BEST
YOU
EVER
365 TO WAYS BE
Richer, Happier, Thinner, Smarter,
Younger, Sexier, and More
Relaxed Each and Every Day
Rebecca Swanner; Eve Adamson; Carolyn Dean, MD;
Rachel Laferriere, MS, RD; and Meera Lester
Copyright 2011 by F+W Media, Inc.
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Best you ever / Rebecca Swanner [et al.].
p. cm.
ISBN 978-1-4405-0657-4
1. Self-actualization (Psychology) 2. Conduct of life. 3. Health. 4.
Finance, Personal. I. Swanner, Rebecca.
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INTRODUCTION
You've taken stock of your life and realized you want to be a better you. Welcome to the club! We all have areas we could improve in, and this book is here to help you do just that. Whether you want to eat better, improve your memory, boost your wealth, have better sex, look younger, feel happier, or just be able to relax, this book has you covered. The tips in this book will inspire you and provide jumping-off points for your own life.
Each tip in the book is basic enough for you to integrate into your life right now, but how much you want to get involved is up to you. For instance, in this book, I recommend that you volunteer. You can volunteer once a month, once a year, or even a few times a week. Use these tips to enhance your life, not as a chore. Some of these ideas you've probably heard before, while others will be new to you. Don't overwhelm yourself by feeling like you have to start doing them all at once. Instead, pick a few of your favorites and work on those. Add new tips gradually. Each one will require you to alter your life at least a little, so it's best if you start slow.
Within this book you'll also find 365 quotes on everything from making money to making love. These are here to inspire you and for you to keep in mind as you start to make changes that transform your life. I hope you discover within these pages a few quotes that move you. Some may even become your personal mantras.
When it comes down to it the rules of having a happy life are simple: Surround yourself with great friends. Be good to others. Eat well, be active, and wear sunscreen. Take chances and take time for yourself. Enjoy every moment. Oh, and here's one more tip for leap years: get your nose out of your phone, look up, and engage with the world around you.
Best of luck on your journey.
WEEK ONE
MONDAY | BE RICHER
If you owe too much on American Express, and your Diner's Club notes are too hard, take a loan on your Visa, and pay it off with your MasterCard!
Nipsey Russell, Ode to Credit Cards, from Your Number's Up
Switch to Using Only Cash or Checks for a Year
If you're the type to whip out the plastic whenever you see something you like, try switching over to using only cash or checks for an entire year. When you make this change, you'll probably not only find it mentally harder to choose to purchase a nonnecessity item but also find that the amount your spending will feel more real. For online purchases and bills that you pay automatically each month, replace your credit card number with a debit card number so the money comes directly out of your checking.
But what are you going to do with your credit cards? Lend your cards to your spouse or put them in a safety deposit box or somewhere secure within your home. But if you're going out of town, make sure to take one credit card with you in case of emergency. In making this routine change to your daily life, your credit cards will be easily accessible in case of an emergency, but you can't reach for them whenever you see something you might want to buy, making it that much easier to stick to your budget and to put the leftover funds into savings.
BE HAPPIER | TUESDAY
Kindness is a language which the deaf can hear and the blind can see.
Mark Twain
Practice Random Acts of Kindness
When you're kind to others, you become happier. It doesn't take much to be nice, and even giving a sweet smile to a stranger as you pass by or holding the door open for the next person can brighten someone's day. Committing these simple acts of kindness sets in motion a positive domino effect, as you've improved another's life in a small but not insignificant way, and that person is now more likely to reach out and do the same.
By acting selflessly and paying kindness forward, you'll engage in positive social contact, feel less isolated, and might even feel a rush of those feel-good chemicals, endorphins, known as a helper's high.
Here are some ideas to get you started:
Pay for the coffee, toll, or other small purchase of the person in line behind you.
Allow someone with only a few groceries to go in front of you.
Share your umbrella with someone who is without one.
Help an older person up the stairs.
Walk your friend's dog if he or she is busy or ill.
Tip well.
Find a senior to connect with in your community.
Send a friend an unexpected card to show you're thinking of her or him.
WEDNESDAY | BE THINNER
Our food should be our medicine and our medicine should be our food.
Hippocrates
Make Nutrition a Priority
Admit it, you want to look better naked. Your first step to reaching that personal goal is adapting the way you eat to fit a healthy lifestyle.
Some people like to call adapting the way you eat a diet. I don't. That's because this is the way you should be eating whether you're overweight, underweight, or a healthy weight. A diet is a fad, and it's not sustainable for the rest of your life. On a diet you'll likely still want to indulge in comfort foods that don't add fuel to your body but do add inches to your waistline. And as you work to cut out those foods, you'll probably be pretty miserable.
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