THE EVERYTHING GET YOUR BABY TO SLEEP BOOK
Solve common problems so you can rest, too
Cynthia MacGregor
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MacGregor, Cynthia.
The everything get your baby to sleep book / Cynthia Macgregor.
p. cm. (An everything series book)
ISBN 1-59337-356-2
1. Infants Sleep. 2. Infants Care. 3. Sleep disorders in children. I. Title. II. Series: Everything series.
RJ506.S55M33 2005
649.122 dc22
2005011006
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Dear Reader,
My daughter, Laurel, was an easy baby to get to sleep at night, a baby who gave me only a few bad nights of floor-pacing (me), screaming (her), and crying (both of us). As I talked to other parents, though, I learned that many others had a much tougher time of it. The parents who told me these stories were often at their wits' end. Not only were they concerned about their babies not getting enough sleep, but they were also concerned about themselves. It's tough to parent well or work well on three hours' sleep.
In the years since then, I've become an author and getting your baby to sleep is clearly a topic of wide interest. You don't have to be a researcher to figure that out just a mom who's exchanged horror stories with other moms.
So for all parents out there whose babies won't go to sleep, or stay asleep, or have other sleep-related problems, I've written a book that I hope will help.
From now on, when you say Good night to your little one, you can mean it. It will be a good night!
Cynthia MacGregor
Dedication
To my daughter, Laurel, now grown and a mother herself, and to the memory of my mother, Yvonne.
Welcome to the EVERYTHING series!
THESE HANDY, accessible books give you all you need to tackle a difficult project, gain a new hobby, comprehend a fascinating topic, prepare for an exam, or even brush up on something you learned back in school but have since forgotten.
You can read an EVERYTHING book from cover to cover or just pick out the information you want from our four useful boxes: e-facts, e-ssentials, e-alerts, and e-questions. We literally give you everything you need to know on the subject, but throw in a lot of fun stuff along the way, too.
We now have well over 300 EVERYTHING books in print, spanning such wide-ranging topics as weddings, pregnancy, wine, music, one-pot cooking, managing people, and so much more. When you're done reading them all, you can finally say you know EVERYTHING!
Facts: Important sound bytes of information
Essentials: Quick and handy tips
Alerts!: Urgent warnings
Questions?: Solutions to common problems
Acknowledgments
I couldn't have written this without the help of a dear friend and very talented writer. Huge thanks to Jesse Leaf.
Top Ten Baby Sleep Questions You Can Solve after Reading This Book
How do I get my child to sleep at night?
How do I get him to sleep through the night?
Why does she seem to stop breathing sometimes when she sleeps?
How can I cope? I've had only two hours' sleep!5. How do I get my baby to nap?
My baby moves around and makes noises in her sleep. Is she getting a good rest?
My baby sleeps more in the daytime than at night. What do I do?
How can I tell when my baby is ready to go to sleep?
Which is better to keep him on a routine or to put him to bed when he seems tired?
If she wakes up during the night and she was fed only an hour ago, should I give her a bottle to help her get back to sleep?
Introduction
WHEN YOU SAY GOOD NIGHT to your baby, do you say it through clenched teeth, knowing the night is going to be anything but good? Has getting your baby to sleep for the night become a major struggle or a complicated routine? Is the middle of the night in your household a torture of interrupted sleep, hours spent with a crying baby, or at best an awake baby, placid but definitely not sleeping? Is your baby's sleep schedule radically impairing your own, preventing you from getting anything close to your full complement of sleep? Are your eyes red and your nerves frayed? Are you and your spouse dragging your way through the days, suffering from a serious sleep deficit and wondering when it will end?
It ends now with this book. It ends with you learning techniques and plans for getting your baby to go to sleep at night when you want him to, without your having to drive him around and around the block in your car, stay in his room with him for two hours, or go through any other complex routine. Of course, if he's very young, he'll still wake up for feedings during the night at first, but he'll soon learn how to go back to sleep once he's full, instead of remaining awake. With the aid of this book, you'll learn how to help him get himself back to sleep when he wakes up for any reason.
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