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From business meetings to social events to first dates to job interviews, we all encounter new people every day. Our ability to read body cues and convey the right first impression drives the success and quality of our personal and professional lives. Body language expert Patti Wood, a sought-after consultant and speaker to Fortune 500 companies, helps businesses and individuals stand out, create profitable relationships, and thrive in competitive circumstances. Now she brings that knowledge to our daily lives, offering practical and proven guidance on accurately interpreting body cues and creating impressions both in person and digitally. In Snap, youll learn how to: * Use your voice and body language to convey confidence and charisma, authenticity and authority* Immediately discern peoples hidden agendas * Make the best impressions via email, phone, video conferencing, and social networks* Convey and interpret signals of likability, power, credibility, and attractiveness * Use nonverbal tools to spot true integrity or recognize charming frauds * Attract the best matches in business and romantic partners * Recognize how you really look to others

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SNAP

Copyright 2012 by Patti Wood All rights reserved This book may not be - photo 1

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Copyright 2012 by Patti Wood

All rights reserved. This book may not be reproduced in whole or in part, stored in a retrieval system, or transmitted in any form or by any means electronic, mechanical, or other without written permission from the publisher, except by a reviewer, who may quote brief passages in a review.

Portions of the section Hands and Gestures, found in , appeared in slightly different form in Paid to Speak. Copyright 2011 by the National Speakers Association. Used with permission.

The material in this book is intended for education. No expressed or implied guarantee as to the effects of the use of the recommendations can be given nor liability taken. The authors experiences used as examples throughout this book are true, although in some cases identifying details such as name and location have been changed to protect the privacy of others.

Text design by Tona Pearce Myers

Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data

Wood, Patti, date.

Snap : making the most of first impressions, body language, and charisma / Patti Wood.

p. cm.

Includes bibliographical references and index.

ISBN 978-1-57731-939-9 (pbk. : alk. paper)

1. Self-presentation. 2. Impression formation (Psychology) 3. Body language. 4. Interpersonal relations. 5. Social perception. I. Title.

BF697.5.S44W66 2012

153.6dc23

2012021384

First printing, October 2012

ISBN 978-1-57731-939-9

Printed in the USA on 100% postconsumer-waste recycled paper

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New World Library is proud to be a Gold Certified Environmentally Responsible Publisher. Publisher certification awarded by Green Press Initiative. www.greenpressinitiative.org

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CONTENTS What do people think of you when they first meet you Everyone - photo 4

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What do people think of you when they first meet you Everyone forms first - photo 5

What do people think of you when they first meet you Everyone forms first - photo 6

What do people think of you when they first meet you? Everyone forms first impressions all the time the new team member you met in the break room, the prospect youre selling to, the woman interviewing you for a job, the online dating match you just connected with, the conference room full of people you just presented to. How can you improve the impression you make?

How do you feel about your ability to form accurate first impressions of others? How do you know if you can trust a person youve just met to be a good manager, employee, business partner, or friend; refinance your mortgage; or provide care for your toddler or parent? Are you good at reading people? Is your gut reaction accurate?

This book addresses all these questions and many more.

If youve ever wondered why you didnt get a callback after you thought youd aced an interview, or wondered how a business contact could go wrong, how a friend could turn out to be untrustworthy, or how you could feel an instant connection to someone youve just met, Ill help you understand why.

Even after years of studying, speaking, and consulting on these processes, they still leave me with a sense of awe. Its astonishing, but research shows that when making a new contact, we decide if we like someone and people do the same with us within a fraction of a second. These are snap impressions. They are quick, powerful, and surprisingly accurate. Were hardwired to give and receive them.

You might say, Thats not enough time, I dont make a good first impression, thats not fair, I dont do that, but when you understand how snap impressions work the factors that form them and the hundreds of nonverbal cues hidden between a hello and a handshake you will see that snap impressions are not snap judgments. The latter are influenced by attraction, stereotypes, deception, communication styles, and habits that wreak havoc with our ability to read and be read accurately.

Snap impressions, on the other hand, give you an internal rudder, a map to the treasure of each persons true self. Because we can process thousands of units of nonverbal information in less than a minute of contact, nonverbal communication can help keep us where we need to be and with whom. And because nonverbal signals are usually not under an individuals conscious control, they are more honest and revealing than words.

Best of all, we can learn to read body language skillfully. Snap technology is something you can practice and master. As you do, you improve your ability to give and receive impressions accurately, and your personal and professional relationships become more genuine, productive, and successful.

I believe that the greatest gift we can give other people is to truly understand them, to really see them. And that one of the greatest feelings we can experience is that of being truly understood and seen.

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I came into this world as a result of the power of snap impressions. Before my mother was my mother, she went out dancing one evening, spied a cute blond man across the dance floor, opened up her heart, and thought, Thats him. My future father looked across the same dance floor, saw a cute blonde woman, opened up his heart, and thought, Thats her.

Thought isnt really accurate, since the cues our limbic brain (the system of neural structures related to emotional behavior) process in an instant lead to a much more visceral sensing, an undeniable and almost indescribable knowing. This is the powerful feeling each of my parents experienced.

These two young dancers met that night, and four days later my father went out and bought a red convertible and an engagement ring. He picked my mom up for their date with the top down on the convertible drove her out to the beach, under a full Miami moon, and proposed to her. Clearly, my father knew how to make a great first impression. (They were married one week later.)

My parents shared this tender love story with my sisters and me when I was nineteen and taking my first nonverbal communication class. Their story inspired my many years of research into what I now call snap impressions, and a career of writing and speaking about the importance and power of these first takes in business and personal relationships.

I have been consulting and conducting research on nonverbal communication since 1982; my communication degrees emphasize nonverbal communication. Ive taught the subject at the university level (Time magazine cited my Body Language course at Florida State University as one of the most popular college courses in the nation), spoken to government agencies and corporations, and coached everyone from executives and political candidates to people who want to improve their job-interview, sales, presentation, or dating skills. Ive worked with judges, law enforcement officers, doctors, nurses, teachers, and foster parents. Nearly every week, Im asked to appear in print and on broadcast media to comment on current events from trials and scandals to political campaigns and celebrity behavior.

In this book, I use my expertise, including my academic background, continued research, and real-world experience, not only to give you the insights of science but also to show you how to put it all to practical, everyday use. Ive also included stories that serve as examples of what I describe; many may strike a familiar chord. You will also have the opportunity to link to videos, online exercises, and recent research. As you read through these chapters, through the research and descriptions, think about the last meeting you attended, your most recent experience of meeting a new colleague or date, the telephone or email exchange you had yesterday, and all the other times when impressions mattered. As you recall these experiences, you will gain a deeper understanding of the concepts and learn more quickly how to interpret and use your nonverbal skills to your advantage. Youll learn to

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