Gabriel Eschhaus - The Tinder Bible

The Tinder Bible

Your ultimate Guide for more Matches, Chats and Dates

2020 Gabriel Eschhaus

About the author

G abriel Eschhaus discovered Tinder in 2015, after the end of a long-term relationship, and has been working intensively with this app ever since. Meanwhile, he has experience from hundreds of matches and chats as well as over 50 Tinder dates with the most diverse outcomes. He fell in love through Tinder, had one-night stands, got rejections, met women in over 20 countries and developed friendships from Tinder acquaintanceships. In this book, he talks about his vast experience and explains in detail what is important to be successful with the most popular dating app in the world. His goal is to help men who are still inexperienced in using dating apps to become true Tinder experts in no time.

Introduction

"I had a Tinder Date !" - While a few years ago, this statement would have earned you questioning glances, nowadays there is almost nobody who hasn't picked it up somewhere. Tinder has long been part of the everyday life of young and young-at-heart singles and hardly anyone who is not in a steady relationship can resist downloading this app. Tinder is not without reason, with 500 million users worldwide, one of the most successful dating apps ever. The concept of Tinder is as simple as it is ingenious. If you find a person attractive, you swipe to the right with your finger on the mobile phone display. If you don't find him/her attractive, you swipe to the left. People who have swiped each other to the right will be notified. They have a so-called " tinder match" and are able now to start chatting. What results from the chat can be very different. Some people hope to find their dream partner, while others are looking for casual sex. The group of those who only use Tinder out of boredom or just want to check their "market value" should not be underestimated as well. While this group is mainly made up of female profiles, it is more likely to be men who really want to get to know and meet someone. Maybe you as a man have already made the experience that it is therefore not so easy to use Tinder successfully. The thinking and behaviour of women is often not understandable for us men. We strive to impress them and to appear attractive and likeable, often achieving exactly the opposite of what we want to achieve. For many men, the basis for their unsuccessfulness can already be found in their profiles. If they do have a match, they continue with clumsy communication when writing and chatting. If they really have a date, they fail to make more than just a nice conversation out of this situation. Often there are only small things that you have to change to be more successful. Once you know what to pay attention to, you will see how easy it can be to seduce women on Tinder. That's why I've put together a lot of helpful tips and tricks in this book that will make you a real magnet for women. I wish you much fun and success in using and trying out the following strategies!

Your profile

C reating your profile on Tinder is a crucial key to success and, at first glance, does not seem to be too challenging. A few photos and a short text are all you need to enter to get started. However, there are some things you can do wrong and that can prevent you from being successful right from the start!

The profile photos - Show your best side!

T here is hardly anything more important for your Tinder profile than good photos. They really are the basis for your success. If they are not convincing, you can use all the other tips and strategies correctly, but they will not help you. Many men feel unattractive and think it's because of their looks if Tinder matches remain a rarity, but it's usually for quite different reasons that women don't swipe in the desired direction. Your Tinder photos are similar to application photos. Also on Tinder you have to promote yourself at your best. Pay attention to the lighting and the angle and show yourself from your best side! If you don't have an eye for photography yourself, ask friends which of your photos they like best! You might also have someone in your circle of friends who knows about image editing. A fancy filter, a twist on the contrast or better cropping can work wonders.

No group photos!

F act is, if you have bad photos in your profile, you can only lose. Especially important is the first photo. If this has already failed, the lady will immediately swipe to the left instead of looking at your other photos. Avoid group photos at all costs! You may like one or two photos of you in a group of friends, but for Tinder these photos are completely unsuitable, because of course nobody who doesn't know you, will know which person in the photo you are.

The profile text - your chance to get her attention

A dmittedly, many women will not even look at your profile text while they are swiping left and right in boredom. However, by the time you have a match and contact a lady, she will take a closer look at your profile and decide on her further behaviour towards you.

Less is more!

Y our profile text is not about perfectionism. Instead, try to score points with humor. A funny sentence or two that will put a smile on a woman's face is worth a lot more than a list of your interests! Score points here rather with understatement than praising your professional and sporting successes. Of course, if you list all your interests, you might meet a like-minded person who is totally enthusiastic about them, but you might just as well scare off a lady with whom you would get along wonderfully.