Mark Foreman - Never Say No: Raising Big-Picture Kids

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. Henry Cloud and John Townsend, Raising Great Kids: A Comprehensive Guide to Parenting with Grace and Truth (Grand Rapids, MI: Zondervan, 1999).

. Philip B. Dembo, The Real Purpose of Parenting: The Book You Wish Your Parents Read (Los Angeles: Jacquie Jordan, 2011).

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. William Shakespeare, Henry the Eighth , prologue and act 3, scene 1 (goodness sake). Then adapted to Good for goodness sake in John Frederick Coots and Haven Gillespies Santa Claus Is Coming to Town (1934).

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. J. B. Phillips, Your God Is Too Small: A Guide for Believers and Skeptics Alike (New York: Touchstone, 2004), 31.

. D. Ross Campbell, The Foundation, chap. 3 in How to Really Love Your Child (Wheaton, IL: Victor Books, 1977).

. Rudolf Dreikurs and Vicki Soltz, The Childs Mistaken Goals, chap. 4 in Children: The Challenge (New York: Plume, 1990).

. Stephen R. Covey, The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People: Powerful Lessons in Personal Change (New York: Free Press, 2004), 298.

. Charles E. Hummel, Tyranny of the Urgent , rev. ed. (Downers Grove, IL: InterVarsity, 1994), 4.

. Henry Cloud and John Townsend, Raising Great Kids: A Comprehensive Guide to Parenting with Grace and Truth (Grand Rapids, MI: Zondervan, 1999), 26.

. James E. Loder, The Logic of the Spirit: Human Development in Theological Perspective (San Francisco: Jossey-Bass, 1998), 91.

. Henry Cloud and John Townsend, Raising Great Kids: A Comprehensive Guide to Parenting with Grace and Truth (Grand Rapids, MI: Zondervan, 1999), 68.

. James E. Loder, The Transforming Moment , 2nd ed. (Colorado Springs: Helmers & Howard, 1989), 175.

. Cloud and Townsend, Raising Great Kids , 29.

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. C. S. Lewis, Surprised by Joy: The Shape of My Early Life (Orlando: Harvest, 1955), 207.

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. Christo Pantev et al., Increased Auditory Cortical Representation in Musicians, Nature , April 23, 1998.

. Daniel J. Levitin, This Is Your Brain on Music: The Science of a Human Obsession (New York: Dutton, 2006), 191.

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. Howard Gardner, Musical Intelligence, chap. 6 in Frames of Mind: The Theory of Multiple Intelligences (New York: Basic Books, 2011).

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. Ralph Waldo Emerson, Letters and Social Aims , rev. ed., Emersons Complete Works, vol. 8 (Boston: Houghton, 1886), 95.

. C. S. Lewis, Sometimes Fairy Stories May Say Best Whats to Be Said, in Of Other Worlds: Essays and Stories (San Diego: Harvest, 1994), 37.

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. The Brown-Driver-Briggs Hebrew and English Lexicon (Peabody, MA: Hendrickson, 1996), s.v. discipline.

. Derek Kidner, Proverbs: An Introduction and Commentary , Tyndale Old Testament Commentary Series (Downers Grove, IL: InterVarsity, 1984), 147.

. Sheryl Eberly and Caroline Eberly, 365 Manners Kids Should Know: Games, Activities, and Other Fun Ways to Help Children and Teens Learn Etiquette , rev. ed. (New York: Three Rivers, 2011), 1.

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. For more on this, read Chip Ingram, Effective Parenting in a Defective World: How to Raise Kids Who Stand Out from the Crowd (Carol Stream, IL: Tyndale, 2006).

. C. S. Lewis, The Weight of Glory: And Other Addresses (New York: HarperCollins, 2001), 26.

. Kevin Leman, Making Children Mind without Losing Yours (Grand Rapids, MI: Revell, 2000), 15.

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. Edith Schaeffer, What Is a Family? (Grand Rapids, MI: Ravens Ridge Books, 1975), 201.

