Pam Spurr - Sinful Sex: The Uninhibited Guide to Erotic Pleasure

Introduction

Sinful beginnings
Do you crave deliciously sinful experiences and erotic pleasure? Do you want to, metaphorically, lap up every last drop of sensational sex with your lover? Then take this journey with me and allow yourself to develop every facet of your sexuality. You have everything you need within yourself to enjoy sinfully uninhibited sex you simply may not have realised this potential.

Each one of you possesses your own unique sexuality that is there to be explored and enjoyed. I aim to provide you with the information and inspiration to get out and do it. The human sexual response is something truly exquisite and complex. It has the potential to give us ultimate pleasure, yet so many aspects of our lives stop us from fully enjoying our sexuality.

Unfortunately, many people find true sexual fulfilment is elusive. In fact many of you reading Sinful Sex will feel a little anxious about doing so. You may feel guilty, scared, or worried emotions and attitudes that prevent you from truly relishing your sexuality. You may even be making lifestyle choices that prevent you from enjoying sex to the full drinking or smoking too much, perhaps, or living with high levels of stress, or staying in unhappy relationships.

Another consideration is the complaint some people make that theres sex everywhere they feel that they cant escape it. But just because advertisers, television programmes, movies, magazines and so on, choose to exploit sex in various ways doesnt mean that all of us are living their commercial dream. On the contrary, it puts many of us under pressure to do it like everyone else instead of finding the sinful pleasures that do it for us !

Many of you, however, will be comfortable with your sexuality and are simply seeking some new techniques and ideas to bring to your lovemaking. The best lovers realise that they dont know it all that theres always something more to learn. And that truly sinful sex is dynamic it changes with the mood and the moment. Never believe lovers who claim to know everything and to be able to pleasure anyone. They probably only understand their own needs and then dont even realise how those can change and alter with circumstances.

I hope Sinful Sex will open your eyes to taking pleasure in your sexuality and introduce you to a new freedom to explore your own body and relish sex with your lover.

The most deliciously sinful sex is between consenting adults who are in control of their sexuality. This takes what I call the three Cs of attaining and enjoying sex: sexual confidence , communication and creativity . These three areas are crucial to the development of your sexual pleasure and will be laced throughout this book.

And why have I called it Sinful Sex ? Because I want you to be adventurous, to do something different, fresh and risqu. Id like you to feel exquisite erotic pleasure, leaving behind your inhibitions, enjoying every little corner of your body, and revelling in the power of the emotions behind your sexual feelings, fully aware of the connection between mind and body. Before we get to truly sinful pleasure, Id like to take you through self-pleasure getting to know your own body and the stages of sexual pleasure. Understanding these will prepare you for a fulfilling (and sinful!) sex life.