Samantha M Yung - Tantric Sex: BLOW HIS MIND!: Secret Tantric Guide to Sex and Erotic Massage

Keep in mind that tantric sex is all about steeping yourselves in arousal and building passion gradually, oh-so-slowly, so that you and your man are able to stay below boiling point for the longest possible time. Start by creating an environment that is conducive for pleasure. While not everyone has the time to build their very own carnal temple, make sure that the place is at least clutter-free. Choose a quiet, isolated spot tha t s free from distractions. If possible, arrange the room so that it will not remind you of your daily routine and responsibilities. Switch off your phones and get rid of paperwork or anything that can distract you or your man.

Bear in mind too that tantric sex is all about engaging the five senses. This means you need to set the environment in such a way that it would stimulate the senses. You may make use of sandalwood or jasmine incense, dim the lights, light some candles, or play soft and erotic ethnic music in the background. Feed each other aphrodisiacs like oysters, chocolates, or strawberries and drink some light red wine. Men are known to be visual beings. Therefore, you should pay extra attention to your looks. Dress in a seductive robe or a revealing sarong that can easily be removed. Remember that red is the color of passion and fertility. Alternatively, you may dress yourself in a color that flatters you the most.

The next step would be to tune in with each other. Get your ma n s sexual energy in sync with yours by assuming the traditional spooning position. Your bodies should be curved together and your arms wrapped around each other. While doing this, concentrate on the rhythm of each othe r s breathing. Do this until you are able to breathe in and breathe out together. Continue doing this until the both of you feel like an extension of the other.

While in bed, sit across from each other, cross-legged or on your knees. Gaze into each othe r s eyes. Communicate with each other through your eyes. Breathe. Stay in tune with each othe r s rhythm. Keep inhaling and exhaling together. Do this for a couple of minutes.

Gently graze your fingertips all over your ma n s body. Use long, teasing strokes on his erogenous zones. The goal here is to awaken the nerves. Do n t dive directly to his private parts. Instead, simply brush your fingers in points that are excruciatingly near them, such as his inguinal region. Continue caressing his body, brushing your fingertips across the length of his arms, his legs, the soles of his feet, etc. Proceed to stroking the non-genital areas that usually do n t get enough attention during lovemaking. Non-genital pleasure zones include his ears, his nipples, his sacrum, his gluteal folds, and the soles of his feet.

• Once yo u ve triggered his nerve endings, i t s time to activate the chakras. Continue facing each other. This time, do n t touch each other. Then touch your own nipples with your fingers and proceed to massaging yourselves in spiral movements for nine deep breaths.
• Afterwards, run your fingers down your ribs and massage it in a spiraling motion. Do this for eighteen deep breaths. Watch each other. Inhale and exhale twenty seven times.
• Next, massage the area between your ribs and your navel. Do this for thirty-six deep breaths. After a while, join your hands on the area below the navel. Rub this part gently in a circular motion for fifty-four deep breaths.
• After this, move on to the spot that is halfway between your navel and your pubic bone. Massage this place for sixty-three deep breaths.
• Now you may touch your own genitals. Stroke them slowly and seductively for seventy-two breaths. Make sure that you are watching each other.
• Lastly, lie down beside each other and stroke yourselves just behind the genitals. Whatever you do, do n t touch each other. This is to be done for eighty-two breaths.