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FOREWORD BY MATT BALDONI
It's not often that you go from fan to friend in the arts world. As a musician, I've had the opportunity to meet a few of my musician heroes personally, but never become friends with them. I do have talented friends and colleagues in my business and in other fields of art, and most of them inspire me at least a little bit. None as much as Aaron does.
I was introduced to his material by simple recommendation and became a fan very quickly. I watched videos, purchased books, downloaded podcasts, and added his material as part of my life's routine until the material became a powerful influence that changed my life. Upon realizing this, I reached out to thank him. A few years later, we are close and personal friends, and I remain one of his biggest fans. Becoming friends with someone whom you're this big of a fan of is an honor and can change your life.
When Cappy Cap announced to me that he was writing another book, and the subject was High IQ, we discussed it and shared ideas about it. As usual with his books, I became interested and excited to eventually buy it and read it as a fan. When he asked me if I'd like to contribute to this work, a second life-changing honor occurred, and I happily accepted. For me, this was like a musical hero asking me to play on his record or sit in with him on a gig. Now that I have read the work and understand its message, I can safely say that it's my favorite work of Aaron's so far, and it may be his most powerful book yet.
Those of us who are fans of his will know his work's message(s) well. He speaks to young people, particularly men, about how to live an optimized life in most every way. Education, finance, dating, friendships, health, hobbies, romantic relationships, and many more subjects are all covered in his books, podcasts, videos, and consultations. Those of us who know him will know without a doubt that he is an expert enough to demand damn good money for his advice and thoughts.
Perhaps for some of you, this is your first time reading one of Aaron Clarey's books. If that's the case, I have some advice for you. Prepare to be reaffirmed in many opinions you may already have, but felt you needed to keep quiet due to societal pressures/conditions, professional aspirations, or friends and loved ones. One thing all of us who are fans have in common is that we love that there's someone who says what we've all been thinking.
I'll also advise that you keep going deeper into Aaron's prolific catalog after reading this book. Bachelor Pad Economics is the mens' encyclopedia for life, Worthless has saved young people thousands of dollars and years of shame, Behind The Housing Crash predicted the near-collapse of the U.S. Economy and tells you why, and Captain Capitalism: Top Shelf and Reserved are the quintessential collections from his blog writings, allowing you to not only learn from his expertise but witness his evolution and growth as a writer, which is remarkable. I advise all those new to Captain Capitalism to dig deep and read EVERYTHING. TWICE.
One night recently on a gig, I had the opportunity to spend time with someone I can easily equate to Aaron Clarey. This gentleman is also a staunch libertarian, an intelligent and high-level thinker with a likely-high IQ, an entertainment hero of mine, and a personal friend. The man I am speaking of is magician Penn Jillette, my personal hero in Las Vegas entertainment. He and I spoke of Aaron Clarey that night, and he was familiar. This brought a huge smile to my face, and I walked out onto a stage that night to receive an award for Entertainer of The Year here in Las Vegas. As Penn looked on smiling from side-of-stage, I thought of us just speaking of Aaron. As I accepted the award and took a bow amidst the applause, I thought to myself, There's no way you'd be getting this tonight without Aaron. That is no lie. The guy'll change your life.
I also can't help but remember the time that Aaron and I stood at the near-top of an 11,000 foot peak in rural Nevada, talking to each other about the journey up that far, and admiring the view with smiles on our faces. The mountain and our journey to the top is a metaphor for life. Aaron has written in nearly all of his works that the most important part of life is other human beings. They are the ones that help you get to the top of that mountain where you can enjoy the view and survey your domain from a new place in life. I am one of the lucky guys to call Aaron a friend who's helped me get there, and after you read this book, you will feel the same.
Matt Baldoni
www.mattbaldoni.com
Las Vegas, January 2016
INTRODUCTION
Highly Successful, Miserable Freaks
Mike was 43 and although his real estate business took a terrible turn during the housing crash, he was one of the few who survived it. He made wise decisions, cut the budget as necessary, and with some hard work and clever investments he recovered nicely. He had his dream cabin up north as well as a schwank James Bond early 60s style house in the city all in his name. A nice gun collection to pursue his passion of hunting with. And free time. Loads of free time as he would read books, watch Black Adder, and pursue his various entrepreneurial ideas plastered on the white board in his office.
He was his own man. He answered to no one. He was living the dream.
Jeff was also very successful. After selling his stake in a small business at 46, he started his own special materials transport company. He move to Las Vegas to avoid the Minnesota winters and, again, with some wise decisions and hard work was clearing nearly half a million a year in profit. With this profit came a lifestyle of luxury and free time he never experienced before, but one he certainly capitalized on, affording himself a fine cigar hobby, frequent travel, a Harley, not to mention courtships with one or two (perhaps three or fourcertainly no more than five or six) girls half his age.
He too was his own man. Answered to no one. And was living the dream.
And then there was Tony. Tony was a major in the US Army tortured about whether to stay his 20 years and collect a pension. Not that he needed the money - he was a minimalist and took whatever money he didnt spend and invested it in rental property. But his simplistic and frugal lifestyle allowed him a freedom few other 35 year olds had. He could sample the finest scotches at the finest bars in Miami as his studio apartment was in an enviable neighborhood. He also, perhaps, sampled some of the finest ladies the town had to offer as he was devastatingly charming, incredibly witty, but also a master at meting it out at opportune moments.
He too, like Mike and Jeff, was his own man. Answered to no one. And was living the dream.
So why were they all miserable?
Mike, for all of his success and free time, seemed hell-bent to stay in his basement, wishing to do nothing more than watch BBC comedies. I could rarely get him to go out, but when I did he was nowhere near as animated as when I knew him in his youth. He was in his pajamas usually by 7PM, asking me if I wanted milk or tea. And even though the sun had yet to set, when I inquired if he wanted to go out for dinner, coffee, or a run it was always too close to his bedtime to contemplate such excitement.