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This book will show you how to perform tantric sex and tantric massage to prolong physical pleasure, strengthen the connection, and increase sexual intimacy with your man.
Whenever you perform tantric lovemaking, you are able to reach a higher plane of sexual bliss and a deeper state of emotional connection. Our bodies are composed of energy centers called chakras. In tantric sex, these energy centers are activated through the syncing of your partne r s chakras with your own. This way, you are able to create a connection that goes beyond the physical plane. This book will provide you with step-by-step instructions in performing traditional tantric sex. Discover the sex position that will allow you to transcend from down-and-dirty to the divine.
The goal of tantra is to keep you and your partner in a plateau of pleasure, wrapped up in a slow burning passion, which will inevitably lead to an otherworldly orgasmic experience. Through this book, you will be introduced to a modern spin on tantra, desire-mounting moves that will allow you to intensify your ma n s arousal prior to intercourse.
Tantric massage can be performed on their own, as an erotic therapeutic experience or as a libido-lifting precursor to intercourse. Through this journey towards erotic enlightenment, yo u ll learn how to please your man through the Lingam massage and the tantric testicle massage. Give him the most earth-shattering oral sex of his life with a tantric blowjob. Lastly, find out how you can locate your ma n s G-spot and prime him for the most seismic sublime sensation that he has ever known.
Chapter 1:
Erotic Enlightenment through Traditional Tantric Sex
What is Tantric Sex?
The origin of the wor d Tantr a can be traced back to the roo t ta n which translates t o to spread, spin out, continue . And tantric sex is the art of spreading and prolonging your pleasure.
According to the Sanskrit, your energy levels are governed by chakras, vortex-like energy centers that are aligned vertically from various key locations of the body, from the top of your head to the base of your spine. By opening and activating these energy centers, you are able to control and enhance your organ functions as well as emotions such as joy and pleasure. There also exist chakras, which connect us not with the physical plane but with the divine.
In tantric sex, the goal is to activate the chakras through the union of two bodies. Tantric sex involves not just stimulating the body but awakening the mind as well. When you experience tantric sex, you are able to transcend to a higher level of ecstasy and emotional connection. Through tantric sex, you and your partner will be able to achieve a connection tha t s more than physical. Such a connection is deeper, longer, and encompasses your entire being. It is through tantric sex that you can experience rapture beyond any orgasm that you and your man has ever known. More than that, learning the secrets of tantric massage and tantric sex will enable you to deepen and strengthen your bond with your man, not just in the physical level but also in the emotional and the spiritual levels as well.
The Journey through Traditional Tantric Sex
Setting the Space
Keep in mind that tantric sex is all about steeping yourselves in arousal and building passion gradually, oh-so-slowly, so that you and your man are able to stay below boiling point for the longest possible time. Start by creating an environment that is conducive for pleasure. While not everyone has the time to build their very own carnal temple, make sure that the place is at least clutter-free. Choose a quiet, isolated spot tha t s free from distractions. If possible, arrange the room so that it will not remind you of your daily routine and responsibilities. Switch off your phones and get rid of paperwork or anything that can distract you or your man.
Bear in mind too that tantric sex is all about engaging the five senses. This means you need to set the environment in such a way that it would stimulate the senses. You may make use of sandalwood or jasmine incense, dim the lights, light some candles, or play soft and erotic ethnic music in the background. Feed each other aphrodisiacs like oysters, chocolates, or strawberries and drink some light red wine. Men are known to be visual beings. Therefore, you should pay extra attention to your looks. Dress in a seductive robe or a revealing sarong that can easily be removed. Remember that red is the color of passion and fertility. Alternatively, you may dress yourself in a color that flatters you the most.
Getting in Sync Physically
The next step would be to tune in with each other. Get your ma n s sexual energy in sync with yours by assuming the traditional spooning position. Your bodies should be curved together and your arms wrapped around each other. While doing this, concentrate on the rhythm of each othe r s breathing. Do this until you are able to breathe in and breathe out together. Continue doing this until the both of you feel like an extension of the other.
Getting in Sync Spiritually
While in bed, sit across from each other, cross-legged or on your knees. Gaze into each othe r s eyes. Communicate with each other through your eyes. Breathe. Stay in tune with each othe r s rhythm. Keep inhaling and exhaling together. Do this for a couple of minutes.
Awakening
Gently graze your fingertips all over your ma n s body. Use long, teasing strokes on his erogenous zones. The goal here is to awaken the nerves. Do n t dive directly to his private parts. Instead, simply brush your fingers in points that are excruciatingly near them, such as his inguinal region. Continue caressing his body, brushing your fingertips across the length of his arms, his legs, the soles of his feet, etc. Proceed to stroking the non-genital areas that usually do n t get enough attention during lovemaking. Non-genital pleasure zones include his ears, his nipples, his sacrum, his gluteal folds, and the soles of his feet.
Activating the Chakras
- Once yo u ve triggered his nerve endings, i t s time to activate the chakras. Continue facing each other. This time, do n t touch each other. Then touch your own nipples with your fingers and proceed to massaging yourselves in spiral movements for nine deep breaths.
- Afterwards, run your fingers down your ribs and massage it in a spiraling motion. Do this for eighteen deep breaths. Watch each other. Inhale and exhale twenty seven times.
- Next, massage the area between your ribs and your navel. Do this for thirty-six deep breaths. After a while, join your hands on the area below the navel. Rub this part gently in a circular motion for fifty-four deep breaths.
- After this, move on to the spot that is halfway between your navel and your pubic bone. Massage this place for sixty-three deep breaths.
- Now you may touch your own genitals. Stroke them slowly and seductively for seventy-two breaths. Make sure that you are watching each other.
- Lastly, lie down beside each other and stroke yourselves just behind the genitals. Whatever you do, do n t touch each other. This is to be done for eighty-two breaths.