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For those serving as a caregiver for a loved one, the authors of this down-to-earth, encouraging book can help you make the most of the experience without losing yourself in the process.
Are you one of the growing number of people who serves as a caregiver for an aging or chronically ill friend or family member? If so, you probably struggle to meet both their special needs and still find time and resources for yourself. But now there is reason to take heart. The authors of this down-to-earth, encouraging book can help you make the most of the experience without losing yourself in the process. Using the Twelve Steps as a guide, the authors conduct readers through the pitfalls of caregivingthe emotional snarls and strains, daily struggles, competing needs, and questions about confronting painproviding hope and tangible suggestions on how to stay strong and sane while providing healthy support and love. Self-Care for Caregivers offers sensitive and sensible guidance for the family caregiver. This is a little book with a big message: how to take care of yourself so you can take care of others. Connie Goldman, producer of the public radio special Hardship into Hope, The Rewards of Caregiving; co-author of Tending the Earth, Mending the Spirit and Secrets of Becoming a Late BloomerThis book is an uplifting treasury of hope. The authors gently direct the reader with comforting, practical text that offers empowering caregiving strategies and avenues for emotional and spiritual growth. James and Merlene Sherman, author and editor of the Caregiver Survival series.

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Self-Care

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Caregivers

What readers say about

Self-Care for Caregivers: A Twelve Step Approach

R EV . P AUL K ELLER , caregiver and author of Living in the Promises

Once I started reading Self-Care for Caregivers, I could not put it down. It seems impossible to overstate the potential value of this book.

D EBORAH H ARMON -P UGH , SPHR, editor of The Healthy Caregiver

The ultimate goal of caregiving is achieving secure and fulfilling lifestyles for all members of the care relationship. This book is an outstanding guide to managing the complex realities of caregiving.

G AIL R. M ITCHELL , Empowering Caregivers

This is a remarkable guide for all caregivers. The exercises are geared towards gaining insight into your inner self.

C HARLES B ENTZ , husband of Alzheimers patient

The way this book grasps the multi-faceted problem of Alzheimer caregiving is remarkable. It offers caregivers insight and support to properly, wisely care for themselves as they care for their loved one.

V ICKI L. S CHMALL , P H .D., retired gerontology specialist, University of Oregon

This book gives caregivers a framework for making tough decisions without being consumed by resentment, guilt, or regret for setting boundaries in caregiving and saying no without feeling guilty.

R OBERT W ATSON , husband of woman with multiple sclerosis

Whether youre new to the Twelve Step philosophy or a firm believer in it, youll find here a way to survive and succeed in one of lifes most difficult rolesthat of a caregiver.

Self-Care

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Caregivers

A Twelve Step Approach

PAT SAMPLES

DIANE LARSEN
MARVIN LARSEN

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Hazelden Publishing
Center City, Minnesota 55012-0176

800-328-9000
hazelden.org/bookstore

Copyright 1991 by Hazelden Foundation
All rights reserved. First published 1991
Printed in the United States of America
No portion of this publication may be reproduced in any manner without the written permission of the publisher

Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data

Samples, Pat.
Self-care for caregivers : a twelve step approach / Pat Samples, Diane Larsen, Marvin Larsen.
p. cm.
Originally published: 1991.
Includes bibliographical references.
ISBN 1-56838-560-9
Ebook ISBN 978-1-61649-125-3
1. Twelve-step programsReligious aspectsMeditations. 2. CaregiversReligious
life. I. Larsen, Diane. II. Larsen, Marvin. III. Title.
BL624.5 .S25 2000
362.1dc21

00-044880

Editors Note:
Hazelden offers a variety of information on chemical dependency and related areas. Our publications do not necessarily represent Hazelden programs, nor do they officially speak for any Twelve Step organization.
Permission to reprint the Twelve Steps does not mean that Alcoholics Anonymous has reviewed or approved the contents of this publication, nor that AA agrees with the views expressed herein. AA is a program of recovery from alcoholism only. Use of the Twelve Steps in connection with programs which are patterned after AA but which address other problems does not imply otherwise.

CONTENTS

CHAPTER ONE :
Whats Expected of a Caregiver

CHAPTER TWO :
Where the Problems Start

CHAPTER THREE :
Freedom from Control: Beginning the Twelve Steps

CHAPTER FOUR :
Acknowledging What Hurts

CHAPTER FIVE :
Giving Away the Pain

CHAPTER SIX :
Breaking Free

CHAPTER SEVEN :
Finding Strength Day by Day

Preface

People often ask me if I wrote this book because of being a caregiver myself. In part, thats true. Ive been a caregiver at times for several people close to me and I wanted to share with others some of the strength and hope that the Twelve Steps have given me in those situations.

In addition, Ive been deeply moved by the stories Ive heard from my friends Marvin and Diane Larsen and from other caregivers. Ive been touched by their pain and wisdom. Ive felt a kinship with them. That sense of kinship, of knowing Im not alone, is at the heart of the Twelve Step program. It has brought me great comfort over the years. It has also stirred in me a desire to enlarge the circle of kinship so that other caregivers may experience the benefits of the program.

Ive been involved in Twelve Step programs for over fifteen years. Ive been caring about caregivers for almost a decade. That special desire to be of service to caregivers has become my personal mission. I have given many talks and workshops to caregivers and to the professionals who work with them, sharing the message of hope and inviting them to turn inward to find peace of mind. I believe that we all have within us the wisdom we need to make sane and healthy choices for ourselves in the midst of the challenges of caregiving. But if we dont take care of ourselves, it can be harder for us to tap into that wisdom. The Twelve Step program shows us how to take care of ourselves so we can maintain and deepen our serenity.

I have been pleased to see the results of sharing this good news. Many people have called me to tell me how much the book helped them and to ask for a second copy to pass along to a struggling friend or relative. I remember one woman, whose husband had Alzheimers, telling me she kept a copy of the book under her pillow. That way, when her husband would wake up and wander during the night, she could reach for it and find solace. Another caregiver, deep in depression when she first came across the book, expressed tearful gratitude for showing her a way out.

I have also been gratified by the responses of professional caregivers who have told me that they too have benefited from the Twelve Step approach described in this book. Nurses, social workers, hospice workers, and other medical, social service, and religious professionals tend to know burnout all too well. I remember speaking to a group of clergy, inviting them to send caregivers from their congregation to a Self-Care for Caregivers workshop I was conducting. One of them asked if they (the clergy members) could come too. Then they began telling me their stories of the burden of having to care for their own parents and family members on top of their ministerial duties. Even these clerics with strong religious foundations were glad to be reminded of the need to rely on a Power greater than themselves.

A nursing director at a mental hospital told me she turned to the book often when the many legal and administrative demands on her, plus her patients complex needs, were pushing her to the edge of rage and tears. She said she was learning to step back from overcaring and to ask for what she needed.

You may find many ways to get the most out of this book. One good way is to find another caregiver, or several, to share it with. Meet together or talk on the phone regularly. Discuss each step and how you are using the step to help you. Talk about the exercises described at the end of each step and what you have learned from doing them. Focus on supporting each others growth and progress.

You might consider organizing a Caregivers Anonymous group. A few of these groups have started in recent years. However, there is no formal structure in place to support them, at least not at the time this book went to press. You can contact other Twelve Step groups such as Alcoholics Anonymous or Al-Anon to gather ideas about how to run a group meeting and to learn more about other Twelve Step resources. Hazelden also provides many resources that you may find helpful.

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