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Marylee MacDonald - Surrender

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Her young life changed in an instant. Now she shares her story with the child she gave away.

Adopted at birth, Marylees parents told her she was a chosen child. She tried her hardest to be a model daughter, but divorce sent her into the comforting arms of a handsome Catholic boy.

He was Romeo and she was a modern-day Juliet. Starry-eyed, she surrendered to passion. Unfortunately, it was 1961. Pregnant girls were sent away, and their babies given up for adoption.

Nature vs. nurture: Which plays a greater role in who we become? The family we were raised in, or the parents we never knew?

In telling her adult son the story of his birth, can the narrator find compassion for her own wounded inner child?

If you like truthful accounts laced with the passion of youth and the wisdom of age, read Marylee MacDonalds funny and poignant memoir about how we grow up, grow old, and learn to accept ourselves.

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Copyright 2020 by Marylee MacDonald All rights reserved No part of this - photo 1

Copyright 2020 by Marylee MacDonald.

All rights reserved. No part of this publication may be reproduced, distributed or transmitted in any form or by any means, including photocopying, recording, or other electronic or mechanical methods, without the prior written permission of the publisher, except in the case of brief quotations embodied in critical reviews and certain other noncommercial uses permitted by copyright law. For permission requests and volume discounts, write to the publisher, Grand Canyon Press, 233 E. Southern, #27733, Tempe, AZ 85285.

www.grandcanyonpress.com

Publishers Note: This memoir reflects the authors life faithfully rendered to the best of her ability. Some names and identifying details have been changed to protect the privacy of others.

Cover Design: Marylee MacDonald

Names: MacDonald, Marylee, author.

Title: Surrender : a memoir of nature, nurture, and love / Marylee MacDonald.

Description: First edition. | Tempe, AZ : Grand Canyon Press, [2020] | Includes bibliographical references.

Identifiers: ISBN: 978-1-951479-29-9 (Paperback) | 978-1-951479-30-5 (Ebook - ePIB) | 978-1-951479-31-2 (Ebook - Adobe PDF) | 978-1-951479-32-9 (Ebook - EPUB) | 978-1-951479-33-6 (Ebook - iBook) | 978-1-951479-34-3 (Ebook - Mobipocket) | 978-1-951479-35-0 (Downloadable audio file)


Subjects: LCSH: Adoptees--United States--Biography. | Unmarried mothers--United States--Biography. | Autobiography--Women authors. | Adoption--Psychological aspects. | Birth parents--United States--Identification. | Adopted children--United States--Identification. | Nature and nurture. | Dysfunctional families. | Adult children of dysfunctional families. | Mothers and daughters. | Man-woman relationships. | Interpersonal relationships. | Resilience (Personality trait) | Self-actualization (Psychology) | LCGFT: Autobiographies.


Classification: LCC: HV874.82.M33 S87 2020 | DDC: 362.734/092--dc23

Praise for Marylee MacDonald

Surrender offers a powerful saga of family and blood bonds, and is highly recommended reading that should be in any family issues collection and on the reading list of anyone interested in the lasting impact of an adoption choice and process on everyone involved.

Diane Donovan for Midwest Book Review

Although this is a work of nonfiction, I was thrilled that Marylee approached this book like she was writing a novel. This helped to make her story more intriguing and engaging for me. I often had to be reminded by the images in the book that I wasn't reading a novel.

Jachike Samuelson for Online Book Club

an extraordinary story.

Jamie Michele for Readers Favorites

from the very first page, one feels the heartbeat of the narrator.

Ruffina Oserio for Readers Favorites

Surrender is a gripping and defiant memoir about personal identity and motherhood.

Samantha Ann Ehle for Clarion Reviews

A touching personal account of a journey to understanding and acceptance; informative and unsettling.

Kirkus Reviews

Surrender is a fine memoir that speaks to the very essence of our evolution as women in modern America. MacDonald adds a puzzle piece that illustrates both how far weve come and how far we still have to go.

Story Circle Book Reviews

Also by Marylee MacDonald Bonds of Love and Blood Body Language The Rug Bazaar - photo 2
Also by Marylee MacDonald

Bonds of Love and Blood

Body Language

The Rug Bazaar

Montpelier Tomorrow

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For John and Michelle

Whole societies have an astonishing ability to deny the pastnot really forgotten, but maintaining a public culture that seems to have forgotten.... These forms of knowing shade into the archetypal open secret: known by all but knowingly not known.

STANLEY COHEN, author of States of Denial:

Knowing About Atrocities and Suffering

Contents

Nature vs. Nurture

The House of Shrouded Mirrors

The Crying Baby

Collage

The Search

Reunion

The Request

An Adoptees Childhood

The Christmas Chick

Wrongful Death

The Chosen Child

Peaches

Vera Cruz

Life Among Aliens

Blood Money

Fog

Romeo and Juliet

Public-School Girl

Tillies Party

Friar John

Making Out

Disaster

A Visit to the Doctor

Homework

The Meeting

Paperwork

Going Away

Phoenix

Heat

Lingerie

The Crittenton Mission

The Waiting Room

Pam

The Card Table

Diane

Roonay

Clinic

A Voice from Home

Marianne

Amber

Thanksgiving

Signed Out

Dark Night of the Soul

Catholic Charities

Therapy

Changing of the Guard

Developmental Tasks

Banana Split

The Rug

Chris-Town Mall

From Monday

Movie Night

The Kitchen

The IQ Test

Dwarves

Festivities

Christmas

Johns Visit

Birth

Surrender

So Called Normal Life

Driving Home

Skyline

The Dream of West Point

My Senior Year

Bruce and Me

Thanksgiving

Seattle

Part I
Nature vs. Nurture
This studio photograph was taken in 1969 Pictured left to right are Bobby - photo 3

This studio photograph was taken in 1969. Pictured left to right are Bobby MacDonald, John and Marylee MacDonald, Teddy MacDonald, and Jackie MacDonald.

John Michael the couples youngest was born seven months after his fathers - photo 4

John Michael, the couples youngest, was born seven months after his fathers death.

Chapter 1
The House of Shrouded Mirrors

W hen I was sixteen and not yet wise enough to know what it meant to have a child and lose him, I surrendered my firstborn son. He was adopted. For the years of his youth, he was my ghost child. On good days I imagined him biking to the library or knocking helmets in a Pop Warner game. On bad days I pictured him dying and in need of a bone marrow transplant. I had never held him, not even as a newborn, and I had only briefly seen his face. Two years after his birth, I married his father, and we had four more children, full siblings to my absent child. When he turned twenty-one, I searched for him.

Back in 1962, when a mother surrendered a child, she signed a waiver that stripped her of her legal right to know anything more about her baby. She could not know his name or even whether he had been adopted. And yet, as an adoptee myself, I knew firsthand the difficulties of assembling an identity without the crucial, and missing, pieces that came from DNA.

From an early age, I knew I did not fit with the family that had adopted me. There was something inside me, trying to come out. I didnt know what it was, but growing up, I sensed my parents watching and waiting for the real me to emerge.

Why did I suspect that inside lurked a more authentic self? The little jokes they told. The innuendos that I did not then understand. All of these had to do with my genetic heritage. Rather than confirm my feeling of belonging to them, my adoptive familys speculative asides hinted at the oppositethat I was not

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