Labossiere Stephan - The Man God Has For You: 7 Traits To Help You Determine Your Life Partner

7 Traits to Help You Determine Your Life Partner

Copyright 2017 by Stephan Labossiere
Stephan Speaks LLC
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Preface

Im sure youre wondering why I wrote this book. Well, to make a long story short, God told me so. And I mean that genuinely.

I dont proceed with any project unless Ive prayed and asked God if I should move forward, and if this is what He wants me to do. Even before I write a chapter, I pray to make sure I say what God wants and that I provide information that can help, uplift, enlighten, and encourage you. This is not only my purpose, but also my goal with this book.

The next reason is to offer a form of guidance, from a mans perspective, on how to navigate relationships as a woman of God. Youve heard on many occasions that a man is supposed to protect and provide and you may have been taught this; however, a lot of women have not been protected and provided for. There are many woman, and it could be you, who have not received proper manl y guidance and advice. Guidance and advice that doesnt encourage you to compromise who you are, or provide onesided views on how men and women should operate in relationships. Advice from men who desire to see you do well; to shield and protect you from nonsense, as well as, offer insight on best practices to help you navigate through life. The security of knowing this man (or men) offering you guidance and advice has your back.

Thats who I want to be for you.

I want to be the man who has your back, the guy who gives you loving guidance. The man who works to protect you mentally, emotionally, and spiritually from getting caught up in situations I know will cause more damage and keep you off the path where you belong.

I dont want that for you.

Its an important focal point with every book I write. Each book represents pieces to a puzzle designed to make sure you get what you deserve and experience the life that God setup for you.

Also, I understand people struggle with relationships and I want to be able to breakdown every aspect. I dont believe in just writing one book and trying to mash everything into it. What you will experience are different books that cover different aspects of the puzzle that helps you see the bigger picture. Its all created to ensure you receive whats best, as long as you embrace the information and be willing to do your part in the process.

I want to see you win.

Period.

Point blank.

I no longer want to see you hurting or lacking. I want to witness you getting everything you deserve. This is the reason why I wrote this book.

I can hear the questions now, what about the men, the men need help too? Youre absolutely correct! I have books for men and theyre available if they CHOOSE to invest. Ill always be willing to encourage and help them. However, Im going to be honest YOU are my priority.

Women have an amazing power that is gravely important to and in this world. My mission to help you heal and get back on track can have such a profound impact on society. You are our mothers, sisters, and wives. Collectively, your influence is greater than you realize. Even if none of those roles apply, be you a friend, or in your daytoday behavior; your energy is huge. I recognize its importance. I can heal onehundred men and those hundred men may be unable to heal one woman. However, I can heal one woman and her energy has the power to impact those hundred men and more.

And you may not understand or fully agree; however, Im telling you, as a man whose coached individuals for over nine years, I can attest to your capabilities as a woman and its important to protect and nurture this, as well as assure you are in the right place to exude this power.

Thats the why.

Plain and simple.

Introduction

Does God really have a man just for me? If so, where is he, when is he coming and what in the world is taking his behind so long!

Im sure thats what youre thinking and I understand how you feel. Waiting on the man God has for you can be annoying, frustrating, and at times, you feel hopeless. Its not an easy path to walk. However, when done right, it will without a doubt, provide the most benefit.

Does God really have a man just for you? Well to be honest, the answer is yes and no.

No, because your actions can have an impact on whether you receive him or not. The idea of a soulmate, a person youre guaranteed to be with is simply not true. We all make decisions in life, and unfortunately many people make choices that block them from being with the person whos best for them.

Notice I said the person whos best for them.

This is where I believe the term soulmate can be applied. Its the yes when determining if God really has a man just for you. God knows the people who will walk into your life, as well as those who will align with your purpose and have successful relationships with you. Hell embrace any choice you make. But what you believe is a good choice may not be Gods choice. Many of you are familiar with the phrase wait for your Boaz. For those who arent, heres a quick explanation.

Boaz is a biblical character from the Book of Ruth who becomes Ruths husband. Part of her story speaks to her experience of receiving a good man and is often used as reference for single women who hope to one day marry. The phrase itself is symbolic of saying, wait on the man God has for you. Ruths story shows proof that when you move forward in obedience, patience, and faith, you can receive the blessings that await you.

So again, does God have a man that is just for you?

Well, to be technical, if you read 1 Corinthians 11:19 KJV it states,

Neither was the man created for the woman; but the woman for the man.

Basically, you were created to be a blessing to a man who puts God first. Not that this is your only purpose, but with regard to relationships, this is the dynamic. Ultimately, you have to be able to recognize who is worthy of you as their blessing and whos your best fit. What Im going to discuss in this book will help you recognize the qualities that need to be in place before you move forward with a man of interest, as well as a glimpse into the work that must be done on your end for him to receive you.

As you continue to read through this guide, I want you to pray about what you read. I dont expect you to take my word as bond simply because Im Stephan the relationship coach or Stephan who has all these followers on social mediano. I want you to accept what I say because youve gone to God, asked him about it, and hes given you the green light. And this isnt specific to this book, its for everything. Even when the pastor tells you something, or when someone comes into your life and prophesies over you. For the friend that offers you advice, or anyone who gives you information, go back to God and verify. Be sure that the information is for you. Dont just walk away with a persons word or guidance. We are not God.