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The ability to persuade, influence and convince is a vital skill for success in work and life. However, most of us have little idea how to argue well. Indeed, arguing is still seen by many as something to be avoided at all costs, and mostly its done poorly, or not at all. Yet its possibly the most powerful and yet most neglected asset you could have. Discover the art of arguing powerfully, persuasively and positively and youll have a head start every time you want to: Get your point across effectively Persuade other people to your way of thinking Keep your cool in a heated situation Win people over Get what you want Tackle a difficult person or topic Be convincing and articulate Have great confidence when you speak In How to Argue, leading lawyer Jonathan Herring reveals the secrets and subtleties of making your case and winning hearts and minds. At home or at work, youll be well equipped to make everything you say have the desired effect, every time.

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How to Argue

Powerfully, Persuasively, Positively

Jonathan Herring

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2012 by Jonathan Herring
Published by Pearson Education, Inc.
Publishing as FT Press
Upper Saddle River, New Jersey 07458

Authorized adaptation from the original UK edition, entitled How to Argue by Jonathan Herring, published by Pearson Education Limited, Jonathan Herring 2011.

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ISBN-10: 0-13-298093-2
ISBN-13: 978-0-13-298093-7

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Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data

Herring, Jonathan.
How to argue powerfully, persuasively, positively / Jonathan Herring.
p. cm.
ISBN 978-0-13-298093-7 (pbk. : alk. paper)
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Introduction

Do you hate arguments and avoid them at all costs? Or do you just find that you keep losing them? Perhaps even when you win, somehow you feel it has all been counter-productive?

If so, this is the book for you. It will teach you how to argue well. Youll discover how you can get your points across in a clear and effective way. It will also help you to develop techniques so that you can respond to the arguments of others equally effectively.

Some people love arguments (lawyers and small children in particular). But most people flee them. Sometimes thats a good thing, but often it isnt. Avoiding an argument can mean that the problem simply goes on and is brushed under the rug. The suppressed resentment can poison a relationship or fill a workplace with tension.

In this book we will look at more positive ways of understanding arguments. They neednt be about shouting or imposing your will on someone. A good argument shouldnt involve screaming, squabbling or fistfights, even though too often it does. Shouting matches are rarely beneficial to anyone. Instead, we should view the ability to argue well as an art and a skill.

The ability to argue calmly, rationally and well is a real asset at work and in life. It can sharpen your thinking, test your theories, get you what you want. In any case, its impossible to avoid arguments. So you need to learn how to argue well. Arguments can be positive. A good argument between friends can be fun and enlivening. An argument can get matters out in the open so that issues can be dealt with and there are no hidden grudges. Sometimes an argument is necessary to ensure that we get what we are entitled to: if you never argue in favor of a pay raise, you might never get one!

Arguments should be about understanding other people better, sharing ideas and finding mutually beneficial ways ahead. Arguing has sometimes gotten a bad rap. But thats because people often argue badly. That must stop!

The aim of argument, or of discussion, should not be victory but progress.

Karl Popper

Arguing should lead to a better understanding of another persons point of view and a better understanding of your own. Many people go through their lives simply not understanding how anyone could be a socialist, believe in God, support foxhunting, or enjoy French films. This happens because theyve not discussed these issues with people with whom they disagree. Theyve not presented their views and had them tested by others. Its astounding how many preconceptions people have about those who are different from them. Its amazing, I met a Libetarian supporter the other day and they were quite nice, a friend once said to me. Its only by talking to other people who disagree with you that your own responses become clearer and you can better appreciate the views of others.

This book is in two parts. The first will set out what I call the Ten Golden Rules of Argument. These are rules that can be relevant in a whole range of situations: from arguments with a boss, to arguments with a partner, to arguments with your plumber. Theyll even work if your partner is the plumber! In the second part I will look at particular situations where arguments commonly arise. Well put the golden rules into practice.

Part 1: The ten golden rules of argument

In this part I will introduce you to the Ten Golden Rules of Argument. These will help you in any argument you come across. Once you have understood them you will be able to argue well with whoever you encounter. The golden rules apply to arguments anywhere: at home, at work, at play, or even in the bath!

Chapter 1. Golden Rule 1: Be prepared

Those Boy Scouts are on to something. Being prepared for an argument is key to success. Sometimes arguments come out of the blue. But not always. It may be that you realize a difficult business meeting or conversation is going to take place, in which case being prepared is a real advantage.

What do you want?

Before starting an argument think carefully about what it is you are arguing about and what it is you want. This may sound obvious. But its crucially important. What do you really want from this argument? Do you want the other person just to understand your point of view? Or are you seeking a tangible result? If its a tangible result, you must ask yourself whether the result you have in mind is realistic and whether its obtainable. If its not realistic or obtainable, then a verbal battle might damage a valuable relationship.

Imagine you would like a pay raise. You have arranged a meeting to discuss this with your manager. Think carefully about whether this is a realistic goal. Is it clear the company is making cutbacks and all budgets are being drastically reduced? If so, the likelihood of getting a raise is probably nil and theres little point asking for it. But are there other things you can do to achieve higher pay? Is there a promotion you can apply for? Increased training you can do? Can you offer to do something extra for the company? Think through the options before you enter the room. Always enter an argument with a clear view about what you want at the end.

Framing an argument

When preparing your argument, spend time thinking about how to present your point in a logical way. Admittedly, logic has a bad reputation.

Logic is the art of going wrong with confidence.

Joseph Krutch

People are often put off by references to logic. There is even suspicion that logic is some kind of clever trick to trip up those who are not trained in logic. In fact, theres no magic to it. True, professional logicians have developed rules of magnificent complexity, but everyday logic is not difficult to grasp.

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