Midnite Love - Think Like A Woman Always Be A Man

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The Love Den Diaries (MiniSeries) Volume 2

Think Like A Woman Always BeA Man

What every woman wishes menknew about dating, sex, and relationships

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Introduction

Wanna know what she isreally thinking when it comes to matters of the heart? If you arelike most men when it comes to women, they are a complete mystery.This volume of The Love Den Mini Series will help to decode whatsgoing on in her head when shes being super quite or silentlygiving you the side eye.

Keep in mind that allsecrets wont apply to every situation or to every woman however inmany cases the rules or the game never changes.

Find out how she reallyfeels about you looking at other women, back breaking sex, andthose toe nails that you refuse to clip.

Bear in mind that this isnot a man bashing book, but rather a guide to helping you betterunderstand the lady in your life. If while reading though thesecrets you start to weigh in your relationship and come to therealization that not only is she doing some of the same annoyingthings to you, or shes not worthy of the behavioral changes neededto keep the relationship a float. Its time to either work on thelarger issues at hand or keep moving.

If shes not worth puttingfourth an effort to improve the relationship you need to askyourself why are you still with her? This book was written for themen who have women in their lives who truly love and appreciatethem. Its not about power plays or one upping each other. Eachperson deserves to be treated with dignity and respect. If you havea good woman at home and you know it, do her and yourself a favorand keep reading. Unlock the secrets.

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Chapter 1 - What shewishes you knew about dating

She wishes that you weresincere

Please dont use her to dateone of her friends or to get to another woman. If are really notfeeling her dont string her along or pretend that you want herwhen all you really want is advice on getting the woman you trulydesire. Playing with someones emotions is never a laughing matter.If she not good enough to be your lady dont waste her time andyours by playing games .

The sofa, a beer, andwatching you play video games while she cooks is not adate

Ok lets get this straight,unless you two have been dating for a while and/or have establisheda serious relationship the couch is off limits. Yes, that means youwill have to break out of your usual couch potato routine and trysomething new.

The art of REAL DATING hasbeen tossed aside like a bad habit. Women want to be asked out on areal date. First off the sofa at either one of you guys place istoo intimate of a setting.

For the first few dates youguys should be meeting in a public place. The snuggle up andwatch movies scenario should fall in further down the road. Alsoremember that even if you two have been an item for quite some timeshe still likes to go out every now and then. Serving up hot wingsand beer while you yell at the tv screen should not be on your listof date ideas for a Saturday night.

She wishes that you wouldtake the lead on choosing a place to go

Fellas please start takingcharge in this area (at least in the beginning). There is nothingworse than when a woman meets a great guy and he asks her out, onlyto pick her up and say, So what do you want to do? You shouldalready have an idea of some fun things you can do together even ifit requires planning in advance.

Nothing impresses a womanmore than a man with a plan! If you leave this up to her she willnot feel like that she was even special enough for you to even putforth the effort.

She wishes you would dressup sometimes

She doesnt mind when youdress down but its really annoying when shes dressed to the ninesfor a special occasion and you refuse to even get a shave or ahaircut. If the event calls for a dress shirt and tie please dontshow up in sneakers. Depending on the days festivities a simplepair of Khakis and a button down shirt will suffice. There is noexcuse for looking like a slouch all the time.

A date doesnt have to beexpensive

Unless you have beensleeping under a rock for the past 10 years you full well know andmay be experiencing the result of a fallen economy. In some casessome of you may even be unemployed.

There are tons of placesthat you can have a nice date without spending a fortune. If yourfunds are limited the first thing you will want to do is BE HONEST.A golddigger will make a mad dash for the nearest exit, in whichcase she wasnt worth your time from the jump. A real woman(pending the fact that you arent just a lazy bum) will stickaround if shes into you.

Try going for romanticstrolls in the park, how about a picnic? Brunch and breakfast isless expensive than going out for a fancy dinner. If you have beenup front about your situation a woman wont mind if you whip out acoupon. There is difference between a frugal man and a cheapman.

Also keep in mind that somelibraries offer free passes to local museums. Discounted matinesoften run at least 4 days out of a week and are a far better choicethan the expensive features on the weekends. This is a great way tosee the latest movies without breaking the bank.

She hates that you willexpect something in return

Never give a person morethan you can stand to see them walk away with. These are words tolive by. Just because you went to dinner and bought a few drinksdoes not mean that she is obligated to go home with you. If youfeel like you are wasting time and money on date after date, tryrethinking the places you go and the amount you spend on someoneyou have just met. That doesnt mean that you cant have a greattime, but just as tip stated above this one, it doesnt have tocost you a fortune. Stop trying to impress every woman that youmeet with cash. If its your first time meeting one another tryasking her out for coffee or drink. That way you wont feel likeyou have spent a weeks pay on someone who didnt workout.

She wants to be treated likea lady

Well at least most women do.Unless you are dealing with someone with very low self-esteem shewill want to be treated like a lady. For the ladies that arereading this; keep in mind that you must first carry yourself likea lady to be treated like one. Opening doors and pulling out herchair for her are nice gestures. A LADY will thank you andappreciate the kindness. If she doesnt bat an eyelash or treatsyou like a puppy that should be following her around and doing nicethings for her KEEP IT MOVING. There are plenty of women out therelooking for a good man and are worthy of the respect. As well asgiving it in return.