Afterword
Barbara
In the final stages of writing this book, another life-shock occurred.
My second son, Joe, aged 34, was killed tragically in February 2013 in a waterskiing accident. He leaves his wife, Mel, and their three children: Dougal, seven; Lucy, five; and Angus, three.
His death has had a catastrophic effect on his wife and children, as well as me, his mother, his father, his brother, sister-in-law, nieces and nephews, other family and friends.
Although he was only 34, Joe led a rich, fully packed life. He never wasted an hour; he took time to support his loved ones; to work hard and play hard.
His death has been, without doubt, the hardest journey of allthe hardest and highest mountain to climb. I know, however, I must continue.
Many of the reflections and insights in this book have helped me endure the pain and loss of my precious son, Joe. They will also help me go on to live the life he would have wished for me.
Vale Joe Howard
12 September 1978 22 February 2013
Altitude: Two womens journey on Mt Kilimanjaro
First published in Australia in 2013
This Edition 2014
Copyright Barbara Baikie and Dolores Cummins
88 Rochford Road Wallaroo NSW Australia 2618
Website: www.altitudebook.com
Cover Photo: Mount Kilimanjaro
Internal photography: Barbara Baikie, Dolores Cummins, Peter Fletcher, Brian Goldstraw
Cover design & book layout: Megan Taylor www.megantaylordesign.com.au
Printer: 1010 Printing International Limited
Coordinating editor: Bev Ryan www.bevryanpublish.com
National Library of Australia Cataloguing-in-Publication entry
Baikie, Barbara Marilyn and Cummins, Dolores Elizabeth
Altitude: Two womens journey on Mount Kilimanjaro ISBN 9781742984315 (eBook) Dewey Number 158.1082 Categories Professional Development, Personal Development, Psychology, Travel
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Acknowledgements
Writing this book was a journeyone we did not take alone. We have many people to thank for their belief and support.
First, we publicly acknowledge each other for the mutual reinforcement we shared at times when it would have been easier to simply give up and write not another word.
Our thanks go to our families and friends for your understanding during this busy time, particularly Peter who was always there for Barbara and Brian for sharing his reflections of the climb.
Our thanks also go to Jo, Althea, Jill, Jela, Rikki and Marg who read earlier scripts.
Recognition must be given also to Andrea, who consistently gave insightful feedback and encouragement as the manuscript unfolded; to our editor, Bev Ryan; publicist, Heather Grant; and graphic designer, Megan Taylortheir wisdom and guidance were invaluable.
Now, let us climb
Contents
: | Arusha Arrivals. Coaching sessionUnmask |
: | Journey to Forest Camp Coaching sessionStepping into the unknown |
: | Shira Camps One and Two Coaching sessionSurrender to live |
: | Barrarro Camp Coaching sessionDiscovering what matters |
: | Karanga Camp Coaching sessionBeing present |
: | Barafu Camp Coaching sessionBeing vulnerable, strong and resilient |
: | Crater Camp Coaching sessionRelationships and matters of the heart |
: | Barafu Camp Coaching sessionThe power of choice |
: | Meaka Camp Coaching sessionReal conversations |
: | Arusha Return Coaching sessionManaging emotions |
: | Reflections |
About the authors
Barbara Baikie and Dolores Cummins climbed Mount Kilimanjaro, Africas highest mountain and the highest free-standing mountain in the world, in 2011.
Friends for a lifetime and business partners, Barbara and Dolores are management consultants, group facilitators and executive and leadership coaches who share their diverse and challenging life experiences to help clients make meaningful changes in both workplaces and personal lives.
Barbara (left) is a counsellor, HBDI certified practitioner and a certified executive coach. She grew up on a farm in rural Australia, attending a school with just nine pupils before becoming a small fish in a very big pond as one of 1500 students at her high school. Barbara worked in a pathology laboratory for six years after school, married young, lived on a farm and had two sons, before returning to study as a mature age student. She holds Bachelor and Master degrees as well as a graduate certificate in management and is working on a doctoral thesis.
Barbara has worked in local, state and federal government spheres, including senior executive positions, leading initiatives in the challenging areas of child protection and juvenile justice and disability services. She lectured in social science at Charles Sturt University for six years.
Diagnosed with multiple sclerosis in 1991, Barbara is healthier than ever today with a level of fitness belying her age. Over the past ten years, Barbara has taken her personal challenges to great heights, scaling the Himalayas, the Andes and most recently, Mt Kilimanjaro.
Barbara lives in Canberra with her second husband, Peter Fletcher.
Irish-born Dolores (right) brings business acumen, academic perspective and industry experience to clients workplaces. She also brings compassion, respect and courage borne of her own life challenges.
Dolores has worked extensively throughout Europe and Australia. Her early career in human resource management exposed Dolores to many organisational requirements. Career highlights include founding a multi-denominational school in Ireland, now part of a fast-growing network across that nation; initiating a new vision and strategic plan as chairman of SIDS NSW; managing litigation proceedings following New South Wales Chelmsford Royal Commission into mental health services; and working with the European Parliament and European Union.
A compulsive people watcher, Dolores is tertiary qualified in applied psychology and anthropology and is a qualified Master Practitioner of neuro-linguistics. She is a doctoral candidate exploring the impact of diversity in organisational leadership and a sessional lecturer with the business school of the Queensland University of Technology.
Dolores can be found in Brisbane with her family when shes not trekking or climbing mountains.
Barbara