Olivia Ghafoerkhan - Sexual Assault: The Ultimate Teen Guide

It Happened to Me

Series Editor: Arlene Hirschfelder

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50. Autism Spectrum Disorder: The Ultimate Teen Guide, by Francis Tabone, 2016.
51. Sexual Assault: The Ultimate Teen Guide, by Olivia Ghafoerkhan, 2016.

Sexual Assault

The Ultimate Teen Guide

Olivia Ghafoerkhan

It Happened to Me, No. 51

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Names: Ghafoerkhan, Olivia, 1982 author.

Title: Sexual assault : the ultimate teen guide / Olivia Ghafoerkhan.

Description: Lanham : Rowman & Littlefield, [2017] | Series: It happened to me ; No. 51 | Includes bibliographical references and index.

Identifiers: LCCN 2016020501 (print) | LCCN 2016031728 (ebook) | ISBN 9781442252479 (hardback : alk. paper) | ISBN 9781442252486 (electronic)

Subjects: LCSH: Sex crimesJuvenile literature. | Sexual abuse victimsServices forJuvenile literature. | Sexually abused teenagersServices forJuvenile literature.

Classification: LCC HV6556 .G5165 2017 (print) | LCC HV6556 (ebook) | DDC 362.8830835dc23

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Printed in the United States of America

To the survivors of sexual assault,

to those who work to end sexual violence, and

to those who help survivors recover.

It is my hope that this book will add to the amazing work

being done by such individuals,

and that it will bring comfort and hope to survivors.

Contents

Acknowledgments

T here are many people who contributed to making this book possible. I would like to thank Jodell Sadler, for putting me in contact with Rowman & Littlefield. A very special thanks goes to Arlene Hirschfelder, the series editor, for excellent feedback throughout this process. Thanks are due as well to Stephen Ryan, senior acquisitions editor; Andrea O. Kendrick, assistant editor; Jessica McCleary, assistant managing editor; and Jacqline Barnes, publicity and advertising. I greatly appreciate the help and support Ive received from everyone at Rowman & Littlefield. Additionally, thanks to copy editor Gail Fay for her enthusiasm and support.

The Rape, Abuse and Incest National Networks Speakers Bureau and Pandoras Project were both kind enough to put me in touch with survivors who so generously shared their stories. Thank you to both of those organizations. Additionally, thanks go to Survivors Chat for permitting me to post about this work via Twitter and reach survivors that way. I also want to thank all those who shared and retweeted information about this book through social media, which spread the word to additional survivors.