Mimi Ikonn - The Bingo Theory: A revolutionary guide to love, life, and relationships.

DEDICATION

To Alex Ikonn.

My best friend and life partner.

Thank you for coming into my life and teaching

me what true unconditional love means.

I love you for eternity and beyond.

P.S. You are my Bingo <3

CONTENTS

ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS

THIS BOOK would have never come to life if it wasnt for the encouragement and contribution of so many people.

First and foremost I would like to thank my soulmate and life partner, Alex, with your support I believe anything is possible. Our loving, unconditional and effortless relationship has played a significant role in my desire to write The Bingo Theory. Thank you for not letting me give up on this book in my moments of despair and being my lighthouse in moments of darkness. My parents, Lala and Suleyman, whose relationship I have researched and observed since I can remember myself. My sister, Leyla, for always believing in my crazy ideas and providing a helping hand when needed. My dearest friend, Aysel Musayeva, with whom I spent countless hours talking about love and relationships. It is our endless conversations that lead to the idea of this book.

UJ Ramdas, a close friend and a business partner who always encourages me to get outside of my comfort zone. Thank you UJ, for pushing me into creating this body of work and also providing your valuable guidance throughout the whole process. Also, I would like to thank my friends, Jerome Jarre and Tai Lopez, who both believed in The Bingo Theory as soon as they heard about it and urged me to write this book.

After my family and friends, there is a talented team of people who have helped me create this book. I remember the day we talked about the idea of the Bingo Theory over dinner with Marianne Power, I knew she was going to help me write this book. I am so grateful that Marianne took on this project and helped me make this book a reality. I would like to thank our talented illustrator, Alina Grinpauka for creating beautiful illustrations for the book and my assistant at the time, Zane Jurjane for being my right hand in this project.

A super special thanks to all the people who have shared their life stories for the purpose of the research of this book and are presented as the case studies. You know who you are, I am deeply grateful for all of you and the contribution you have made to The Bingo Theory.

Lastly, I would like to thank the idea of this book for choosing me to bring it into this world. I am truly honored you have selected me, we had a lot of fun together and now it is time to set you free. Thank you for changing my life and my world.

"The Pentacle - The ancients envisioned their world in two halves - masculine and feminine. Their gods and goddesses worked to keep a balance of power. Yin and Yang. When male and female were balanced, there was harmony in the world. When they were unbalanced there was chaos."

- DAN BROWN, THE DA VINCI CODE

INTRODUCTION

ARE YOU THE KIND of person who finds it hard to sit still and relax? Do you feel lazy and guilty if youre not working through a to-do list? Do you pride yourself on this? Are you secretly a control freak who likes everything to go your wayyet you often feel stressed, anxious and restless?

Or perhaps your issues are just the opposite. Is inaction your problem? Do you struggle to get your life sorted out? Do you find it hard to stand up for yourself and know what to do next? Are your finances a mess? Do you constantly doubt yourself?

I believe that most people in the world fall into one of those two camps. They either cant stop or they cant get going. Theyre either controlling or chaotic.

Knowing which camp you fall into, will reveal a lot about your strengths and your weaknesses in your relationships. And, lets face it, you didnt pick up this book because everything is going perfect in your life, did you?

So which of these two camps are you in?

Every single human on this planet has two energies living within them: the masculine and the feminine.

The masculine energy helps us to operate in the outer world; it makes us strong, independent, and confident.

The feminine energy, on the other hand, helps us love and connect to others. Its what makes us creative and intuitive.

However, for most of us, one of these energies will be stronger in usand this has a huge effect on how we approach the world.

If you have more of the masculine energy, you will be the kind of person who finds it hard to stop. Youre probably ambitious, hard-working and logical, but you can also be a bit of a judgmental control freak.

On the other hand, if you have a lot of feminine energy, you are caring and fun but you find it hard to get your act together. And you can be a push over. You struggle to make decisions and get things done.

All of this has nothing to do with your biological sex. You can be a man with a lot of feminine energy and you can be a woman with a lot of masculine energy.

This is just energy. Yin and yang.

This book is about how to balance the masculine and feminine energies within you so that you can live life to the fullest.

I call this a Bingo.

Why Bingo?

Well, weve all played the game and some of us have had the joy of being able to shout out Bingo! when weve had that winning combination.

Thats what this is abouthaving the winning combination of masculine and feminine energy.

This combination makes you a winner in life. It makes you the fullest version of yourself. You can then look at yourself in the mirror and feel at peace with what you see, because you have a much deeper understanding and acceptance of who you are.

It also makes you a winner in love.

Think about it. Romantically, women will say they want a man who is strong and ambitious, yet kind and sensitive. Men want a woman who is sexy and playful, yet down to earth and intelligent. What theyre describing is a Bingo!

Dont you want to be someones Bingo? Do you want to find someone who makes you so excited you want to yell Bingo! when they walk in the room? This isnt just about bedding someone. Its about really being with someonethe right someoneby using the principles of masculine and feminine energies.

In this book you will:

Discover the groundbreaking medical research that has proven that, biologically, we are all a blend of masculine and feminine strengths.

Take a quiz that helps you to determine if your strength energy is masculine or feminine. This alone is a huge eye opener. It will allow you to see clearly what amazing strengths you posses and will also highlight the areas you need to work on.

Learn simple, actionable tips to help you balance your energies.

Learn how to attract a Bingo relationship if you are single.

Learn how to transform your existing relationships (whether romantic or otherwise) using the principles of masculine and feminine energies.