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Its time to break the cycle.

Not every family is the perfect model of Catholic family life. Some of us approach parenting still wounded by childhood experiences that were less than ideal. When we start our own families, at best we feel a bit unprepared, and at worst we feel paralyzed with fear that we will repeat our parents dysfunctional, abusive behaviors.

In All Things New, Erin McCole Cupp draws on her own and others experiences to discuss how to develop a joyful family life when our own experience of being parented was damaging. Erin wrote this book for moms and dads who want to parent better than they themselves were parented.

Drawing on the Holy Family as the model of family life, and distilling practical lessons from the Two Greatest Commandments and the Beatitudes, All Things New shows readers that, while change isnt easy, God has given us all the ingredients we need to create a holy, joyful family.

ABOUT THE AUTHOR

Erin McCole Cupp is a wife, mother, and lay Dominican. She cohosts the monthly YouTube series Sabbath Rest Book Talk and writes the monthly Adventures of a Rosary Family column at CatholicMom.com. Get to know Erin and her books at erinmccolecupp.com.

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All Things New
All Things New

Breaking the Cycle and Raising a Joyful Family

Erin McCole Cupp

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Nihil Obstat

Msgr. Michael Heintz, Ph.D.

Censor Librorum

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Kevin C. Rhoades

Bishop of Fort Wayne-South Bend

December 19, 2020

The Nihil Obstat and Imprimatur are official declarations that a book is free from doctrinal or moral error. It is not implied that those who have granted the Nihil Obstat and Imprimatur agree with the contents, opinions, or statements expressed.

Except where noted, Scripture texts in this work are taken from the New American Bible, Revised Edition 2010, 1991, 1986, 1970 Confraternity of Christian Doctrine, Washington, D.C., and are used by permission of the copyright owner. All rights reserved. No part of the New American Bible may be reproduced in any form without permission in writing from the copyright owner.

Every reasonable effort has been made to determine copyright holders of excerpted materials and to secure permissions as needed. If any copyrighted materials have been inadvertently used in this work without proper credit being given in one form or another, please notify Our Sunday Visitor in writing so that future printings of this work may be corrected accordingly.

The ideas expressed here and elsewhere in the authors work are those of the author alone and do not represent the endorsement or position of the Lay Fraternities of Saint Dominic or the Order of Preachers as a whole.

Copyright 2021 by Erin McCole Cupp

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All rights reserved. With the exception of short excerpts for critical reviews, no part of this work may be reproduced or transmitted in any form or by any means whatsoever without permission from the publisher. For more information, visit: www.osv.com/permissions.

Our Sunday Visitor Publishing Division, Our Sunday Visitor, Inc., 200 Noll Plaza, Huntington, IN 46750; 1-800-348-2440; www.osv.com

ISBN: 978-1-68192-421-2 (Inventory No. T2314)

1. FAMILY & RELATIONSHIPSParentingGeneral

2. RELIGIONChristian LifeFamily

3. RELIGIONChristianityCatholic

eISBN: 978-1-68192-422-9

LCCN: 2020942141

Cover/interior design: Chelsea Alt

Cover art: Adobe Stock

P RINTED IN THE U NITED S TATES OF A MERICA

To my children,

who will gleefully tell you how often I fail to take my own advice.

Thank you for pointing me to heaven in all you do.

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Introduction
An Empty Jug

The jar of flour did not go empty, nor the jug of oil run dry, according to the word of the L ORD spoken through Elijah.

1 Kings 17:16

Tunnels Through Ash, Flowers on Stone

On May 18, 1980, in Washington State, the volcano Mount Saint Helens erupted. An entire slope of the once-conical mountain collapsed in a dramatic landslide of super-heated gas and rock. The devastation that followed killed every living thing, including fifty-seven humans, in two hundred square miles. The rich pine forest that covered the acreage around the mountain was simply sheared off, clogging nearby bodies of water with thousands upon thousands of naked, heat-blasted logs. The mountains pyroclastic flow didnt just singe the earth. It scorched everything in its path, plunging into neighboring Spirit Lake and boiling away every sign of life in its waters.

As soon as it was deemed safe, the United States Geological Survey sent scientists to what became called the blowdown zone or blast zone. The USGS didnt just send geologists, however. They also sent biologists, looking for signs of life in the devastation. With that level of destruction, nobody expected to see anything but barren dust for at least a decade, probably more. The eruption had blanketed the soil with nutrient-poor ash, hostile to most plants. The pyroclastic flow had cooked the lakes inhabitants and deprived the waters of oxygen, making it inhospitable at best to any wandering species looking for a new settling spot.

Then, something unexpected happened. Not three months after the explosion, there were signs of tunneling through the ash the types of tunnels made by the northern pocket gopher, a species protected from the volcanos effects by its burrowing habits. Less than a year after the eruption, biologists were even further surprised to find an actual plant in full flower in the most devastated, least fertile area of the blast zone. This flower, a purple-and-white-bloomed prairie lupine, managed to establish itself in the layers of barren ash thanks to its root structure, which hosts bacteria, which in turn provide the host lupines roots with the nitrogen that volcanic ash lacks.

As first months then years went by, USGS scientists were ever more shocked by how quickly species after species returned to the region, bringing color and life back to the blast zone. A process that wasnt expected to start for at least ten years began in only three months. While the area around Mount Saint Helens will always show evidence of the May 18, 1980, eruption, it also shows abundant proof that natures default state in the face of devastation is rebirth.

Different Coast, Different Blast Zone

I resist thinking about what I may have been doing on May 18, 1980. I would have been six years old, living on the coast opposite Mount Saint Helens. May 18th was a Sunday that year, so we probably went to Mass some time that morning. That much I can guess with reasonable confidence. What happened that day besides? I dont really want to wonder. Perhaps nothing happened of either monumental goodness or badness, but I automatically resist thinking about any part of my childhood. Why? Isnt childhood supposed to be a joyful romp? Isnt childhood designed to be spent learning the art of unconditional love at the feet of able mentors? Isnt the soil of childhood supposed to be rich and encouraging, full of emotional nutrients that make fussy babies flower into mature, caring, empathetic adults?

Its supposed to be all those things, yes. But for some of us, its just a barren blanket of blasted ash.

I dont need to go into much detail to express that the way I was parented left me with few positive memories of growing up. I dont need many words to convince you that looking back at my own parents methods of dealing with me as a child did nothing but teach me how I dont want to parent. I only need the shadow of language to express that my childhood was a time of helplessness, of not mattering, of screaming to have my pain heard only to be told to stop screaming so much or the neighbors will hear, dont you know this neighborhood is some kind of echo chamber? People are trying to sleep, you know.

If youve picked up this book, you probably dont need too many details from me. You can fill in your own from your own life. You, too, know what it feels like to hurt the most at the hands of the people God meant to love you the most. You know what it means to not matter when you should, to be called selfish for asking to matter, to never know enough, do enough, or be enough to the people who are supposed to love you unconditionally, who shouldnt ask you to be enough of anything.

If youve picked up this book, you probably look back at your childhood and see devastation, barrenness, nothing to call nurturing. Nothing to call sacrificial love. Nothing vibrant enough to call life. Ill bet that you, too, also feel the same dread when well-meaning people chuckle phrases like, Like mother, like daughter! or, A chip off the old block! or, The apple doesnt fall far from the tree! Like me, you look at your childhood and know how you

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