Moore - Sex Techniques: Proven Secret Love Making Techniques That Will Transform Your Relationship: Tantric Massage, Kama Sutra, Modern Sex Science

1. Shortly on Tantra

Tantra is the ancient Indian teaching on spiritual enlightenment, founded before the 5th century. The name comes from the scriptures which are called Tantras. Thus, the tantric teaching is all about achieving unity with nature and absolute (Brahman) and not a science about orgies as sometimes interpreted in the modern world. In Tantra the different techniques, including sexual, are used for spiritual elevation and experiencing overall, both physical and spiritual, joy and awareness.

Tantric teaching starts on the physical level, progresses towards the psychological and ends at the spiritual union of a seeker with the highest Consciousness, that is, Brahman. The two most important aspects of tantric teaching are Energy (Goddess Shakti) and Awareness (God Shiva). In their union is the most profound enlightenment. You can conclude from the previous sentence why the sexual union is so important in the Tantric teachings.

From now on your love lessons begin. Energy and Awareness are the key things whose proper use leads you and your partner to sexual ecstasy. Although they appear as separated they are actually one. If you are not wholly present in the intimate act, you don`t have the energy or sufficiently strong desire to make love. On the other hand, if your sexual excitement is not fully awakened, you have no intention to fully participate. Energy and awareness are intertwined as two naked lustful bodies.

1. Tantric Massage

Whatever you do, do it with understanding and completely, even sex. OSHO

After years of making love in the usual manner, it is difficult to take the path of Tantra. Perhaps the most difficult to accept by modern people is that sexual ecstasy can be achieved without ejaculation or even penetration. I can hear you wonder isn`t that the ultimate object of sex. Quite the opposite if we speak about ejaculation. When a man cums, he actually loses his precious life energy. He feels relaxed after a job well done, but very often this relaxation is somehow empty.

There`s another thing about climaxes which prevents you to endure the amazing sex experience. For most of the people, the sexual orgasm is set as the final goal of having sex. Imagine how much you could enjoy the cuddling, kissing, rubbing and biting if the orgasm isn`t constantly on your mind? You're missing the best by dealing with only one aspect of sex throughout lovemaking. In fact, you're missing the whole sexual act because you are not present. You`re not truly aware neither yourself nor your partner. Most of the times, it all boils down to "Let`s get rid of this tension and go earn some money!" Isn`t that poor? No wonder there`s so much anxiety in the modern world.

The Tantric tradition emphasizes what we call preparation for love act, which with us lasts from 3 to 5 minutes, even 10 if we are in a good mood. In tantra, everything falls into sexual acts. From the first significant look and horny touch until the lovers are not separated. No introduction, development and conclusion; the act of love begins and continues as long as lovers want. One of the tantric sex techniques is tantric massage.

Tantric Massage for him

You should specify the day when you will engage in tantric massage and who knows what else :). The atmosphere in the room should be pleasant and warm with subdued light. Light the candles, play the music, do whatever makes you happy and relaxed. You should primarily make sure that no one interrupts you for hours. I know it sounds like a clich, but if it doesn`t work it wouldn`t deserve this comparison. I advise you to buy scented oil, such as almond, to anoint him during the massage, it really works wonders.

Of course, men don`t have only one erogenous zone, as often claimed as a joke. His whole body can become a horny zone, as well as yours. Naked and natural human body is a playground of pleasure. You can start by massaging him from the front or the back. I recommend you start from the back to wake his imagination and loosen him a bit. If you turn your face toward him right away, chances to perform a tantric massage over him are miniature, he`ll jump right at you.