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He's Lying Sis: Uncover the Truth Behind His Words and Actions by Stephan Labossiere or famously known as Stephan Speaks is a book about relationships. It gives women the answers for their relationship questions, such as if they have suspicions and distrusts in the relationship. The book also helps women who have observed that there's a massive disconnect with her man's words to his actions find the correct explanation. It also discusses why some men say one thing but act on the complete opposite.

In the first volume of the book's ongoing series, Stephan Labossiere shows single women how to recognize and avoid the men's pitfalls that would sometimes lead to heartbreaks and getting hurt. He shares some dating advice and tips that will help women stay away from the drama that men who tell lies produce. Stephan said that women deserve to know the truth behind the lies men made and the reasons why they lie in the first place. He wanted women to understand how to avoid the traps and negative cycles that were caused by the lies men made and the lack of clarity in a relationship. The book gives women a confirmation on what is best for them to do to create a much healthier communication with men and achieve better relationships.

Stephan stated in his book that he knows a lot of women who experienced deceit and lack of transparency in their relationship. He added to say that there are lots of frustrating situations with men because of men's unwillingness to be more open and honest with women. These come with questions from women on why these men struggle to be more honest and just tell the truth. He argued that lying is not just a man's issue, though, and that people are lying in general. However, he just wants women to understand the reasons why these men lie. The first thing that he said is that men cannot get what they want if they tell the truth. The reality is that if a man felt like he could be honest while still getting what he wants, then he will be honest. Stephan even gave an example scenario where women would say if a man will just be honest about his sexual intentions since from the start. He said that sometimes if women are willing to do the favor, then everything can go smoothly. The truth, however, is that men have done that but failed miserably. Men have seen and experienced that when they act upfront about their sexual desires, it doesn't get them anywhere. There might be some situations that work out in their favor, but most of the time, it doesn't go well. Men will detour to get to the outcome they want. Stephan noted that he is not saying whether it be right or wrong, but he is merely just explaining the motivation behind why some men lie.

Stephan also noted that men lie because women keep believing the men's lies. He said that when a man feeds the woman his story and his lies, the woman believes him because she wants so severely hold onto him and give him the benefit of the doubt. Stephan noted that men will keep lying if women will keep accepting it and will make a man think of not having a reason to come clean and be honest. He continued to say that women should address calmly and lovingly the wrong things that they sense because attacking somebody won't result in something good. Stephan stated that when a woman attacks a man because of his lies, it won't make the man more forthcoming and honest. He mentioned the women's intuition that women should believe in. Stephan said that women's intuitions are telling women something is wrong and would pick on the inconsistencies and red flags that exist with these kinds of men. He just wants women to know the role that they play and to trust their intuitions as it is a blessing.

According to Stephan, some of the men who lie lack maturity and are selfish. Many times, women are internalizing men's lies when, in fact, it is not about the women but about the men themselves. It is about men's unwillingness to face the undesired outcome and deal with the confrontation that comes with the situation. Stephan insisted that these men have more in-depth issues, so they struggle with being honest. To conclude his story, Stephan wanted women to know what's best for them because he believes that the truth will empower women to live out the best of their lives.

Stephan Labossiere, or more famously known as Stephan Speaks, is a certified relationship coach, author, and speaker. He has been invited for some speaking engagements in some media outlets such as ABC, the Tom Joyner Morning Show, Huffington Post Live, and the Examiner.

Stephan is a man on a mission to create happier and fulfilling relationships. He takes every favorable circumstance to help men and women overcome the challenges that burden their relationship. He gives relationship advice and insights to make people understand the opposite sex and avoid the traps in a relationship that could also hinder self-growth. Stephan is dedicated to empowering many people to be in charge of the difficult situations blocking the love they are seeking. He is devoted to making impactful changes to people's lives. Stephan has an international following of singles and couples, as he is widely known for his ability to drive away from the myths that cause relationship problems. An individual who attended one of his talks called Stephan as the relationship guy.

Stephan stated that he has been speaking with women from time to time who seek advice. Most of them, as Stephan said, wanted to figure out where they stand in a relationship. Stephan calls it the "situationships." Some of the women asked why men say they love them but don't show it or act on it. Others needed to know why they work like their boyfriends but does not want to make their relationship official. A few of the women also question why some men can't let go of their women and move on to their lives but do not want to marry them. Stephan shared that he leaps on a consult with the women and talk about their in-depth relationships. It usually ends with Stephan informing the women about the truth behind these men's words and how the male mind works. Stephan said that his conversation with the women frequently ends with telling them that these men are lying. He noted, though, that the answer is just a simple one, but women still ask him a follow-up question. They ask him why is it that if men are not really interested in them, doesn't plan on taking them seriously, or does not have plans of making them their wives, then why would these men not just tell the truth? Stephan said that the answer to that is very long and gave his interpretation of that in an article. However, after writing the short article entitled He Says he loves you but doesn't show it, he came to realize that the topic about why men lie deserved to be in a book. He said that the reason why he wrote the book is to answer all the woman's questions behind the men's actions and why, at times, their actions do not match with their words. The book will also help women know the difference between each man's intentions so they could focus on those men that could also provide them the type of love that they deserve. Through the book, Stephan wants all people to understand what a real relationship truly means.