Romy Miller - How to Be Wanted: Use the Law of Attraction to Date the Man You Most Desire and Live the Life You Deserve

Use the Law of Attraction to Date the Man You Most Desire
and Live the Life You Deserve

Also by Romy Miller:

Understanding Women: The Definitive Guide to Meeting, Dating
and Dumping, if Necessary

Man Magnet: How to be the Best Woman So You Can Get the Best
ManA Guide To Dating (Revised Edition)

How To Be The Man Women Want: The Get More Confidence and
Meet Better Women Guide To Dating

Use the Law of Attraction to Date the Man You Most Desire
and Live the Life You Deserve

ROMY MILLER

THE BOOK FACTORY

For L.P.
You are the Law of Attraction in action.

How To Be Wanted: Use the Law of Attraction to Date the Man You Most Desire and Live the Life You Deserve. Copyright 2009 by Romy Miller.

All rights reserved. No part of this book may be used or reproduced in any manner whatsoever without written permission from the publisher except in case of brief quotations embodied in critical reviews and articles..

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eBook ISBN13: 978-1-932420-78-4
eBook ISBN10: 1-932420-78-9

Also published in the United Kingdom and the United States in 2009 by Artrum Media under the title Lucky In Love, Lucky In Life: How To Be WantedUse the Law of Attraction to Date the Man You Most Desire and Live the Life You Deserve.

Paperback ISBN-13: 978-1-932420-92-0
Paperback ISBN-10: 1-932420-92-4

Disclaimer: This book is not intended to replace medical advice or be a substitute for a psychologist. The author and publisher expressly disclaim responsibility for any adverse affects of this book. Neither author nor publisher is liable for information contained herein.

I want to briefly touch on a subject thats quite important and that is safety. You have to keep yourself safe. I think its obligatory to include a warning about some of the men you might run across. And I dont mean for this to be a downer, but we have to be safe in these days and times. Were women and we know there are a lot of creeps out there, unfortunately, and some of them want to hurt women. So, this goes without saying, but I will say it anyway: Be safe. Be aware. Be cautious. Always tell someone where you are going and with whom. Always listen to your gut, as it will let you know if something is askew with certain men.

Got it? Good. Lets get to the fun stuff.

Life isnt about finding yourself.
Life is about creating yourself.
George Bernard Shaw

In dating its all about being wanted. But you cant always get what you want, right? Well, the Law of Attraction begs to differ.

In fact, I would venture to say that in life, its all about being wanted as well. Do they want me for the new job? Does the waitress want my tip badly enough to give me good service? Do the men I like want to take the chance to get to know me? And the list goes on and on.

So if life is all about being wanted, how do you do this? You use the Law of Attraction to get it. Easy, right?

Wait a minute, you protest, You want me to use the Law of Attraction to get the man of my dreams? Isnt that some kind of hokey, mumbo jumbo, metaphysical thing that hippies use when theyre taking psychedelic drugs? Or is this the thing that they talk about in infomercials?

Uh, no, not exactly.

Havent you always wanted to be that girl? I bet you have. You know the girl Im talking about. Shes pretty and cute and she gets just about everything she wants out of lifefrom the best jobs to the best clothes to the best men. She knows that its raining men and shes getting soaked. Shes lucky in love and shes lucky in life.

That girl can be you.

You can have any man you want. You can have the life you deserve. And all you have to do is take the first step. And the first step is nothing more than knowing what you want. And beyond that? Well, thats what this book is all about. Its about how to attract the man and life of your dreams by not only utilizing the Law of Attraction but also your God-given female assets. By the time were through, you will have everything you need to go out and get that manor menand also the life you deserve.

Sprinkled throughout the book are chapters on how to be wanted, things you can do to make it happen, along with advice about why you should do it and how. The other chapters discuss things that might be blocking you from getting what you want out of life, consequently blocking your full potential.

A lot of the book, however, is concentrated on the Law of Attraction. You might sometimes wonder, What does all this have to do with getting a man? And to that I say, Everything! Until you begin attracting good things into your life through the Law of Attraction, a good man cant be attracted, either.

Also, please note that this is my take on the Law of Attraction. You might have read other books on this subject and wonder why mine isnt identical to those. Well, this is my interpretation and how Ive applied it to my life and, when asked, told others how to use it as well. This isnt your cookie-cutter Law of Attraction or dating book. What I want this one to give you is a real, hands-on approach to how it works, why it works and how you can make it work for you, by both landing a good man and getting the life you deserve. You have to know that you can be lucky in love and you can be lucky in life. Its all about putting the Law of Attraction into action for you.

The point of this book is to get you ready to go out there and get the man and the life you want and desire. This process of manifesting desires will bring you to that point of embracing what you truly want out of life.

So, yeah, it is raining men and you are about to get soaked. By the way, leave your umbrella at home.

Many people dont understand, or even realize, what the Law of Attraction is. The odd thing is, its really no secret and its not that hard to comprehend. Anyone in any walk of life can do it. I can do it. You can do it, too. So what is it? Metaphysical mumbo-jumbo? Something a yoga guru teaches his followers? No, not exactly.

The Law of Attraction is this: Like attracts like. Whatever is in your life now, you have attracted. But you protest, No! I havent done this. This bad dating stretch or all the horrible men or the unsavory unhappiness is just because of extenuating circumstances. I didnt cause it. Not me! I havent done this to myself.

Methinks you doth protest too much. Stop for a minute and think about it. Now think about the Law of Attractionlike attracts like.

Like attracts like. What does that mean? Simply put, whatever vibe youre putting out will come back to you. Say you want a vanilla ice cream cone. You havent had one for years but all of a sudden, you want one and you want it bad. Does the vanilla ice cream cone just come to you? No, you have to go out and get it. This is taking action. So, in theory, if you like a vanilla ice cream cone, you will get a vanilla ice cream cone because the vanilla ice cream cone likes you, too. All you have to do is make yourself available to receive the vanilla ice cream cone and you can do that easily. There are lots of places to get ice cream. Because you know what you wanta vanilla ice cream coneyoure going to put yourself in a position where youre going to get a vanilla ice cream cone. This happens on both a conscious and subconscious level.

And, yes, this applies to your dating style as well.

Say, for instance, you think you like a certain kind of man. He may be a bad boy or a loser or whatever. However, hes all wrong for you. But, deep down, you dont