Coc kfidence
The Definitive Guide
To Being The Man
You Want To Be
And
Driving Women Wild
Celeste Hirschman, M.A.
Danielle Harel, Ph.D.
COCKFIDENCE
By Celeste Hirschman, MA and Danielle Harel, PhD
Copyright 2018 Celeste Hirschman and Danielle Harel
All rights reserved
www.CelesteAndDanielle.com
Published by Somatica Press
Cover design: Jay (Yair) Harel
Cover photos: Tiffany Schoepp
www.TiffPhoto.com
Interior design: Joel Friedlander
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This book is not intended as a substitute for the medical advice of physicians. The reader should regularly consult a physician in matters relating to his/her health and particularly with respect to any symptoms that may require diagnosis or medical attention.
ISBN 978-0-9832403-0-3
Printed in the United States of America
Second Edition
Acknowledgments
T here are so many people walking around with books inside them, and we realize we are among the extraordinarily fortunate because we have had a whole team working with us to bring Cockfidence to fruition. We could never have done this without the loving support and constant help and feedback of Yair Harel and Dimitry Yakoushkin thank you for bringing your creativity, enthusiasm and commitment to the project. A big, heartfelt thanks to Rich Friesen, who sat with us for long hours recording our babblings and gave feedback on drafts. Warm hugs and thanks to our editing heroes: thank you David Lazarony, Ed Bierman, David H., Matt Schindler, Jon Hull, Chris Ward, Marty Friesen, and Tom Rehor. Great big hugs of gratitude to Celestes family: her mom, Magick, for hosting weekend writing marathons and content brainstorms; her sister, Allegra, for her socially conscious edits and witty contributions; her sister, April, who always keeps the dream alive and reminded us to take care of ourselves in the process and her father, Marc, who read to her nightly as a child and had more books in the house than the local library. Thank you to Danielles children, Sitar and Shiraz, who are teaching her about love every day. Huge appreciations to our content editor, Laura Cross, with her stunning eye for organization and much-needed encouragements. Finally, a tremendous thank you to all of our clients and workshop participants in every moment we have spent with you, we have learned and loved, laughed and cried and co-created a more passionate, expressive, and dynamic world in which to live.
Foreword to the 2nd Edition
I ts been 7 years since the first edition of Cockfidence was released and so much has happened since then. Somatica, the method Cockfidence is based on, has become a full-scale coaching method with coaches being trained from across the country and the world. Hundreds of men have attended Cockfidence workshops spreading joy amongst the women they are dating or in relationships with and we are rolling out Cockfidence 2.0 - a three day workshop to continue to help men experience the full force of sexual and relational confidence out in the world.
In addition to all of this, so many men have written to us to let us know about the impact Cockfidence has had on their lives. After presenting our work to medical clinics in a number of the high tech giants in Silicon Valley, one of the clinic physicians wrote us, I bought and read Cockfidence. Very insightful and helpful. Ive already recommended it to two men yesterday.
"Its a great read for any man who wants to be a spectacular lover! Some very simple techniques explained in a practical straight forward manner. Thank you for letting us guys in on the inner workings of female sexuality! We need all the help we can get! Lol!"
" When I use these techniques each sexual experience is special and in the moment. I am a single man that walks around in this world knowing that if a woman says yes to me she will receive an amazing confident experience.
A bluntly honest and intimate guide to the mysteries of female sexual behavior and relationships, and how to approach sex in a meaningful, fun, and exciting way.
I hate self-help books but this one was really practical and genuine. I got the feeling that the authors really cared about me, and men, and I guess ultimately because they wanted my wife to have a better man. Its funny because my wife
enjoyed this book as much as i did and reading it together got us thinking of ways to enhance our sex life as a married couple.
With technological advances and access to all sorts of sexual materials, the world of dating, relationships, and marriage continue to transform at a rapid pace. However, the deeper needs that people have around sexual desire, touch, interpersonal connection, personal autonomy and turn-on remain largely the same. As the world continues to get more and more complex, the tools in Cockfidence are even more relevant.
Finding your inner compass, knowing who you are and what you are passionate about, and really understanding how to be present, sexy and emotionally intelligent with women are essential skills. Mastering them means that you can always be in your full integrity while having intensely hot and deeply satisfying connections with women.
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T here is nothing like the power you feel when you bring a woman to a place where she is hot, inviting and generous with her sexuality, you make her scream with orgasms and she wants more and more. What you might not realize is that most women have this capacity, but it takes a confident, erotically powerful and skilled lover to encourage a woman towards her full sexual potential. You can be this confident, powerful, virile man and be an Extraordinary Lover. You can have passionate, satisfying and exciting sex and relationships with amazing women. You can be this man all the time.
In our practice, we meet men who want to be themselves and understand what women want sexually and interpersonally. We have so much compassion for men; men and women are very different and it can be very confusing to try to figure out what women want. In the process of connecting with women, there are many stumbling blocks that may pull you out of your center. These include hiding your sexual desire for fear of rejection; misunderstanding women, their emotions and their desires; or fearing that connecting with a woman in any way means making a commitment, even if you arent ready.
There is an art to becoming the kind of man who claims his own desires and satisfies a womans deepest longings. This book teaches you the secret connection between stepping into your power and igniting a womans desire. The secret is found in your connection with your sexual energy and we call this connection Cockfidence .
Throughout your life, youve probably met men who seem to just have it; they get all the women while doing whatever they want to do. You may think Cockfidence is something that people either have naturally or dont. Cockfience is actually a set of qualities that can be developed.
We have worked with thousands of men and women, both single and in relationship, and we have discovered that Cockfidence is built from nine personal qualities.
We call these the 9 Qualities of an Extraordinary Lover:
1. Presence
2. Acceptance
3. Confidence
4. Generosity
5. Passion
6. Empathy
7. Curiosity
8. Spontaneity
9. Sensuality
Using these 9 Qualities, we developed a transformative process that has changed the lives and relationships of our clients. In this book, we reveal our secrets and walk you through all that we have discovered so you too can become a Cockfident man.
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