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Chapter One: Basic principles
Do you want to learn how to masturbate in such a way that you can have as many orgasms per day as you could possibly want? What is more, do you want to learn how to masturbate to a state of blissful pleasure that is far more lasting and intense than anything you have experienced masturbating the ordinary way?
Perhaps this idea of masturbating to multiple daily orgasms is not news to you. Perhaps you have never heard of it. Perhaps you have tried other programs, books, teachers, but have failed at mastering multi-orgasmic masturbation. Whichever way, no one will blame you if you are a bit skeptical. But hopefully you are at least a bit curious to find out if such an extraordinary thing is possible, and if it can be made possible for you, and how.
I have learnt to masturbate in such a way that I orgasm many times per day, and I would like to share my knowledge with you. You can imagine that something like this can turn your life around, and believe me in my case it has. I have found this masturbation technique to be a powerful instrument that has had a profound effect on my view of pleasure, sex, happiness and life itself. Trust me, if you manage to get it right, you will change profoundly. Speaking for myself, it has taught me to take pleasure from life to an extent that I have never imagined, let alone been able to achieve before. Whilst I am not saying that multi-orgasmic masturbation is the answer to the meaning of life, this I am prepared to say: If you learn to master the mindset and mental skills that are necessary to achieve multi-orgasmic masturbation, you will learn not only how to have multiple orgasms and experience unparalleled pleasure. You will grow as a person.
Like most of us, you want to be happy. Pleasure is not happiness. But if you learn to cultivate the mindset of happiness that I hope to help you to learn, one of the hugely valuable spinoffs will be pleasure such as you have not known. You want to learn to be happy first. I hope to contribute to developing that mindset in you, which will have the benefit, amongst others, of giving you massive pleasure.
I know this sounds like motivation-speaker gobbledygook. But stick around, and it will make sense. You wont regret it.
What this book will teach you, is not unique. There are a number of gurus, internet programs, courses and seminars that say that they can teach men how to have multiple orgasms, or whole-body orgasms, tantric sex or orgasms without ejaculation. I have researched the topic for years, and, frankly, I do not pretend to understand the theory behind the practice of multi-orgasmic sex. I do not hold myself out as a theoretical expert. But what I do know is what works for me from a practical point of view. I have tried to distill my practical experience in this very hands-on guide (pun intended!) that skips the mysticism and theory surrounding this topic, and simply conveys to you how to do it practically: what you should do to make it work, and how you are likely to feel when it does.
First, let me explain the concept of multi-orgasmic masturbation as I understand it. Most men who masturbate do so until they ejaculate. At the same time they also have an orgasm. But it is possible to have an orgasm without ejaculating. Although all sex takes energy, nothing about sex makes you as tired as does an ejaculation. Most men certainly I do lose all interest in sex and cannot have an orgasm for quite a while after ejaculating. The secret of multi-orgasmic masturbation is to have orgasms without ejaculating. That way you can have as many orgasms as you want.
I frequently have more than twenty orgasms a day. You do not have to believe me. But I ask you to give what I say a chance.
I suppose one might respond to my claim by saying that it all depends on what I mean by the term orgasm. I define an orgasm as a pleasurable sexual climax and release or satisfaction . We all know what we mean by the term, and many other definitions exist, but this is what I mean by the term orgasm.
Lets break down my definition into its constituent parts to understand what we mean:
- The first, and perhaps by now obvious, point is what the definition does not contain: an orgasm is not defined by an ejaculation . Women do not ejaculate when they have orgasms (at least not the majority of them, but that is a topic for a different day). You too, can have an orgasm without ejaculating.
- An orgasm is pleasurable , and so is an orgasm that is not accompanied by an ejaculation. My own experience is that it is more pleasurable to the point of bliss - and it usually lasts longer. Although the length of the orgasm varies, it is invariably longer than the five or six seconds of an ejaculatory orgasm.
- Whilst this kind of orgasm is undoubtedly sexual , it is not purely genital. My experience is that the pleasure typically radiates out in waves from the genital area and into the rest of the body and the brain. Typically your whole body will tingle, your skin will have goose bumps all over, and your mind will experience a sense of intense euphoria.
- As in the case of an ejaculatory orgasm, you will find that the level of your pleasure grows as you are stroking yourself, until it reaches a high point, or climax . The climax lasts longer than with an ejaculatory orgasm in most cases, and I typically experience it as waves of pleasure that move through my body in rhythm with my breathing. If you wish to think of a climax as a mountaintop, this kind of orgasm is like a hilly plateau on the summit.
- After the climax there is a definite release of tension or satisfaction. Now we all know that feeling of release or satisfaction when we ejaculate. Women also know it, although they normally do not ejaculate. Many men masturbate because they need that sense of release of tension, and in particular sexual tension. This is equally true of an orgasm with or without ejaculation.
Perhaps the most striking feature of a non-ejaculatory orgasm what distinguishes it in fact - is that as soon as it is over, you can start masturbating again, and reach another orgasm within minutes. You will probably also find that the next orgasm will be more intense and pleasurable than the previous, and the one after that even more so. Not only that, but you will also find that the interval between orgasms becomes shorter. In other words, you will come more quickly every time. This often reaches a point where you will reach an orgasm within seconds of the previous one, and it becomes difficult to distinguish one from the other.
It is possible for you to orgasm without ejaculating. That will make it possible to have multiple orgasms throughout the day.
Chapter Two: How I learnt to masturbate to ejaculation - properly
In order to understand how to masturbate in a multi-orgasmic way, I think it is important first to learn how to masturbate properly to ejaculation. I think that one reason most men battle to have multi-orgasmic sex is because they have not learnt how properly to masturbate to ejaculation the right way. I know this perhaps sounds like a contradiction: what is the point of learning how to masturbate to ejaculation, only in order to unlearn ejaculation?