Tina Robbins - Do You Dare?: 65 Sex Games to Heat up Your Sex Life

Many of the activities described in this book are by their very nature daring, outrageous, and sometimes even illegal and potentially hazardous. They are suggested only for consenting adults who understand that they assume sole responsibility for their own actions and safety, and for any resulting professional or legal consequences. The information and suggestions in this book cannot replace sound judgment and good decision-making. Further, no one should take any action or participate in any activity, if he or she feels at all uncomfortable or uncertain about the cicumstances or risks.

Original title: SEXO PARA MUJERES ATREVIDAS

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Contents

I Was a Vanilla Lover

Ill confess something to you: a few years ago, just before I moved to Germany for work reasons, I met a very special person. I dont like to encourage stereotypes, but Erik was a typical Nordic man: tall, strong, with dark blue eyes, a straight beard, and blond, trimmed hair. I needed a tutor to help me perfect my German, and the language school gave me his contact information. We ended up in a caf in town. I remember thinking at first that he seemed somewhat abrupt and distant. But there was something about that man that made me feel safe, and we eventually decided to have three classes at home every week until I moved.

Spending so much time talking caused our relationship to eventually become something more personal. There was barely a month left before the move when, one afternoon, we started talking about our personal lives. At the time, I was single and tended to have brief and sporadic relationships. Our chat lengthened, and it became dark before we knew it. Why dont you stay for dinner? I asked, convinced that he would decline.

After giving me a deep, calm look, he sighed and offered to cook me a vegetable stew from his country with his grandmothers secret touch. We opened a bottle of white wine and had a delightful evening. By morning, Erik was sleeping naked in my bed. The sun was shining in through the window, defining his muscular back. I slid my hand under the cover, ran my fingers down his spine, and gently caressed his glutes. Erik turned over, leaving his hard member exposed, and I took advantage of this generous offer. After two orgasms, practically one after the other, I looked, horrified, at the clock and ran to work. With no time to shower, his smell stayed with me for the whole day. I knew that this was a passing fling with nowhere to go. In barely a month, I would be a thousand miles away and it wasnt worth it to string him along. We kept going with the lessons, and there were several more nights of sex, each one more intense and unrestrained. We both knew that this had an expiration date, and so we let ourselves get carried away.

In bed, Erik was active; as a lover, he had inexhaustible resources.

Would you like to stop being a vanilla lover? he asked me one night, while showing me a length of rope. I confess, that scared me a bit.

What do you mean? You dont like how sweet I am? I joked, to disguise my trepidation.

Imagine you walk into a luxurious ice cream shop, brimming with flavors, colors, and textures. You can ask for whatever you want, experiment, mix, and taste. But you always end up asking for vanilla ice cream. Sex is that ice cream shop. It offers everything you could want to try. You can keep asking for the usual, and be conventional and boring, or you can open yourself up to new sensations and experiences that youve never tried before. Do you dare? he whispered in my ear while gently tying my wrists.

After that night, I voluntarily became Eriks slave. Submissive and obedient, I signed a sex contract that forced me to follow his every order, accept his punishments, and to be always available for my masters cravings and sexual requirements. Role-playing, facesitting, spanking, swapping partners, bondage Each night I submerged myself in an exciting universe of luxury and pleasure. Never before had I experienced orgasms this long and intense, I assure you. I was exhausted, but I wished for every night to come sooner so I could fulfill the requirements set out in my sex contract.

This is how the days passed until I finally had to leave for my new job and break off our relationship. Ive never heard from him again, but I preserve intact memories of every single moment I shared with this singular lover.

I still like vanilla ice cream, but Ive learned to mix flavors, try new sensations, and make my fantasies a reality, without complications, prejudices, or fears.

I invite you to my ice cream shop: would you like to come in?

The Pleasure of the Forbidden

Millions of women around the world have experienced an intimate and delicious revolution with the arrival in bookstores of Fifty Shades of Grey . The successful trilogy by British author E. L. James ( Fifty Shades of Grey, Fifty Shades Darker , and Fifty Shades Freed ) has broken, once and for all, the sexual monotony of many people. Its pages invite you to follow your instincts, shed your shame, and go beyond the limits of pleasure by emulating the intense relationship between its protagonists, the seductive millionaire, Christian Grey, and his lover, the young college student, Anastasia Steele. Reading it has made women of all ages fantasize andwhy not?put the exciting scenes of the book into practice. These scenes introduce the reader to the world of sadomasochism through very descriptive, sensual, and unconventional sex.

New sensations and new lifestyles are born in the most sexual and active organ: our brain. Pleasure, arousal, kink, and stimulation are processes that begin inside the brain and determine our behavior and manner of reacting during intimate relations. Sex would be nothing without the presence of an erotic imagination, fantasies, and seduction. And beyond the same old bodily pleasure that we feel when being physically stimulated in certain parts of our anatomy, there is an equally, or even more, important mental erotic pleasure present in our intimate relations. This is experienced through feelings, images in our mind, and physical, sensual contact (although it may be felt without this).