This was supposed to be about something else. Its not what we expected it to be. But once we started, it took on a life of its own. And now it's this. And as a result its hopefully better than the original idea.
Such is life. Such happy things only happen if you get started on something. Theres something to say about this in .
Originally the book was intended specifically for people teetering on the brink of setting up their own first business and in need of a friendly shove in the right direction. But it changed.
The impetus needed to start a business is the same as anyone teetering on the brink of anything. So for youthis is your kick in the pants.
If you want to do something but secretly fear youre never going to do it, whatever that might be, then this might help you:
- Go to the Amazon
- Throw yourself into retraining
- Lose a dress size
- Go back to school
- Write a book
- Ditch your partner
- Take your company in a new direction
- Create art
- Learn to play polo
- Seek the promotion you want
- OR set up your own business.
As a result its not written just for the entrepreneurial business person but for the entrepreneurial in spirit. The lessons, the advice, the nagging, the cartoons, the jokes, the exaggerations and the things that possibly never really happened all these things apply to anyone trying to cross that bridge between their dreams and their reality.
Talking of the things-that-probably-never-really-happened
A Tibetan Lama was speaking to a group of monks and to make a point, pulled out a large jar, set it on the table in front of him, produced a few fist-sized rocks, and placed them, one by one, into the jar.
When no more rocks would fit inside, he asked: Is this jar full? Everyone said: Yes. He reached under the table and pulled out a bucket of gravel, dumped some in and shook the jar, the gravel worked between the rocks. Again, he asked: Is this jar full? The monks were catching on. Probably not, one answered.
Good! he replied and reached under the table and brought out a bucket of sand. He dumped the sand into the jar until it filled all the crevices. Once more he asked: Is this jar full?
No! the monks shouted. Good! he said and grabbed a pitcher of water and poured it until the jar was filled to the brim. Then he asked, What is the point of this illustration? One young monk responded, The point is, no matter how full your day you can always fit some more things in.
No,: the speaker replied, the point is that if you dont put the big rocks in first, youll never get them in at all. What are the priorities in your life?
Accreditations
The Art of Looking Sideways, Alan Fletcher, Phaidon, 2001
Tribes, Seth Godin, Piatkus Books, 2008
Drive, Daniel H. Pink, Canon Gate, 2011
Creating a World without Poverty Social Business and the Future of Capitalism, Muhammad Yunus, PublicAffairs, 2009
How many people have ever lived on Earth by Carl Haub, Population Reference Bureau
Think Tank: Ever felt like your job isnt what you were born to do? Youre not alone by Daniel Pink in The Sunday Telegraph, 26 February 2011
A Theory of Human Motivation, Abraham Maslow, Psychological Review, 1943
The Conquest of Happiness, Bertrand Russell, George Allen & Unwin, 1930
The Spotlight Effect in Social Judgement: An Egocentric Bias in Estimates of the Salience of Ones Own Actions and Appearance, Thomas Gilovich of Cornell University, Victoria Husted Medvec of Northwestern University and Kenneth Savitsky of Williams College
To Do or To Have? That is the Question, Leaf van Boven at University of Colorado at Boulder and Thomas Gilovich of Cornell University, Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 2003
The Case for Working With Your Hands, Matthew Crawford, Penguin, 2010
The Procrastination Equation, Piers Steel, Prentice Hall, 2010
On finished and unfinished tasks. by Bluma Zeigarnik, in W.D. Ellis (Ed.), A Sourcebook of Gestalt Psychology, Humanities Press, 1938
Obliquity, John Kay, Profile Books, 2011
Nicholas Carr in an interview with Esquire magazine in 2010
When choice is demotivating. Can one desire too much of a good thing? Sheena S. Iyengar of Columbia University and Mark R. Lepper of Stanford University, Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 79 (6), December 2000
Flow: The Psychology of Optimal Experience, Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi, HarperPerennial, 1991
Doing Better but feeling worse: Looking for the Best job undermines Satisfaction, Sheena S. Iyengar and Rachel E. Wells of Columbia University and Barry Schwartz of Swarthmore College, Psychological Science, 17 (2), 2006
Attitude is Everything, Paul J. Meyer,
Whats Stopping You? Robert Kelsey, Capstone, 2011
Destructive Goal Pursuit, D. Christopher Kayes, Palgrave Macmillan, 2006
59 Seconds, Richard Wiseman, Pan Macmillan, 2009
The Stanford Marshmallow experiment was created by Professor Walter Mischel at Stanford University
Illustrations and images
Deserted rural road travellinglight/istockphoto.com
Emperor Scorpion John Bell/istockphoto.com
Scorpion silhouette Thomas Seybold/istockphoto.com
Counting Hands Yunus Arakon/istockphoto.com
Young And Ali In 1976 World Heavyweight Title Fight (2005 Getty Images/gettyimages.co.uk)
Mosquito Henrik Larsson/istockphoto.com
Mosquitoes silhouette David Szabo/istockphoto.com
Yellow Sticky Note Uyen Le/istockphoto.com
Blank isolated notepad rusm/istockphoto.com
Paint Can on white John Clines/istockphoto.com
Cheering crowd Stephen Spraggon/istockphoto.com
Human pyramid teamwork Mlenny Photography/istockphoto.com
Megaphone Alex Slobodkin/istockphoto.com
Boy jumping off the cliff Can Balcioglu/Shutterstock.com
A toilet Ammit/Shutterstock.com
stone slab italianestro/istockphoto.com
Clothing, T-Shirt Jason Lugo/istockphoto.com
Ladder Bertold Werkmann/istockphoto.com
Eurofighter (Typhoon) jet Sascha Hahn/Shutterstock.com
Photograph of Yogi in Varanasi, India by Herbert Ponting, 1907, from Wikipedia.org
Dachshund puppy digging in beach sand Denis Babenko/Shutterstock.com
Ulysses and the Sirens (1891) by John William Waterhouse (18491917), from Wikipedia.org
Graffiti photographs by Richard Newton
50s TV commercial james steidl/istockphoto.com
Over-enthusiastic rooster crossing the start line photograph by Rita Deavoll. We found out that this had been taken by a lady from New Zealand whilst on holiday in the Cooke Islands.
So we sent Rita an email explaining our odd request for permission to use the photo and she generously sent us the original photo with her blessing. It just shows how connected and supportive the world is once you start doing things!
Procrastination esolla/istockphoto.com
Waldorf Astoria Hotel 1988 by James G. Howes
Marshmallows Lori Sparkia/Shutterstock.com