Jennifer Victory - Seduce Smart: Transform Your Love Life in 30 Days

Seduce Smart
Transform Your Love Life in 30 Days

Copyright 2011 by Seduce Smart LLC.

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Step One: The Body
Days 1-7

Step Two: The Mind
Days 8-15

Step Three: The Spirit
Day 15

I wrote Seduce Smart to empower you in your romantic relationship. In just thirty days, you can transform and create the love life you deserve. This is a great book for all women looking to manifest romantic relationships that are passionate, loving, and respectful. Seduce Smart: Transform Your Love Life in 30 Days is suitable for brand-new daters as well as seasoned pros. My goal is for you to be the woman who knows her worth, an energy who is irresistible to men!

Heads up: when you fall head-over-heels in love with a man, you will be tempted to lose yourself. It comes with the territory, so be prepared! Stay happy, powerful, and strong through this body, mind, spirit, and seduction program! I have definitely made my fair share of mistakes! I am not, by any stretch of the imagination, perfect. Nor am I expecting you to be. The goal is not perfection; it is balance.

Seduction and romance are two very exciting aspects of life. Romantic relationships occupy much of womens time, energy, and efforts. Romantic love is a highly charged experience. So it is vital to have an anchored sense of yourself before you open your heart to a man. When our hearts are opened too quickly, we get hurt and lose faith in men. We also begin to doubt and question ourselves. I devised this step-by-step program because it worked for me. I know this body of knowledge will empower you as well.

Today, there are more women entering the dating arena than ever, and the only rule seems to be that there are no rules. In general, American women are immersed in a hyper-fast, technology-laden culture of cell phones, texting, Facebook pages, and careers. It can be confusing knowing what to expect from men in the dating world. Gone are the days when a man was expected to open doors and meet the parents when picking you up for a date. Todays pop culture aficionados eagerly watch the glamorous, promiscuous ladies from Sex and the City and Gossip Girl. While these ladies make for great entertainment, they are often unrealistic dating role models! In todays modern time, it is really important for women to know how to be successful in our relationships with men.

Most teen girls and young women innocently enter the dating world. As little girls, we grow up in a Disney princess culture that romanticizes love and boys. We meet boys we like, give our hearts away willingly and trustingly, only to have them broken over and over again. Eventually we begin to lose faith in our romantic instincts. We second-guess ourselves to win male approval. Of course, this leads to resentment of men, and eventually ourselves, because we know that we are betraying ourselves when we value someone elses opinion over our own. Over time, we may become cynical or desperate.

This can lead to one of two choices: getting off the dating market completely, for the peaceful but lonely life of the single gal, or making promiscuous choices in an attempt to beat the system and prove we dont care. Neither method works for finding and creating meaningful and respectful relationships.

So just to be clear, I get the perils that women face in the dating world. Ive been there! And I wrote this book to offer tips and secrets to help you succeed, even in the Facebook age. Times may have changed since our moms and grandmas were dating, but luckily men havent changed too much! Therefore, seduction of men is an art form, one that can be taught and mastered.

If youre ready to jump off the emotional roller coaster of romantic turmoil and into a space of complete trust in yourself with your man, then this is the book for you. Through my own romantic journey, I grew not only as a person but also as a romantic partner. However, this journey is not without challenges.

Perhaps the most surprising thing about passionate, romantic love is that it is based in friendship. We live in a culture that is so obsessed with sex that we often forget this fact. But it is true nonetheless; friendship is essential to building healthy relationships. Hallmarks of friendship include honesty, respect, trust, communication, and support. When you feel this exchange of energy with a man, you are freer to be passionate and powerful in your relationship with him. But before feeling safe to give your heart to a man, you must feel safe and secure within yourself first.

And thats why Im here: consider me your dating relationship coach cheering you on from the sidelines as you play the game of life. A coach helps you reach your maximum potential. A coach gets you amped up for new possibilities and opportunities, and pushes you just a little bit past your comfort zone. A coach teaches discipline and strength, and an ability to make wise decisions quickly and independently. These are all qualities you need to empower yourself romantically with men.

This book is made of four sections. These are the four steps to transforming your love life in thirty days. Since this journey is all encompassing, Im not asking you to dive head first into dating right away. In fact, the most successful relationships occur when you are strong in body, mind, and spirit. And thats just the blueprint for this book. I begin with step one: the body for days 1-7, then step two: the mind for days 8-14, step three: the spirit for days 15-29, and finally you graduate to step four: dating, on day 30 and beyond. I am offering you as much information as possible to assure you the best possible outcome. The reason theres so much content is that every woman is different!

I encourage you to read cover to cover and incorporate as much into your life as possible for the specific day. Do the reflections progressively as they appear in the book, and have a pen handy to fill out the reflection questions. Be sure to take time out for the weekly reflections as well. By the time you have reached thirty days, you will have begun to change your love life.