Emotionally Focused Therapy with African American Couples
Emotionally Focused Therapy with African American Couples: Love Heals is an essential guide that integrates emotionally focused therapy (EFT) with cultural humility. It provides a pathbreaking, evidence-based model of couples work that reinforces the bond between partners in the face of race-based distress.
Guillory explores and brings a deep understanding of the legacy of racial trauma and the cultural strengths of African American couples by using real-life case studies. The chapters in the book focus on several key clinical issues in the field, such as communication problems, anxiety, infidelity, depression, and porn. Each case study is enhanced by a consultation with EFT master therapist Sue Johnson.
The book is an essential text for students and mental health professionals looking to provide culturally competent therapeutic interventions. It will also appeal to psychologists, mental health workers, social workers, marriage and family therapists, and religious leaders.
Paul T. Guillory, PhD, is Associate Professor in the Psychology Department at the University of California, Berkeley, USA. He is a certified supervisor and therapist of emotionally focused therapy. He is also a former chairperson of the Northern California Community of Emotionally Focused Therapy.
This outstanding book provides therapists practicing EFT with African American couples with a deeper understanding of the cultural strengths as well as the legacy of racial trauma these couples may bring to therapy. Both experienced and new clinicians searching for ways to increase their cultural competency will be inspired by the vivid case examples as well as the discussions with Dr. Sue Johnson. This text will make a wonderful contribution to courses addressing couple and family therapy as well as diversity training in all mental health disciplines. It is a trailblazing book, and it will have a major impact on our field.
Nancy Boyd-Franklin, Ph.D., Distinguished Professor, Rutgers University; author of Black Families in Therapy: Understanding the African American Experience
The challenges of clinicians providing culturally informed therapeutic interventions to their clients has been made a little easier today by Guillorys text. A blending of the theoretical with the pragmatic, a meshing of the thinking with the authenticity of African-centered emotional connectedness and interdependence, and a synthesizing of the historical intergenerational trauma with the contemporary challenges of Black life in America into this EFT model make this volume a must have resource for mental health providers.
Thomas A. Parham, Ph.D., Distinguished Psychologist, Association of Black Psychologists; Fellow, APA
This unique clinical volume is essential reading for therapists seeking to provide effective couple therapy to African American clients! Guillory offers a compelling challenge and illustrates a powerful path forward. The challenge is to become culturally humble by learning about the bonds of African American love in hostile environments. The path forward is to integrate a cultural lens into the empirically validated Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) model.
Lorrie Brubacher, M.Ed., EFT therapist, supervisor, and trainer; author of Stepping into Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy: Key Ingredients of Change (2018, Routledge)
Emotionally Focused Therapy with African American Couples
Love Heals
Paul T. Guillory
First published 2022
by Routledge
605 Third Avenue, New York, NY 10158
and by Routledge
2 Park Square, Milton Park, Abingdon, Oxon, OX14 4RN
Routledge is an imprint of the Taylor & Francis Group, an informa business
2022 Paul T. Guillory
The right of Paul T. Guillory to be identified as author of this work has been asserted by him in accordance with sections 77 and 78 of the Copyright, Designs and Patents Act 1988.
All rights reserved. No part of this book may be reprinted or reproduced or utilised in any form or by any electronic, mechanical, or other means, now known or hereafter invented, including photocopying and recording, or in any information storage or retrieval system, without permission in writing from the publishers.
Trademark notice: Product or corporate names may be trademarks or registered trademarks, and are used only for identification and explanation without intent to infringe.
Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data
A catalog record for this book has been requested
ISBN: 978-0-367-37572-0 (hbk)
ISBN: 978-0-367-37573-7 (pbk)
ISBN: 978-0-429-35512-7 (ebk)
DOI: 10.4324/9780429355127
Typeset in Times New Roman
by Apex CoVantage, LLC
Contents
Paul T. Guillory and Case Discussion with Sue Johnson
Paul T. Guillory and Case Discussion with Sue Johnson
Ayanna Abrams with Paul T. Guillory and Case Discussion with Sue Johnson
Yamonte Cooper with Paul T. Guillory and Case Discussion with Sue Johnson
Denise Jones-Kazan with Paul T. Guillory and Case Discussion with Sue Johnson
Guide
Ella Baker, who said that if we give them light, people will find their own way, possessed a gift for listening andall the more strikingan understanding that her presence and attention could empower self-worth and a demand for dignity within the Black community, which faced dehumanizing racism and oppression. These abilities proved essential in her work in the formation of the U.S. civil rights movement and her unrelenting leadership of lifting others. Baker recognized that connecting to ones experience provided a starting point for change and transformation. In her words: Oppressed people, whatever their level of formal education, have the ability to understand and interpret the world around them, to see the world for what it is, and to transform it (Parker, 2020). In this way, her work anticipates the work of an EFT therapist to listen, to see what is, and to transform through the resilience and attachment resources in our clients world.
In Emotionally Focused Therapy with African American Couples, Dr. Paul T. Guillory has written a textbook that is rich with clinical vignettes, interventions, and expert consultations. This book takes us into the consulting room of EFT couples therapists who are strengthening bonds of love, healing relational wounds, and caring for the intergenerational impact of trauma. In the EFT tradition, Dr. Guillory and his EFT colleagues share with us vivid examples of EFT therapy in action. The integration of historically primed negative microaggressions into interventions creates new ground. This work is inspiring, and it informs us all about the unique experiences of African Americans and their strengths along with how to enhance and guide couples toward the resources of security and vulnerability.
Synthesizing cultural humility with an EFT viewpoint, Guillorys approach engages a cultural lens to inform the EFT process and increase the therapists awareness and attunement to the impact of racial stress, trauma, and threats to love that shape the experience and sharing of emotion. Dr. Guillorys revisiting the narratives of slave stories with an attachment lens is invaluable lesson for us all that helps us to see both the trauma and the love bond that existed and endured among enslaved human beings. There is a wonderful challenge that runs through this volume for all therapists who work with African American couples: to appreciate both the race-based history that has impacted African American couples and the power of their love to heal their relationships and themselves.