Gabriel Morris - How to Make Sacred Love to a Woman: An Intimate Exploration of Sacred Sexuality

How to Make Sacred

Love to a Woman

An Intimate Exploration of Sacred Sexuality

By Gabriel Morris

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Table of Contents

-How to Make Sacred Love to a Woman, by Gabriel Morris

-I Want Burning: Loving a Woman on the Spiritual Path, by Kylie Devi

-Yin and Yang, by Gabriel Morris

-To Be Loved By A Man, by Asttarte Deva Shakti Bliss

-Merger, by Amanda Lyons

-Sacred Communion, by Elaine Caban

-When I Get What I NEED Instead of What I WANT, by Martin Hannon

- Using Sex Magic to Manifest Our Hearts Desires, by Barbara Yednak

-Feel Something, Man!, by Gabriel Morris

- The Erotic Way: Heeding the Call, by Tantrica Maya

- Exploring Tantra, an interview with Maya Yonika

- Pussy Power!, By Gabriel Morris

-On Being Worshipped, by e.b. sarver

-How I Love My Wife, by Sasha Lessin

How to Make Sacred

Love to a Woman

By Gabriel Morris

How to genuinely love, and make love to a woman is one of those things that has eluded men to varying degrees for who knows how long. On one level, women are quite simple. And then on another level, they are infinitely complex. Yet, learning how to truly love a woman, and give her the pleasure she desires in the depths of her being, is really the most important quest a man can embark on in his life. And it also has the potential to be the most rewarding experience a man, and a woman, can possibly experience in their lives.

The first thing to keep in mind is that generalizations about what women really want are inevitably limiting. Each woman is unique and has an individual personality, different desires, dreams, goals, traits, bodies, expectations, skills, perceptions, etc. So all descriptions of what women really want must be viewed through a lens of flexibility. And when it comes down to it, that is precisely the lens to look through when approaching and engaging with a woman in any context: a perspective of seeing a woman for who she is in the moment, what she really wants NOW; as opposed to following some sort of play-by-play program of how to meet, charm and ultimately seduce a woman. That approach might get you laid and even get you a girlfriend. But that approach WILL NOT allow you to truly see into and merge with the heart and soul of a woman. Because the very essence of womanhood, of the feminine, the yin element is one of ever-changing energy from one moment to the next. If you're stuck in the view of women want this because you read it somewhere or because it has worked to some extent in the past, then you may have managed to peek behind the veil and penetrate the first layer of a woman's essence. But you will inevitably miss out on all of the much deeper, more mysterious, and also more revealing, complex and rewarding layers of womanhood.

So, the important lesson here is to take all assertions of what women want with a certain grain of salt. What a woman wants depends on the moment in which she is wanting . You have to get out of the mindset of delivering something based on what has worked in the past, what your friends have told you, what your girlfriends have told you, what various books have told you; and instead focus on NOW and the woman that you are actually with and what she is feeling in this one particular, unique, fleeting moment. That is the ultimate key. Sacred love and sacred sex means treating the current moment as a unique experience and a unique opportunity to explore the depths of love and merging with another, with no expectations or assumptions about what that moment will bring. You have to forget everything you've learned. Or at least let it fall to the wayside for a little while, and be open to what the woman before you has to teach in the now.

All that being said, there are still qualities to the feminine essence that apply to many women and can be very helpful and useful to understand, as long as you aren't locked into a viewpoint, but remain flexible. Despite the women's liberation movement, the sexual revolution, the equalizing of the sexes, women presidents around the world, etc., women are still women and men are still men. The fundamental sexual dynamics between masculine and feminine haven't really changed; even if they have evolved and transmuted and shifted in many areas. Women still expect men to ask them out, make the first move, initiate the proposal for marriage, etc. In short, most women still expect the man to take a leading role in many areas of the relationship. And, this most certainly includes in the bedroom.

But remember, women are at some level mysteriously complex. And what they want constantly changes. Accepting and working within that reality, rather than judging or dismissing them for being unpredictable, is the first key to truly learning how to make love to a woman, whether literally or figuratively, in all areas of your relationships with women.

There is a balance to be found between the masculine, take charge approach, and being sensitive and attuned to a woman's ever-shifting energy. This is really the sweet spot when it comes to interacting with a woman. Because yes, most women still admire and yearn for a man who takes charge, takes the lead, and makes something happen in the relationship. But what most women want, beyond that, is for the man to be truly tuned into them, to sense their energy, to be able and willing to shift one's approach based on the ever-changing moods and desires of the feminineand most importantly, to love and appreciate and honor them for it, rather than judging them for being hard to understand and nail down within the limiting constraints of the masculine, rational view of things.

Getting laid is one thing. Sacred sex is something else entirely. And the experience of truly sacred sex can't be engaged in as long as the man is stuck in a narrow-minded mold of how to make love. Sacred sexuality requires being fully in the moment, and being willing to move with the moment as it changes and evolves and transformsbecause this is also the true nature of the feminine.

As a friend recently put it, even though as the man he may be in charge on the physical level, directing and guiding the lovemaking experience...on another level, the woman is actually the one in the lead, energetically. The woman allows herself to experience whatever it is that she is experiencing in that unique, potent moment of being penetrated and made love to by a man. And if the man wants to truly enter and merge with that sacred space with a woman, then he can't be lost in his head somewhere, following some pre-determined guidelines of how to relate and interact with the feminine. Instead, he must be attuned with the woman, feeling her out, sensing her changing energy, desires, shifting level of passion, and be willing to adjust accordingly to give her what she wants and needs in the moment...in order to take her where she really wants to go, to that next, deeper, more pleasurable and orgasmic level of openness and surrender to the masculine penetration of her being.

I Want Burning:

Loving a Woman on the Spiritual Path

By Kylie Devi

(Kyliedevi.com)

As I see it, there are two types of relationships people have with each other. There is the need-based, emotionally attached, Ill-do-this-if-you-do-that type of being with each other; or there is a relationship where two people (or perhaps more) choose from a space of love, freedom and awareness, cultivating interactions from an evolved perspective.

In the second type of relationship, participants must let go of attachment, expectation and projections. However, boundaries are perfectly acceptable. It is not an anything goes free-for-all just because it is a relationship based on the principles of spiritual freedom. Rather, the foundation of this type of relating is integrity, trust and a profound sense of respect for the other as self. We do not intentionally play games, inflict harm or attempt to deceive in this platform. We gently nudge the other when they fall prey to illusory mental phenomena that causes suffering, and we always remember that even if we do become seduced by this type of trickery, that the other is never the cause of our suffering and we are responsible for what we perceive and how we act based on our perception. There is no exception to this, and we are impeccable with it.