I AM NO
Shrinking
Violet!
Arising from the
Ashes of Trauma
~By Lettie R. Violetta~
I AM NO Shrinking Violet!
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Copyright 2021 by Lettie R. Violetta
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Dedication
I dedicate this book to my daughter,
Mikhayla Christian,
of whom I am most proud and of
whom God sent through me
and in me,
my earth angel.
Acknowledgments
Thank you to everyone who made this book possible. To all my friends and pastors who encouraged me and helped me know deep down I am the winner, God says I am . Thank you to my family of choice that led me to happiness in Jesus. Thank you to all of my clients who have become my loyal friends and family and to all those who invested in this journey. Thank you all for helping me get to the winning side of life where I AM NO Shrinking Violet. Where I am healed.
Endorsements
Lettie has an amazing story of Gods redemptive grace. Shes a fabulous communicator with a passionate voice that will help other victims of abuse and trauma find hope and healing through Christ.
Bruce W. Martin, Author, Speaker, Bible Teacher, Counselor, Adventure Guide
Lettie is passionate about helping people see possibility!
Jill Savage, Author
Adversity in human life is something present in our earthly existence. It is how we face, manage, and learn from it that defines us. This story portrays a never give up attitude . Prayers and perseverance to adapt and overcome. Glory be to God!
L.J.Kilgore, RN
Letties account of her life has elements of both desperation and determination. This is a very candid, often hard-to-read account of Letties journey to her spiritual awakening. In the end, I believe she is content with where she is and who she is, and she is anxious to see what the next chapter brings .
Gary Bollinger, Business Marketing
God bless the anointed words in this book. May they inspire you to live a joyful and purpose-filled life of abundance in Jesus name!
You may be asking, But what if my life is in the furthest place from joy? What if all I know is hurt and pain? This book is especially for you . You see, these pages are filled with an incredible testimony of the transformative power of God to heal us from abandonment, abuse, cruelty, and much worse.
Ive been friends with Lettie for over four years. We met at church and shared our love for worshipping God through music. At that time, I would have never guessed the pain that she came from. She was and is beautifulinside and outand confident, yet so sweet and kind.
I see now that God drew us together because weve both survived intense evil in our backgrounds. Like two sides of the same coin, some of my experiences were different, but I can relate to the level of vile wickedness that can take place in ones own home. My mom and dad were loving saints. However, later in my childhood, I had the misfortune of being around a man who I refer to as demon.
God also placed Lettie in my path to help me heal when I lost my brother suddenly in a car accident three years ago. She was one of the only ones outside of my immediate family who showed concern and prayed with me. She was a shining example of how important it is to have the right alignments and family of choice.
When asked why she was writing this book, Letties objective was clear, and her answer without hesitation: to change lives. I have no doubt that readers of this book will have their lives changed for the better because Lettie doesnt just share the bad, she offers scriptures, examples, and solutions to combat the darkness with light.
Luisa Jimmerson, Family of Choice,
Communications Manager
I grew up in a small farming community in Michigan, which is where I met Lettie. We became fast friends during our middle school years, and this friendship remains one of my most cherished to this day. I did not know back then, nor would I have been able to fully comprehend the struggles she had in her life. Regardless of her personal circumstances, she has been able to put a smile on my face throughout the years as we have shared the triumphs and disappointments of life. She has been able to transcend the issues of her life and show compassion with a sense of humor.
In these pages, Lettie will share some of her darkest storiesones that have been pivotal in her search for understanding, empowerment, and unconditional love. I believe she has found these in her Savior, Jesus Christ.
As a fellow Christian, I, too, feel the empowerment of knowing I am loved by God and that He has a greater purpose for those who love Him in return. She will share her thoughts and favorite Bible verses which led her to healing. I hope you find her journey to be an inspiring message of hope.
Becky Damzyn, B.S. CPS, CMU
Inspiring! My friend and sister in Christ, Lettie Violetta, has penned a heartfelt and moving collection of autobiographical sketches presenting the struggles and triumphs of her lifes journey as a follower of Jesus . Her story is the story that God wants for all of us: to accept His Son, Christ Jesus, His shed blood on the Cross, and His Resurrection from the dead for the forgiveness of our sins and the eternal salvation of our souls. Through many ups and downs, she has clung to her Risen Savior and her Bible, embracing His grace and knowing His divine protection as it is written in His Word. She demonstrates in her writing that Gods greatest giftHis Son Jesus and His redemptive work on the Crossfar surpasses the temporary pain and riches of this life.