Gary Chapman - Building Love Together in Blended Families: The 5 Love Languages and Becoming Stepfamily Smart

In this accessible and game-changing guide, Dr. Gary Chapman and Ron Deal delve into the real issues stepfamilies face but often dont know how to talk about. With a unique approach based on The 5 Love Languages model, they provide a practical and empowering path forward for parents and children alike.

LORI GOTTLIEB | New York Times bestselling author of Maybe You Should Talk to Someone

The complex emotional challenges often associated with stepfamilies have proven challenging for countless peopleand the fallout can be incredibly painful. However, Gary Chapman and Ron Deal have good news: its more than possible for blended families to enjoy thriving relationships! Their new book brings together their combined and time-tested wisdom to show you how your own blended family can flourish amidst your new normal.

JIM DALY | President, Focus on the Family

What an incredible resource! Nobody but Gary and Ron, two world-class experts, could have written this powerful book. The wisdom they impart is priceless. Every couple in a blended familyand every extended family member connected to themneeds to read this valuable book. Its engaging, grounded and immeasurably practical.

LES AND LESLIE PARROTT | #1 New York Times bestselling authors of Saving Your Marriage Before It Starts

The blended family is a new norm in our culture and world. It involves so many difficult challenges and complexities in the search for ways to promote healthy parenting, love, safety, healing, and structure. Gary Chapman and Ron Deal have written the best book I have read on the subject. They are clear, straightforward, and practical in the steps and skills they provide, especially in how the five love languages apply to the relationships. Chapter 1 alone is worth the price of the book. Highly recommended.

JOHN TOWNSEND | New York Times bestselling author of the Boundaries book series Founder, the Townsend Institute for Leadership and Counseling

I cannot think of a better layer to add to the blended family conversation than the understanding of how each of us view the world. We all have a different lens with which we see the worldour circumstances and situations. We each have our own language that is uniquely ours or uniquely theirs. As we begin to understand one anothers language, we can better understand how to recognize and meet each others needs. From parents to children. I cannot think of a more dynamic duo in this blended conversation than Ron Deal and Gary Chapman.

SANDI PATTY PESLIS | Artist and mom to a beautiful blended family

To the thousands of families Ive worked with who didnt feel so much blended as busted? This is the book weve all been waiting for. Gary Chapman and Ron Deal have cracked the code for those of us who are living with other peoples children and are longing to love them with honesty and compassion. Not only will the words within these pages strengthen your family, they will ground your marriage in new and deeper ways. This book is essential reading for any stepparent.

KATHI LIPP | Bestselling author of The Husband Project and coauthor of But Im Not a Wicked Stepmom

So often two families are put together without being prepared for the challenges ahead, Building Love Together in Blended Families is a great tool for preparing everyone involved. It allows you to reach for the others in the family that is to be. To love the way another most powerfully feels loved is the foundation of a blended family.

STEPHEN ARTERBURN | Author and Founder of New Life LIVE!

Creating a loving home is why couples form a blended family. But the process takes time and purpose. As a social researcher, Ive seen that all partiesparents, stepparents, the children themselveslong for great relationships. Ive also seen that understanding each other is the missing link. I cant think of two experts better suited to help you do that than Ron Deal and Gary Chapman. This is a fantastic book, and is the essential guide all blended families need.

SHAUNTI FELDHAHN | Social researcher and bestselling author of For Women Only, For Parents Only, and The Kindness Challenge

Ron Deal and Gary Chapman are absolutely the perfect blend to enrich your blended family relationships. With over three decades of experience, Ron is THE leading authority globally on blended families. None better. And Gary, he is one of the top writers of our day. This is destined to be a bestseller and a classic for blended families everywhere.

DENNIS RAINEY | Cofounder, FamilyLife

In our work with married couples, weve found that many of the most complicated issues facing modern marriages stem from blended family dynamics. In this powerful and practical new book, Gary Chapman and Ron Deal draw on their unparalleled expertise to masterfully unravel the complexities of blended family dynamics. Every chapter felt like a master class for spouses, parents and stepparents. This book will be a game-changer for every blended family!

DAVE AND ASHLEY WILLIS | Authors of The Naked Marriage and hosts of The Naked Marriage podcast

When you love someone, you cant help but show and tell about the people you love. But the realities of life and complexities of blended families can take their toll in living it out. This book, by two highly regarded relationship experts, will help you love your family more completely and with greater wisdom than ever before. Youll love it and grow because of it, too!

DAVID ROBBINS | President and CEO of FamilyLife

When I think of the most outstanding authority on marriage I know, I think of Gary Chapman and when I think of my go-to person on blended families, I think of Ron Deal. This book is a combination of the best of both of these two incredible writers and communicators. I loved every page in this most helpful book.

JIM BURNS | President, HomeWord; author, Doing Life with Your Adult Children

Stepfamilies and first families are inherently different. The same rules just dont apply. Adapting The 5 Love Languages to fit blended family life? Brilliant! This is the book every remarried couple needs to readtogether!

BRENDA OCKUN | Founder and publisher, StepMom Magazine

Step families need a common language to build trust, connection, and new attachments. Building Love Together in Blended Families provides a path to speak love mutually so each family member can accept the love they need to grow closer. This is a wonderful hands-on resource.

GIL AND BRENDA STUART | Authors of Restored and Remarried

This book offers valuable insight on how to apply the well-known principles of the five love languages in blended family relationships with those who mayor may notseek to receive love or offer love in return. Its practical, realistic, and inspiring. If youre in a blended family, you need this book.

GAYLA GRACE | Author of Stepparenting with Grace: A Devotional for Blended Families

The 5 Love Languages has had such a major impact on our marriage and The Smart Stepfamily gave us a roadmap to navigate blended family life. But Ron Deal and Gary Chapmans collaboration in Building Love Together in Blended Families