Every once in a while, a book lands on my desk that I wish I had read when I was in college. The book you now hold in your hands is one of those books.... This is theology at its best. It is both pastoral and personal.
CAROLYN CUSTIS JAMES, AUTHOR OF MALESTROM AND HALF THE CHURCH, FROM FOREWORD
Melanie Springer Mocks Worthy is so many things: memoir and resource, theological reflection and cultural critique. As a narrator, she is wise, cantankerous, charming. An astute cultural critic, Mock reads the narratives of North American Christianity for the ways in which they give and hinder life, and offers tools for challenging the forces in Christian and secular culture that insist that we are anything less than createdindividually, diverselyin the image of God.
BROMLEIGH MCCLENEGHAN, AUTHOR OF GOOD CHRISTIAN SEX
Melanie Springer Mocks new book, Worthy, truly matters. It matters, as Madeleine LEngle might say, cosmically, as the author tells her own story of untangling her faith from empty or showy religion and affirms that we are all image-bearers of God and are worthy simply because we exist. I love Mocks sensibility (and good sense) and her call to authenticity and love.
JENNIFER GRANT, AUTHOR OF WHEN DID EVERYBODY ELSE GET SO OLD?
Reading Worthy is like sitting down for a cup of coffee with a best friend you didnt know you had. Melanie Springer Mock both affirms the worthiness of every human being as one created in Gods image and gently leads her reader to consider larger questions of social justice in the context of individual worth. This book is a must-read for anyone who has ever felt like an outsider, watching the parade of haves go by while perennially feeling like a have-not.
ELRENA EVANS, EDITOR AT EVANGELICALS FOR SOCIAL ACTION
When we are truly, deeply loved, the way Jesus loves, our hearts and minds expand beyond all knowing. This book doesnt just describe that love; it takes you inside it through the power of story. Reading these beautiful, vulnerable stories will make you feel worthy in your very bonesand will inspire you to love others the same way. What good news!
SHIRLEY HERSHEY SHOWALTER, AUTHOR OF BLUSH
Melanie Springer Mocks Worthy uniquely weaves scholarly inquiry and good storytelling into a powerful witness. Through it she touches virtually every area of demeaning and destructive division in modern society and in evangelical Christianity. Her memoir, written in the tradition of spiritual autobiography, helps readers see that Jesus life and unconditional love have indeed changed the sentence structureand thus the power structure for all of us, from one of never being enough to one of being profoundly worthy just as we are.
BETTINA TATE PEDERSEN, PROFESSOR OF LITERATURE AND WOMENS STUDIES, POINT LOMA NAZARENE UNIVERSITY
Using her own life as a flashlight, Melanie Springer Mock wonderfully illustrates ways to discover worth when not enough is the message most often heard in Christian and secular cultures. If you are yearning to be simply and amazingly you in Christ and in community, read this book. It certainly touched me.
MARYKATE MORSE, AUTHOR AND SPIRITUAL DIRECTOR
Part I
IN A WORLD EXPECTING SOMEONE ELSE
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Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data
Names: Mock, Melanie Springer, 1968-author.
Title: Worthy : finding yourself in a world expecting someone else / Melanie Springer Mock.
Description: Harrisonburg : Herald Press, 2018. | Includes bibliographical references.
Identifiers: LCCN 2017052092| ISBN 9781513802541 (pbk. : alk. paper) | ISBN 9781513802558 (hardcover : alk. paper)
Subjects: LCSH: Christian women--Religious life. | Self-actualization (Psychology) in women. | Self-actualization (Psychology)--Religious aspects--Christianity. | Identity (Psychology)--Religious aspects--Christianity.
Classification: LCC BV4527 .M565 2018 | DDC 248.4/897--dc23 LC record available at https://lccn.loc.gov/2017052092
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Unless otherwise noted, Scripture text is quoted, with permission, from the New Revised Standard Version, 1989, Division of Christian Education of the National Council of Churches of Christ in the United States of America.
WORTHY
2018 by Herald Press, Harrisonburg, Virginia 22803. 800-245-7894.
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Library of Congress Control Number: 2017052092
International Standard Book Number: 978-1-5138-0254-1 (paperback); 978-1-5138-0255-8 (hardcover); 978-1-5138-0256-5 (ebook)
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Cover and interior design by Reuben Graham
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To those who have loved me, just as I am.
You know who you are.
To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment.
Ralph Waldo Emerson
FOREWORD
E very once in a while, a book lands on my desk that I wish I had read when I was in college. The book you now hold in your hands is one of those books.
I doubt that reading Melanie Springer Mocks Worthy would have spared me the deep personal struggles I experienced when my own story veered off the script that I, as a woman, had inherited from my family, church, and culture. But it would have been worth a lot to have her company on the journey and to hear her voice of experience in the process.
This book is part memoir, part sage advicea compelling mix of Mocks own story and the kinds of struggles shes encountered along the way that left her believing she didnt measure up as a Christian, a woman, a mother, and a professor. Her story isnt unique, which is why this book is such a gift. I suspect all readers will find themselves somewhere in the struggles shes experienced.
I was only a few paragraphs into the book when I started seeing my own story in hers. Like Mock, I grew up in Oregon with the expectations that come with being a pastors kid. Like her story, mine also veered from the churchs biblical script for women when, post-college, instead of marriage and motherhood, I entered a long and unexpected stretch of singleness. Marriage didnt recover that script. Instead, I became the family breadwinner in a career I loved while my husband completed his academic training. Like Mock, I too became a working mother, sharing the same sense of isolation and disapproval she describes as she juggled her twin loves: mom to two boys and college professor.
Mock is a lover of narratives and a wonderful storyteller herself. By weaving her own story in and through the issues she addresses, she draws us in to think more deeply about pressures and negative messages that hinder us from embracing our own uniqueness and the stories we are living. And Mock is right there in the struggles with us.
Early in the book, she writes, I am not a biblical scholar or a theologian. I understand what she means and why that might be good news to readers. But I reject her disclaimer. She may not be a professional theologian, but her down-to-earth theology is what gives this book the kind of relevance we need. This is theology at its best. It is both pastoral and personal. The brand of theology embedded in this book is deeply rooted in real life. It speaks into our own stories and engages the tough questions and self-doubts we all encounter. It gives us courage and hope when life unexpectedly detours into painful circumstances that leave us feeling lost, abandoned, and unworthy. It makes a difference when our feet hit the floor in the morning.
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