Gavin Oattes - Life Will See You Now: Quit Waiting for the Light at the End of the Tunnel and Light That F*cker Up for Yourself

Funny, enigmatic and heartfelt, Gavin Oattes is officially the 4th emergency service. If you're stopped by the roadside of life, the wheels close to coming off, this book is a must.

Jamie McCall, VP Brand Marketing, Nike Direct EMEA

Thank Christ for Gavin Oattes. To all the dreamers out there, get this book, start the dream today, not Monday, today. Put the phones down, get into cardboard boxes n' play cars, get outside with the kids and build a rope swing on a tree branch.

Enter a beard competition for no reason, be aware of the dickheads, but don't let the dickheads turn you into a dickhead, even if they won't let you go home when the arse of your trousers has ripped during work.

Post an orange to someone, find the Pirah tribe, or find your tribe, stick with them, surround yourself with support.

Visit and love your parents before they head to the moon.

But most importantly...BE THE MILK!!!!

These are just some of the moments, and memories Gavin shares with his readers, I literally didn't put this book down, I nearly read it in one day!!! And that's saying something, as I'm thick as shit.

Buy it, love it, remember it.

Jason Byrne, Comedian and Radio Host

Gavin Oattes

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Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data
Names: Oattes, Gavin, author.
Title: Life will see you now : quit waiting for the light at the end of the tunnel and light that f*cker up
for yourself / Gavin Oattes.
Description: Chichester, West Sussex, United Kingdom ; John Wiley & Sons, [2020] | Includes index.
Identifiers: LCCN 2019053598 (print) | LCCN 2019053599 (ebook) | ISBN 9780857088086
(paperback) | ISBN 9780857088130 (adobe pdf) | ISBN 9780857088147 (epub)
Subjects: LCSH: Self-realization. | Conduct of life.
Classification: LCC BJ1470 .O28 2020 (print) | LCC BJ1470 (ebook) | DDC 158.1dc23
LC record available at https://lccn.loc.gov/2019053598
LC ebook record available at https://lccn.loc.gov/2019053599

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Pages 143, 144, 145, 146: WE'RE GOING ON A BEAR HUNT text 1989 Michael Rosen. Illustrations 1989 Helen Oxenbury.
Reproduced by permission of Walker Books Ltd, London SE11 5HJ www.walker.co.uk

ISBN 9780857088086 (paperback) ISBN 9780857088130 (ePDF)
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Cover design and image: Peter Cotter

For those of us trying to find our place in the world,
anyone who has ever felt different or just simply
forgotten who they really are. And for those currently
floating in a most peculiar way.

A smidge of context. Me, I'm a Doctor of Happiness, so I made a pledge a few years ago that all my social media would be uplifting and positive. My Twitter account is followed by 10,000 primary schools, so I'm mindful of the audience. It's a big fat no to ranting, grumbling and swearing and an equally obese yes to happiness, kindness and unconditional love.

Gav, on the other hand. He's in the same marketplace as me but he doesn't seem to care who's tuning in. He's more edgy. A bit random. Often uplifting and sometimes a smidge sweary.

Now here's the thing. If you met me in actual real life you'd see that I'm a normal bloke from Derby with all the accumulated ranting, grumbling and swearing that comes with the territory. But if you met me on Twitter, FB or Instagram, I'm all nicey-nicey. I'm curated. Holding myself back. The social media me isn't the real me.

Whereas Gav's always unashamedly Gav. I doff my cap to that. Authenticity is built into Gav's DNA.

To butcher a long story to the bare bones, after bumping into each other at a conference Gav and myself eventually teamed up to write a book. We discovered that if you chuck a bit of his energetic bonkersness in with my science, it works a treat. We pioneered a laugh n learn approach in the common belief that, first and foremost, a decent personal development book has to be a rollicking good read. If you can accidentally learn a whole load of stuff along the way, then BOOM, that's a stand-out book in the genre.

We pioneered a new genre of self-help comedy. Our first book Shine is worth buying just for . I'd go so far as to say it's the best personal development chapter ever written and, guess what, it was written by Gav.

Shine shone so we did one for little people Diary of a Brilliant Kid which was like Shine but with no naughty words. We aimed it at kids aged 6 to 106 and that was fab too. It's worth buying for Gav's chapter about oranges.

Zest completed the trilogy and, once again, Gav's chapters stole the show. I was beginning to detect a pattern!

Fast forward to right now. My Gav trilogy complete, I took a breather while the canny Scotsman conjured this little rascal, his first solo project. And I promise you, it's an absolute belter.

Life Will See You Now raises the bar from laugh n learn to laugh, learn n cry. This book is very up close and personal, scoring a whopping 9.3 on the blub-factor (anything above 8 is