. He will cherish every chance he gets to help around the house doing the laundry, washing dishes, and cleaning the bathroom. You'll be in charge of the money all major household decisions.

Best of all, a technically castrated man will accept a total reversal of male chauvinism. In the same way that men once took advantage of women, you'll now be able to take advantage of men. My husband has accepted that I am allowed to have affairs. In fact, he loves it when I tell him how other guys fuck me. He wasn't always like this. In fact, the first time I told him I wanted to sleep with another man he went ballistic. It was only after he was technically castrated that he came to accept my need for sexual freedomalong with his own sexual inferiority.

There are five distinct steps to technical castration which can be followed in order for the smoothest transformation. Whereas real castration is a violent and sudden cutting, technical castration is a gradual process that starts out easily and advances naturally over time.

Physical Orgasm Denial

Decide today that your man will stop having orgasmsat least with his penis. You know what I'm talking about. When a man masturbates, gets a blow job, or cums in a girl's pussy or asshole, he's having a male orgasm. It is violent, forceful, and overwhelmingly masculine. Your man needs to stop cumming like this right away. As the woman in a relationship, you have every right to deny his access to your body. You should also punish him if you catch him masturbating.

Since every man will eventually find a way to masturbate if he is not having regular sex, the best way to enforce orgasm denial is use a chastity device. These sex toys are small cages or sheaths that fit around the penis to prevent any stimulation. Chastity devices are strongly recommended for the first step of technical castration.

Ironically, forcing your man to stop having orgasms is going to cause you to have more. Once you deny him sex with his penis, he will be horny and affectionate all the time. He will be eager to kiss and cuddle, massage, caress, or do anything at all to get physical contact with a female body. Although he's not going to be getting laid, you should encourage him to worship your pussy. He'll become a master at oral sex in no time, and he'll even beg you to let him go down on you.

I also want to dispel any fears you might have that this is the end of vaginal sex for you. Just because your castrated man can't stick his penis in you doesn't mean you can't have your fun. It can be more humiliating for a castrated man to fuck his wife with a strap-on dildo than for him to get no sex at all. He'll have to watch you in your pleasure while he is denied any kind of orgasm at all.

Lastly, there always remains the option of an open relationship. If you should so choose, nothing is more humiliating for a man that to be denied sex while another man fucks his wife. Getting off on knowing your wife cheatsa fetish called cuckoldingis more common that you might think.

Psychological Emasculation

As soon as you make it clear to your man that he is never going to have an orgasm again, he will have to start to consider the reality of his situation. This is the stage where you are likely to encounter the most resistance. You need to help him in accepting his fate by rubbing it in his face what a sissy he has become.

For my husband, our discovery of his sterility was what finally pushed him over the edge. After I learned that he couldn't get me pregnant, I stopped treating him like a real man. It took him some time to get accustomed to the new dynamic in our relationship, but he eventually accepted and even embraced his new identity as a feminine sissy.

Of course, not all men out there are sterile, so you will have to exploit your man's particular shortcomings. Perhaps he has a small penis, he isn't very smart or good at sports, or he is short. You just need to provide evidence as to why other men are more masculine than him and why he doesn't size up as a real man. Remind him that he doesn't have sex any moreby now he should have gone a long time without a male orgasm. Tell him that you still love him, but in fact, you think of him more as a girlfriend than as a real man.

Feminization

As your man shifts his energies away from masculine activities he will naturally become more feminine. He really will become a lot like a girlfriend to you, and also a maid and servant. Deny him any physical contact unless he does all the household chores. He needs to be perfectly obedient if he wants a chance to eat your pussy. He also needs to give up stupid male hobbies like watching sports, gambling, going to bars with friends, video games, or anything like that. He should learn to love your hobbies, like shopping, watching romantic comedies, and hanging out with your friends. Make him drive you and your friends to the mall and hold your bags while you spend his paycheck on shoes and make-up.