Endorsements
In Seeking Out Goodness , my friend Alex reminds us all that, in the midst of darkness and misery, we can still see God. This book is a call to action for us to seek, and we shall find.
Dr. Heather Thompson Day , author of Its Not Your Turn
Lately Ive been wondering if it is possible to find unity among people who believe, think, and act differently from one another. And then I picked up Alexs book . Seeking Out Goodness offers a trail map to those of us who feel lost in the wilderness of cultural division. If there is any way forward, it is found here in these pages. It does not offer trite solutions but rather gospel-centered answers that come from authentic and thoughtful experience. Alex reminds us there is hopefor the church, for our communities, for our neighborhoods, and for the complexities found in our own homes. This book is just in time.
Krista Gilbert , home coach, author of Reclaiming Home , and cohost of The Open Door Sisterhood podcast
Cynicism is the spirit of our age, but we will not be able to resist it passively. We need intentional steps for cultivating life where the world sows death, and Alexandra Kuykendall has provided it in these pages. With one eye on culture and the other on Scripture, this is a message for our moment!
Sharon Hodde Miller , author of Nice: Why We Love to Be Liked and How God Calls Us to Be More
As long as I can remember, Philippians 4:8 has been on repeat in my brain. A powerful and stirring verse, Alexandra Kuykendall calls it a road map for seeking out goodness. Wow. Yes, please! I cant think of a better sister than Alex to lead us through this concept with love, humor, kindness, wisdom, and courage. As one who is blessed to call Alex friend, I can say she is the real deal. This book is part journey, part confession, part education, and a whole lot of opportunity for change. I found myself challenged to think about goodness more deeply, as well as to bring more of my issues, habits, and struggles straight to Jesus. Be prepared to be brought into truth through story, practical application, contemplation, and exercises that will yield beautiful change in you. Go big, friend, and dive into this book with the expectation of finding goodness!
Kate Merrick , author of Here, Now and And Still She Laughs
How do we not only understand this cultural moment we are living in but also learn to enter in to it? In Seeking Out Goodness: Finding the True and Beautiful All around You by Alexandra Kuykendall, you will find the answer! This is such a needed book that is full of thoughtful and practical wisdom to join God in what he is already doing in the world. The darkness is real, writes Alexandra, But so is the light. And we know the light will overcome the darkness.
Patrick Schwenk , pastor, cohost of Rootlike Faith podcast, and author of In a Boat in the Middle of a Lake
With the wisdom of a big sister and the heart of a trusted friend, Alex Kuykendall offers an invitation for readers to choose a different kind of path. Its a path marked by beauty and goodness, a path that runs toward the God who is the very definition of finding grace and mercy in the most unlikely of places. Given the topsy-turvy, upside-down world many of us find ourselves living in, Seeking Out Goodness is a necessary read for all of us today.
Cara Meredith , author of The Color of Life
In a time of societal divisions and social mediafueled outrage, Alexandra Kuykendalls Seeking Out Goodness is a biblically rooted challenge to look for where God is at work in both the big and small moments of our lives.
Matthew Soerens , US Director of Church Mobilization and Advocacy, World Relief
Seeking Out Goodness is such a needed and timely book for exactly where we find ourselves in this current cultural moment. The principles found in these pages are timeless, but the examples and stories shared are relatable and helpful to followers of Jesus here and now. Alex Kuykendall is the real dealliving and modeling a life of integrity, truth, and beauty. The words penned on these pages bring together biblical truth, practical application, and refreshing encouragement for all those who find themselves weary in these challenging times.
Vivian Mabuni , speaker, podcast host, and founder of Someday is Here; and author of Open Hands, Willing Heart\
Half Title Page
Other Books by Alexandra Kuykendall
The Artists Daughter
Loving My Actual Life
Loving My Actual Christmas
Loving My Actual Neighbor
Title Page
Copyright Page
2021 by Alexandra Kuykendall
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Dedication
For Gabi, Genevieve, Gracelynn, and Giulianna
You find what youre looking for.
Contents
Endorsements
Half Title Page
Other Books by Alexandra Kuykendall
Title Page
Copyright Page
Dedication
Introduction: You Find What Youre Looking For
Story: Mining for the Gold
Part 1: The Truth, the Whole Truth, and Nothing but the Truth (So Help Me, God)
Story: When Hope Is Hidden
Part 2: Canceling Cancel Culture
Story: Permission to Change
Part 3: Cultivating Moral Courage
Story: The Cost of Doing Whats Right
Part 4: The Fruit Is Good
Story: Faith in Gods Goodness
Part 5: Where Did All the Glitter Go?
Story: Surprised by Goodness
Part 6: Leading with Grace
Story: Believing the Best in Each Other
Conclusion: God Has Not Left Us
Acknowledgments
Notes
Back Ads
Back Cover
Introduction
you find what youre looking for
T he mornings news headlines were a terrible welcome to a new day. CNNs home page flashed these bullet points, begging me to click and get more:
- A man fell to his death while taking pictures on a cliff in Arizona. Authorities discovered other remains while recovering his body.