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Robert Ackerman - Perfect Daughters

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Daughters of alcoholics often assume responsibility for the failures of others. Ackerman explores - and helps conquer - these issues. Are women who were raised in alcoholic families, adult daughters, different from women who were raised in non-alcoholic families? Dr. Ackerman, a leading expert on alcoholism and the family and especially on children of alcoholics of all ages, has brought together the thoughts, ideas and feelings of more than 1200 women in this first book on adult daughters of alcoholics. Do you find yourself represented in any of the following statements from adult daughters? If I please everyone, everyone will be happy If I dont get too close emotionally, no one can hurt me Nothing is wrong but I dont feel right Something is missing from my life My relationships usually consist of a lack of trust, fear of intimacy, low self-worth, over-responsibility and picking the wrong person. If you often feel isolated, engage in self-condemnation, experience inconsistency, always want to be in control, rely heavily on others for their approval and believe that you must be perfect, you have many things in common with other adult daughters. Adult daughters are beginning to talk about their experiences, express their fears and share their growth. This book represents many of the stories of childhood pain and the paths to recovery that have been found by many Perfect Daughters.

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title Perfect Daughters Adult Daughters of Alcoholics author - photo 1

title:Perfect Daughters : Adult Daughters of Alcoholics
author:Ackerman, Robert J.
publisher:Health Communications, Inc.
isbn10 | asin:
print isbn13:9781558740402
ebook isbn13:9780585110868
language:English
subjectAdult children of alcoholics--United States, Daughters--United States, Codependency, Adjustment (Psychology)
publication date:1989
lcc:HV5132.A265 1989eb
ddc:362.29/23
subject:Adult children of alcoholics--United States, Daughters--United States, Codependency, Adjustment (Psychology)
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Perfect Daughters
Adult Daughters Of Alcoholics
Robert J. Ackerman
Picture 2
Health Communications, Inc.
Deerfield Beach, Florida
Page ii
Robert J. Ackerman, Ph.D.
Indiana, Pennsylvania
Grateful acknowledgment is made for permission to reprint excerpts from the following works: ALL I REALLY NEED TO KNOW I LEARNED IN KINDERGARTEN by Robert Fulghum, by permission of Villard Books, a Division of Random House, Inc. Copyright (c)1986, 1988 by Robert Fulghum. BORN TO PLEASE: COMPLIANT WOMEN/CONTROLLING MEN by Karen Blaker, Ph.D., by permission of St. Martin's Press, Inc. New York. Copyright (c)1988 by Karen Blaker. I AM AN ADULT CHILD OF AN ALCOHOLIC by Thomas Perrin, by permission of Thomas W. Perrin, Inc. Copyright (c) 1983 by Thomas Perrin.
Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data
Ackerman, Robert J.
Perfect daughters: adult daughters of alcoholics / by Robert J.
Ackerman.
p. cm.
Bibliography: p.
ISBN 1-55874-040-6
1. Adult children of alcoholicsUnited States. 2. Daughters
United States. 3. Co-dependence (Psychology) 4. Adjustment
(Psychology) I. Title.
HV5132.A265 1989 89-15247
362.29'23dc20 CIP
1989 Robert J. Ackerman
ISBN 1-55874-040-6
All rights reserved. Printed in the United States of America. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored in a retrieval system or transmitted in any form or by any means, electronic, mechanical, photocopying, recording or otherwise without the written permission of the publisher.
Publisher:
Health Communications, Inc.
3201 S.W. 15th Street
Deerfield Beach, Florida 33442
Cover design by Reta Thomas
Page iii
DEDICATION
To all adult daughters
and especially to
Kimberly, Mary and Debbie
Page v
CONTENTS
Preface
ix
Part One
Childhood Revisited
1. Home Groan, Daughters in Alcoholic Families
3
2. What Did You Learn at Home Today?
19
3. These Are the Things I Learned
29
4. Alcoholic Mothers, Pains of Endearment
41
5. Alcoholic Fathers, Daughter Dearest
51
6. Two Alcoholic Parents: Don't Add, Multiply
69
Part Two
Co-dependently Yours
7. Me, Myself, and I: How Well Do You Know These People?
79
8. What Kind of Adult Daughter Are You?
91
9. I'm Not Co-dependent, Are We?
115

Page vi
Part Three
Save You, Save Me
10. Relationships or You Married a What?
129
11. Perfect Parenting
153
Part Four
Discovery and Recovery of Me
12. I Think I Can, I Think I Can
167
13. To Self, with Love, from Daughter
181
Appendix
189
References
195

Page vii
ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS
The number of people who have encouraged me and supported me in the writing of this book has been numerous. I thank them all and am especially grateful to the following:
To my research colleague, friend and confidant, Judith A. Michaels, a special thank you. Her support, research skills and ideas helped me all the way from developing the first adult daughter questionnaire to the writing of the final page.
Thank you to Kimberly Roth Ackerman for her willingness to tell me, "Do this over; it needs more work," and her silent, but always present belief in me and this project.
A special thank you to my friend Edward Gondolf for his research skills and help with organizing and analyzing my data on adult daughters.
I wish to thank Linda Sanford and Diane Glynn for their encouragement and support to write this book. Thank you to Marie Stilkind for her editorial assistance.
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