Pietro Molla - Saint Gianna Molla: Wife, Mother, Doctor

Saint Gianna Molla
Wife, Mother, Doctor

Saint Gianna

By Pietro Molla and Elio Guerriero

TRANSLATED BY JAMES G. COLBERT

IGNATIUS PRESS SAN FRANCISCO

Original Italian edition:
Gianna: la donna forte
La beata Gianna Beretta Molla
nel ricordo del marito
1995, Edizioni San Paolo, Milan

Cover photograph: Saint Gianna with children
Pierluigi (holding sunglasses) and Mariolina Molla
Cover photograph courtesy of
Society of Saint Gianna Beretta Molla
Philadelphia, Penn.
(www.gianna.org)

Cover design by Riz Boncan Marsella

2004 Ignatius Press, San Francisco
ISBN 978-0-89870-887-5
Library of Congress Control Number: 2004109128
Printed in the United States of America

A Story of Three Generations
By Elio Guerriero

Blessed Gianna, My Wife
An Interview with Pietro Molla
By Elio Guerriero

Giannas Virtues
By Pietro Molla

Saint Gianna: A Model for Mothers

A woman of exceptional love, an outstanding wife and mother, she gave witness in her daily life to the demanding values of the Gospel. In his homily on the occasion of her beatification, April 24, 1994, Pope John Paul II proposed Gianna Beretta Molla as a model for all mothers: By holding up this woman as an exemplar of Christian perfection, we would like to extol all those high-spirited mothers of families who give themselves completely to their family, who suffer in giving birth, who are prepared for every labor and every kind of sacrifice, so that the best they have can be given to others.

In canonizing Gianna Beretta Molla this spring, the Church officially recognized the extraordinary sanctity of a woman who chose to live an ordinary lifeas a professional and, later, as a wife and mother. Though she had once considered entering a religious order, instead she practiced medicine (receiving her medical degree in 1949, and her specialty in pediatrics in 1952). She devoted herself to caring for her patients, and her selflessness and dedication as a physician endeared her to the people. But it was not only her practice of medicine that influenced them. She regarded her profession as a mission through which she could aid and nurture both bodies and souls. The young doctors devotion to her Catholic faith was well known in her community, and especially her instruction of young Catholic girls in their faith.

Gianna meditated long and prayerfully on Gods will for her. What is a vocation? she wrote: It is a gift from Godit comes from God Himself! Our concern, then, should be to know the will of God. We should enter onto the path that God wills for us, not by forcing the door, but when God wills and as God wills. Gianna believed she was called to marriage and family life, but she waited patiently for Gods will to be revealed.

Gianna Beretta did not marry until she was thirty-three years oldto an engineer ten years her senior, Pietro Molla, whose sister had earlier been a patient of the young Dr. Beretta. Letters Gianna wrote during their year-long courtship reveal her deep commitment to this new vocation. The couple married in September 1955. Several days before their wedding, Gianna wrote to Pietro, reflecting on their vocation to marriage: With Gods help and blessing, we will do all we can to make our new family a little cenacle where Jesus will reign over all our affections, desires and actions.... We will be working with God in His creation; in this way we can give Him children who will love Him and serve Him.

Giannas faith and her communion with Christ were profound, and from this grace she drew deeper understanding of the dedication and self-giving love that is fundamental to Christian marriage and family life.

After her marriage and even after she had children Gianna continued her medical practice, extending her gifts beyond her immediate family to the children of others. Three children, a son and two daughters, were born between 1956 and 1959, and Gianna had two miscarriages before conceiving another baby in 1961. Pietro and Gianna referred to their children as their treasures.

In his own account of these years, Pietro Molla says that he did not object to Giannas continuing her medical practice, because she was so deeply attached to her patients, though after she became pregnant with their fourth child, Pietro and Gianna had agreed that she would stop working outside the home after the baby was born.

Early in the pregnancy it was discovered that Gianna had a fibroma, a benign tumor, on her uterine wall. Surgery that would involve aborting the baby was suggested, but the Mollas instantly and firmly rejected this idea, and chose surgery that would remove only the tumor. Because of her medical knowledge, Gianna understood more fully than most the risks involved in this delicate surgeryboth to her and to her unborn child. She insisted that the baby be protected at all costs.

The surgery successfully removed the fibroma, and the pregnancy continued, apparently normally, and the family made plans for the future in joy and hope. But all was not well, and a few days before the baby was born, Gianna realized it would be a difficultpossibly life-threatening delivery. She asked her husband to promise that if it were necessary to choose between saving her and saving the baby, he should choose the baby. I insist, she said.

On Good Friday, Gianna entered the hospital. And a lovely, healthy baby daughter, Gianna Emanuela, was born the next day, April 21, 1962. But the mother had developed a fatal infectionseptic peritonitis. (Modern antibiotics most likely would have saved her.) The inflammation caused immense suffering during her final week on earth. In the midst of her terrible pain, Gianna called to her own mother, Maria, who had died in 1942and she prayed. As she lay dying, she repeated, Jesus, I love you, over and over. Her agony ended on April 28at home.

She was thirty-nine. The tiny infant, Gianna Emanuela, was exactly one week old.

The bereft Pietro was left to raise four very young children without their mother: Pierluigi, the eldest, was not yet six; Mariolina, four; Laura, nearly three; and of course the new baby. In this book are Pietros own reflections on the difficult years that followed, and how the example of his wifes serene and joyous faith helped sustain him through his grief at Giannas death; when their little daughter, Mariolina, died only two years later; and through all the ordinary difficulties of raising a family alonewith the added extraordinary challenges of raising children whose absent mother had already become a revered public figure.

Almost immediately upon her death a devotion to Gianna arose among those whose lives she had so deeply touched, and who knew her heroic devotion to her faith and her family.

Her cause was introduced formally in 1970. She was beatified April 24, 1994; and canonized on May 16, 2004forty-two years after her death.

That her husband, now ninety-one, and three children attended her canonization ceremony is one of several historic firsts connected with her canonization. (Pierluigi, an engineer, is married; Laura is a political scientist; Gianna Emanuela is a physician who specializes in Alzheimers disease.)

Gianna Beretta Molla is the first married laywoman to be declared a saint (though there are many sainted widows). She is also the first canonized woman physiciana professional woman who was also a working mom four decades ago, when this was unusual.

Her witness of abiding faith in Christ, and her example of generous, loving self-donationwherever and however she was called to serve the Lordprovide particular inspiration for women of our time and in our culture, where conflicting demands and confusing signals are a daily part of our lives.