; and The Westminster Collection of Christian Quotations: Over 6,000 Quotations Arranged by Theme , comp. Martin H. Manser (Louisville: Westminster John Knox, 2001), 253.

. Robert Elliott Gonzales, Poems and Paragraphs (Columbia, SC: The State Company, 1918), 182.

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. Les Krantz and Chris Smith, Our Eating Habits, in The Unofficial U.S. Census: Things the Official U.S. Census Doesnt Tell You about America (New York: Skyhorse, 2011).

. Tom Blake: Riding the Breakers on This Hollow Hawaiian Surfboard, Popular Mechanics , July 1937, 11417.

. See for example Kaveri Subrahmanyam and David Smahels Digital Youth: The Role of Media in Development (New York: Springer, 2012).

. Marc Prensky, Digital Natives, Digital Immigrants, On the Horizon 9, no. 5 (October 2001).

. Larry D. Rosen, Poke Me: How Social Networks Can Both Help and Harm Our Kids, Monitor 42, no. 9 (October 2011).

. Stuart Brown, What Is Play, and Why Do We Do It?, chap. 2 in Play: How It Shapes the Brain, Opens the Imagination, and Invigorates the Soul (New York: Avery, 2009).

; Rhonda Clements, An Investigation of the Status of Outdoor Play, Contemporary Issues in Early Childhood 5, no. 1 (2004); Dorothy G. Singer and Jerome L. Singer, eds., Handbook of Children and the Media (Thousand Oaks, CA: Sage, 2001); and Kenneth R. Ginsburg, The Importance of Play in Promoting Healthy Child Development and Maintaining Strong Parent-Child Bonds, Pediatrics 119, no. 1 (January 2007).

. Subrahmanyam and Smahel, Digital Youth , 51.

. Ed Miller, quoted in Ouellette, Death and Life.

. Ouellette, Death and Life.

. Dana Gioia, quoted in Ouellette, Death and Life.

. Kyung Hee Kim, The Creativity Crisis: The Decrease in Creative Thinking Scores on the Torrance Tests of Creative Thinking, Creativity Research Journal 23, no. 4 (2011): 28595.

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. Ginsburg, Importance of Play, 18291.

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. Subrahmanyam and Smahel, Digital Youth , 136.

. Rosen, Poke Me.

. Subrahmanyam and Smahel, Digital Youth , 136.

. Subrahmanyam and Smahel, Digital Youth , 135.

. Subrahmanyam and Smahel, Digital Youth , 131.

. Subrahmanyam and Smahel, Digital Youth , 12728.

. C. S. Lewis, The Weight of Glory: And Other Addresses (New York: HarperCollins, 2001), 4546.

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. Stuart and Jill Briscoe (lecture, North Coast Calvary Chapel, fall 2013).

. Subrahmanyam and Smahel, Digital Youth , 51.

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. Subrahmanyam and Smahel, Digital Youth , 132.

. C. S. Lewis, De Descriptione Temporum: An Inaugural Lecture (Cambridge: Cambridge University Press, 1955), 23. It was delivered on November 29, 1954.

. C. S. Lewis, Surprised by Joy: The Shape of My Early Life (Orlando: Harcourt, Brace, Jovanovich, 1955), 2078.

. C. S. Lewis, On the Reading of Old Books, in God in the Dock (Grand Rapids, MI: Eerdmans, 2014), 220.

. Thomas Dubay, The Evidential Power of Beauty: Science and Theology Meet (San Francisco: Ignatius, 1999).

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. Muriel Strode, Wind-Wafted Wild Flowers, Open Court , January 1903, 505.

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. G. K. Chesterton, Whats Wrong with the World (New York: Dodd, Mead, and Company, 1912), 320.

. Richard Louv, Last Child in the Woods: Saving Our Children from Nature-Deficit Disorder (Chapel Hill, NC: Algonquin Books, 2008), 10.

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. Michael Green, Conversion, chap. 6 in Evangelism in the Early Church , rev. ed. (Grand Rapids, MI: Eerdmans, 2004).