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Learn how skillfully prizing kids (rather than mindlessly praising) can be a game changer in your relationship as a parent, teacher, or helper.Our culture is addicted to good job!--our all-purpose, feel-good, non-specific, or high-bar-setting verbal praise--especially when we talk to our kids. However, research shows that generic praise is insufficient and sometimes even backfires in nudging them toward their potential or helping kids navigate challenging moments. Praise can put too much emphasis on controlling results, and kids can experience it as pressure and learn to fear failing in adults eyes. By contrast, prizing is a game-changing mindset and set of specific skills that can help kids convert moments of emotional pain or stuckness into opportunities and possibilities for healthy change and growth. Prizing brings kids and adults together into a shared space in the present moment where conflict can dissolve, connection can thrive, and needed changes arise.In Prizeworthy, clinical psychologist Mitch Abblett introduces us to the skills of prizing and shows us what it looks like and how to do it in real-life situations. For example, techniques like SNAPPing Out of Delusions of Outcome Control with Your Children or Light-Touch Goal-Setting with Your Kids add an important layer of validation, compassionate presence, and skillful action to your relationships. Abblett also shares stories of how prizing has made a real difference in the lives of young people, parents, and professionals. He offers a host of scientifically-sound mindfulness and positive psychology-based practices for cultivating prizing at home, and in educational and therapeutic settings.

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Praise for Prizeworthy

In his excellent new book Prizeworthy, Mitch Abblett takes central, time-tested themes woven through contemplative practice and transforms them into relatable, targeted methods to support childrens feelings of connection, resilience, and belonging. Perhaps the biggest surprise in the book, though, will be that prizing children builds parents and teachers feelings of connection, resilience, and belonging too.

Susan Kaiser Greenland, author of Mindful Games and The Mindful Child

In the Zulu tradition a person meeting another will first say Sawbanu, which means I see you. The person being greeted responds, Ngikhona, meaning I am here. This book beautifully shows how to fulfill this deep and essential wish for every childto be seen by the people who are truly present in their lives and to connect to the core of their own being as they grow and develop. What Mitch has created here is nothing less than an embodiment of the spirit of Sawbanu.

Kim John Payne, MEd, author of Being At Your Best When Your Kids Are At Their Worst, Simplicity Parenting, and The Soul of Discipline

Children need loving support more than ever as they navigate the challenges of the twenty-first century. In Prizeworthy, Mitch Abblett offers powerful tools for supporting kids with genuine presence. I highly recommend this book for parents, teachers, therapists, coaches, and anyone else with a passion for bringing out the best in young peopleby inviting the best from themselves.

Seth J. Gillihan, PhD, author of the CBT Deck for Kids and Teens

In the midst of uncertain and challenging times, how can we reassure ourselves were doing all we can to raise resilient, happy children? In Prizeworthy, Dr. Mitch Abblett offers a straightforward path that any parent can follow, providing understandable tools for staying present, emotionally supportive, and engaged so our children will be independent, resilient, and able to thrive.

Mark Bertin, MD, author of Mindful Parenting for ADHD and Mindfulness and Self-Compassion for Teen ADHD

Mitch Abblett, shares his experience, wisdom, and practical application to help us raise our kids to be the kind of humans that will ensure a better world.

Elisha Goldstein, PhD, author of Uncovering Happiness

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Shambhala Publications, Inc.

2129 13th Street

Boulder, Colorado 80302

www.shambhala.com

2021 by Mitch Abblett

Cover art and design: Amanda Weiss

Interior design: Claudine Mansour Design

All rights reserved. No part of this book may be reproduced in any form or by any means, electronic or mechanical, including photocopying, recording, or by any information storage and retrieval system, without permission in writing from the publisher.

Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data

Names: Abblett, Mitch, author.

Title: Prizeworthy: how to meaningfully connect, build character, and unlock the potential of every child / Mitch Abblett, PhD.

Description: Boulder: Shambhala, 2021.

Identifiers: LCCN 2021005758 | ISBN 9781611808766 (trade paperback)

eISBN9780834844025

Subjects: LCSH: Mindfulness (Psychology) | Anger in adolescence. | Interpersonal relations. | Parent and child. | Awards.

Classification: LCC BF637.M56 .A23 2021 | DDC 158.1/3dc23

LC record available at https://lccn.loc.gov/2021005758

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This book is dedicated to the memory of my graduate school mentor, Dr. Sandy Kerr. Sandyyou taught me that an empty, open palm can hold immense gifts.

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FOREWORD

If I had to choose three words to describe my early parenting yearswhen I had two daughters under the age of twothey would probably be exhaustion, love, and confusion.

So much confusion.

I wasnt sure how to feed the girls or get them to sleep through the night, when to start potty training, whether it was really OK to send them to daycare when I needed to go back to work, or how to choose the right preschool. I was filled with doubt about every decision I made and buried in shame each time I thought Id made the wrong one.

I sought out expert advice wherever I could find it, from random articles to expert authors who knew nothing about me and my family. And then when everything fell apart again (as it inevitably did), the cycle would start again.

It was a tough few years.

Eventually, I found my way to the world of mindfulness, and everything started to shift. I still had moments of anxiety and confusion, but instead of grasping for someone elses opinion about what I should do, I had a new place to go for information and wisdom: the present moment.

I know, I know. It sounds like such a clich, but stick with me. Theres so much to learn from any moment: whats going on with me, how my children are doing, and whats happening with our relationship. Each time I let go of the worries, fantasies, and fears that seem to follow me into so many parenting moments, I can get some clarity on whats working, whats not, and what we all need in order to move forward.

Dont get me wrong, there are definitely times when I show up to the present moment and realize that I have absolutely no idea whats going on or how to respond. And when that happens, I look for support and advice from the people who know me and my family and from experts I trust. Thats why I was so thrilled to get my hands on Mitch Abbletts new book, Prizeworthy: How to Meaningfully Connect, Build Character, and Unlock the Potential of Every Child.

In this book, Mitch takes some of my favorite parenting concepts and practices around mindfulness, compassion, connection, flexibility, and resilience and brings them together in one cohesive model: prizing.

As Mitch describes it, Prizing is a way of seeing and a way of being in the world with others, especially children. Prizing is when an adult stops whatever else they are doing, drops all their assumptions, expectations, and agendas, and expresses how much the apparent pain or bubbling up of possibility within a child simply matters. The adult gives the child a gift of their complete attention, their presence. It is the gift of feeling seen and felt, and it helps the childs own clear seeing, growing, risking, and loving of others become more possible.

I cant think of a more empathic and effective response to our children, regardless of what theyre struggling with or what they need. Its a simple practice but far from easy, which is why Im so grateful for all of the strategies in this book, such as grounding ourselves in the moment, holding onto our goals and ideas lightly, naming our pain, practicing compassionate silence, and focusing on presence over praise. (And if youre not sure what Im talking about, dont worrythats what the book is for!)

The ideas and practices in this book will not only help you feel less stressed and more present in parenting but also create a culture of emotional safety in your family, help your child learn to respond skillfully to their emotions, and strengthen your relationship in the process.

If youre feeling as lost in parenting as I was, please know youre not alone. Help is available, and Prizeworthy is a great place to start.

Carla Naumburg, PhD

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