David Powlison - Good and Angry: Redeeming Anger, Irritation, Complaining, and Bitterness

Good and Angry by Powlison now takes its rightful place as my number one recommendation on angernot to mention it now stands as the fullest and wisest Christian response to the sub-theme of self-hatred and self-anger I have ever read.

Tony Reinke, Desiring God.com; host of the Ask Pastor John podcast; author of Newton on the Christian Life: To Live Is Christ

If there is any counselor on the planet who is qualified to come alongside you and point you to the truth about yourself and the Lord who loves you, it is David Powlison. For decades now hes been the primary voice of grace-saturated counsel and he speaks from a position of deep wisdom and careful exegesis. If you or someone you know has a problem with anger, this book is for you. In other words, everyone should buy it.

Elyse Fitzpatrick, Author of Counsel from the Cross

Endorsing something that has occupied fifteen years of the salt n light life of Dr. David Powlison is a privilege. As an Anglican priest of an inner-city parish in Charleston, SC; having struggled with and viewed anger up-close-and-personal in our community, the God tools and experiences within the pages of Good and Angry are personally germane to me. And will enable me to teach others how to biblically reframe anger.

The Rev. Dr. Dallas H. Wilson, Jr., Vicar, St. Johns Chapel, Charleston, South Carolina

David Powlison does not treat anger as a disease to be cured or a vice to be crushed. After all, the Bible depicts both Jesus and his heavenly Father as sometimes angry. Expect no comforting nostrums from these pages. Here, instead, you will find biblically faithful probing and gospel hope that will make it possible to be good and angry.

D. A. Carson, Research Professor of New Testament, Trinity Evangelical School, Deerfield, IL; cofounder of The Gospel Coalition

This book is vintage Powlisonbalanced, insightful, and richly nuanced. Powlison maps our anger (both good and bad) not on a sprinkling of Bible verses but on the gospel and the breadth and depth of biblical narrative. This is one of those books you not only read, but buy copies to pass to friends.

Paul Miller, Director of seeJesus, author of A Loving Life

It is a rare thing to find a fusion of biblically accurate and personally applicable insight in much that is written about anger. Dr. David Powlison is a stunning exception. He wields his written insight with all the wisdom and care with which a shepherd carries a staff to direct and defend the sheep dearly loved by the greatest Shepherd. His grasp of the Word of God and the heart of humanity is startlingly clear, compelling, convicting, and comforting.

Joseph Vincent Novenson, Senior Teaching Pastor, Lookout Mountain Presbyterian Church, Lookout Mountain, TN

Good and Angry is the best book I have reviewed related to the heart of anger. David Powlison gets the nuances of the heart, and his careful and thorough understanding of anger from a biblical perspective is a significant contribution to the biblical counseling movement. He shows us that with Christ as our example and the gospel as our guide we can forgive, be motivated to mercy, and even learn to love our enemies. I recommend this book to anyone who has ever been angry, loves someone who struggles with anger, and especially to those who dont think they have a problem with anger. I pray this book is as helpful to you as it has been to me.

Garrett Higbee, Executive Director, Biblical Soul Care Ministries

David Powlison helps us to think clearly about our anger, no matter which form it tends to take. This book really is a one-size-fits-all, and the format is like interactive counseling. Whether or not you are already aware of your anger problem, you need this book. Good and Angry is an exceptional resource for everyonefrom parents and teachers to pastors and missionaries.

Gloria Furman, Cross-cultural worker; author of The Pastors Wife and Missional Motherhood

The great thing about David Powlisons counseling and writing is that he is willing to get his hands dirty as he brings the gospel into the root problems of our lives. His discussions not only deal with the realities of our struggles but the realities of his own grappling for helpat a depth most of us are not capable or daring enough to consider. Yet, as troubling as are the problems he tackles, so refreshing and realistic are the gospel truths he unearths for us. He digs into his own heart to help us know how to bring gospel restoration to ours.

Bryan Chapell, Pastor of Grace Presbyterian Church, Peoria, IL

This is the most complete, biblical, insightful, and practical book on anger that I have ever read. The concepts are clearly explained with plenty of illustrations from the biblical record as well as from our daily lives. It is obvious that the author is quite experienced in this field, knowing the personal and interpersonal conflicts that trigger the angry reactions in us. It is hard to think of a person that would not be helped by this book.

Miguel Nez, Senior Pastor, International Baptist Church of Santo Domingo; President, Wisdom and Integrity Ministries

Good and Angry masterfully captures the way every last one of us needs our anger redeemed and brims with practical wisdom to help that happen. This book moves far beyond anger management, consistently reorienting us to Gods redemptive purposes for anger against real wrongs, while unveiling the lies that fuel destructive rage and cold-hearted grumbling. I have not read a more soul-searching and refreshing book in a long time.

J. Alasdair Groves, Director of Counseling, CCEF New England

Good and Angry takes a comprehensive look at good anger and destructive anger. I especially appreciate how David names the more covert forms of anger such as indifference, withdrawal, and contempt as being just as sinful and destructive as the more aggressive anger of rage and bullying. I will encourage my clients who are in destructive relationships to study this book to gain greater self-awareness of whats driving them when anger overwhelms them.

Leslie Vernick, LCSW; relationship coach; speaker; author of The Emotionally Destructive Marriage and The Emotionally Destructive Relationship

Far too often in Christian circles our approach to emotions tends toward simplistic and negative. Anger is bad. Stop it. Thats why Im so grateful for David Powlisons robust, redemptive wisdom found in Good and Angry . David teaches us how Christs gospel of grace emancipates our hearts so that even the messy emotion of anger can fruitfully and beautifully reflect the holy love of Christ.

Bob Kellemen, Biblical Counseling Chair at Crossroads Bible College; author of Gospel-Centered Counseling: How Christ Changes Lives

I struggle with sinful anger every day. This book is an excellent source of help in understanding my problem, discerning my motives, examining the lies I tend to believe, and diagnosing the deep roots of sin that compel me to explode in rage or retreat in cold, hateful disdain. In his chapter on anger toward God, Powlison invites us to a courageous honesty that puts us on the pathway to repentance, the sweet and rugged landscape of every believers life.

Barb Duguid, Author of Extravagant Grace

Ive had righteous anger before, I think, but not very often. Most of my anger is more than a little bit unrighteous. In this wise and immensely practical book, David Powlison brings a lifetime of skill at understanding the human heart to help us deal with one of the worlds biggest problems: anger, and everything that leads up to it.

Philip Ryken, President, Wheaton College

David Powlison helps us to see that anger is not a problem to be solved but a natural human response to injustice, things we believe to be not right. The problem we face is how to respond to what is not right without sinning. Powlison helps us by encouraging us to admit our sinful anger problems, exposing the roots of sinful anger, and teaching us how to express the right kind of anger in the right way. I needed this book! And if youre anything like me, you need it as well.