Tina Robbins - How to Drive Your Man Wild in Bed

Copyright 2016 by Skyhorse Publishing

First published in Spain by Grupo Ocano in 2002.

Original title: Cmo volver loco a tu hombre en la cama

Tina Robbins, 2000, 2011

Editorial Ocano, S. L., 2002, 2011 (Barcelona, Spain)

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ISBN: 978-1-5107-0553-1

eBook ISBN: 978-1-5107-0558-6

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Table of Contents

Editors Note

In this book we look into the sex lives of men to reveal some of their deeply guarded desires and thoughts. Sexual activity tends to accurately reflect many hidden personality traits; havent you ever wondered about someones sexual interests?

Sex is a topic that interests a lot of people whether they are young and inexperienced and want to learn new skills or older adults who want to reignite their partners passion. As fulfilling as your relationship may be, why not dig a little deeper and discover some of those hidden secrets?

If you are looking for a different perspective, as well as other answers, you will find more information in other books. These vary from the art of Tantra or the different types of sensual massage and breathing techniques to a variety of exercises, resources, and reflections related to the alchemy of desire.

This time we want to know more about men: what motivates them, what are their preferences and innermost desires. What attitude do we adopt in order to experience erotic love after the sexual revolution?

In putting together this book, my team and I used multiple surveys, testimonies, and reports. Once summarized and grouped, it was much easier to identify the most important themes.

The final draft of the book required assistance from friends and colleagues at the Tellus Institute, whom we thank for their cooperation. We have tried to keep a friendly and casual tone in our writing, casting aside any feelings of guilt or shame that stem from certain religious beliefs or ideas about sexuality.

The following pages describe sexual practices that are not necessarily acceptable for everyone, reflecting the variety of customs and preferences in our world. The same applies, for example, with food: not everyone enjoys the same menu; whats more, some culinary preferences are desirable for some whereas for others they may be considered taboo.

Only go as far as you want

Keep in mind: this is not a competition in any way. Nor is it a race to see who is more daring or more dirty. You set your own limits. Nobody should force or be forced to do anything that they do not want to try or do not feel like doing.

In this book you will find an array of sexual fantasies but no actual abuse, whether physical or psychological. Limits are set by each individual with the general intention of avoiding any injury to their partner (physically or mentally), although sometimes there is a very thin line between pleasure and pain and that may make it difficult to set limitations. We have also ruled out sexual practices that are commonly regarded as dangerous, such as simulated strangulation and others.

In the West, who would not feel repulsed if they were offered a plate of worms? And yet we know that in the Pacific islands insects and worms are considered delicacies. When it comes to food and sex, what some people consider a tasty treat, others find repugnant, or consider very vulgar.

Here we give you a few sexual ingredients, some old and some new, to satiate your sexual appetite to your own liking . Love? It will seem repetitive, obvious, and almost unnecessary to remember the wonders of love, which is not only the opposite of fear. With love everything seems to make sense: even sex! But we insist: How to Drive Your Man Wild in Bed is a book dedicated to sex.

To multiply desire and better enjoy love.

Introduction:
Looking for Something Else

Sex is the most fun you can have without laughing.

( M ANHATTAN )

Whats Changed?

You turn on the television, and what do you see? Spectacular girls advertising amazing cars, attractive tanned and muscular guys offering exotic drinks Television is the ideal showcase where sex is present in every ad, in every show. Even family-friendly game shows are not free of more or less explicit references.

There is nothing wrong with that; it is simply a reflection of the society in which we live. More and more each day, sexual relationships are experienced naturally and spontaneously. Women have changed their role in these situations and they are no longer the passive element from long ago, when men were expected to initiate any type of encounter.

Many women now work outside the home, which has given us a different perspective of life. Not staying home waiting for a man, and getting out to earn our own money, has made it easier for us to come in contact with them as equals, vying for the same positions. This not only gives us a new outlook, it also has its own consequences when it comes to intimate relationships.

The New Era

If you are in a club or an entertainment venue and spot a cute guy, you no longer have to try to get him to notice you, give you his approval, and wait for him to approach you. Now you can take the initiative without looking like an easy girl (which is a horrible term, right?) And yet, as we will see, all these changes have brought along other problems.

In bed we have also ceased to be passive, no longer participating solely for their pleasure without regard for our own. There was a time when a woman had to hide her orgasms because if she seemed to enjoy them then that meant that she was a whore. Today, men know that you also have a body that responds to sexual stimuli and needs to be pleasured. Although it is not easy to break yearscenturiesof male domination, we will first learn how to show them the things we like and then discover which ones they like.

Its Up to You

That is the aim of this book. Help you figure out how you can turn a nice relationship into one that satisfies you to the fullest. There are plenty of things you can be doing to make your partner lose his head and go crazy with pleasure. I challenge you to discover it together. Do you dare?

Some authors recommend that you never lend out your books, because generally once they leave your home, you will never see them again. I disagree, so if this book is useful to you I would like for you to pass it along to your friends, your co-workers, any woman whom you think may need it. You can also suggest that they buy it for themselves, but the main goal here is to spread the word, tell the women of the world, Hey, wake up, let us do something to make them lose their heads over us!