Romy Miller - Hes Not Going to Call: How to Get Over It, Start Dating and Find a Good Man

Hes Not

Going to Call

How to Get Over It, Start Dating

and Find a Good Man

ALSO BY ROMY MILLER:

Man Magnet: A Womans Guide to Figuring Out, Attracting and Dating Men

How to Be Wanted: A Guide to Using the Law of Attraction for Better Relationships, Dating, Love and Romance (Revised and Updated)

How to Be a Hottie: Become Uniquely, Irresistibly You and Attract Men Like Crazy!

How to Talk to the Ladies: Make a Connection and Start Dating!

Understanding Women: The Definitive Guide to Meeting, Dating and Dumping, if Necessary (Revised and Updated)

How to Be the Man Women Want: The Get More Confidence and Meet Better Women Guide to Dating

Hes Not

Going to Call

How to Get Over It, Start Dating

and Find a Good Man

Romy Miller

Artrum Media

Hes Not Going to Call: How to Get Over It, Start Dating and Find a Good Man. C opyright 2014 by Romy Miller.

All rights reserved. No part of this book may be used or reproduced in any manner whatsoever without written permission from the publisher. For more information, go to www.artrummedia.com.

eBook ISBN13: 978-1-938107-53-5

eBook ISBN10: 1-938107-53-5

Published by Artrum Media.

Paperback ISBN-13: 978-1-938107-52-8

Paperback ISBN-10: 1-938107-52-7

Disclaimer: This book is not intended to replace medical advice or be a substitute for a psychologist. The author and publisher expressly disclaim responsibility for any adverse affects of this book. Neither author nor publisher is liable for information contained herein.

For those who do not wait in vain.

Contents

Be Safe

Before we begin, I want to briefly touch on a subject thats quite important; and that is safety. I like to try and mention this in all of my books because it is rather important. And its important that you keep yourself safe . I think its obligatory to include a warning about some of the men you might run across. And I dont mean for this to be a downer, but we have to be safe in these days and times. Were women and we know there are a lot of creeps out there, unfortunately, and some of them want to hurt women. So, this goes without saying, but I will say it anyway: Be safe. Be aware. Be cautious. Always tell someone where you are going and with whom. Always listen to your gut, as it will let you know if something is wrong with certain men.

Got it? Good.

An Introduction

Without going into too much detail about how all this is going to work out, I wanted to introduce this book by saying this: Men should start treating women with more respect. There, I said it and when I say it, I mean, they need to do what they are genetically predisposed to do and that means they need to be the ones who do the calling.

While thats all good and well, the problem is they dont do this, do they? And this drives us bonkers. I mean, ahemcrazy. Anyway, when this happens we begin to feel the need to call him or text him or whatever. And this is supposed to be okay nowadays, right? Women supposedly can call men and do all the things that have traditionally been assigned to the man in the relationship. However, while this should be the case, it just doesnt work in real life because when you do break this rule, nothing good usually comes of it. It can make a girl look and feel bad, like shes doing something that she shouldnt. No one wants to feel like a pest and no one likes it when someone ignores them. And this is where feelings of desperation come in. Most times, feeling desperate to talk to him or to get him to text you back gets in the way of good, common sense. You have to know whats going on, right? You have to know why he hasnt called, right? Its understandable. And thats when you call or text and that can, inevitably, lead to him ignoring you. And then you end up feeling worse than you did before.

But what if you could stop this pattern of desperation right in its tracks? But more importantly, what if you didnt have to worry about if a guy calls or if he doesnt? And what if there was a way for you to take more personal responsibility in the matter? What I mean by this, is that when a woman goes after a man who isnt that interested, she tends to make a fool out of herself. And I say fool for want of a better word. However, what she doesnt realize is that when she has to do this for a man, he just isnt worth her time. This means that you can go ahead and mark him off your list without succumbing to calling and wondering if he really likes you or not. Youre taking measures to clear out the men who are ambivalent and also taking measures to find yourself a good man, one who will, quite possibly, be better for you in the end.

Doesnt that sound good? Would it not be great if you could be the girl he wants to call? You can. You can do that. And it doesnt take that much, just a little self-awareness and the ability to beat him at his waiting game.

And this is what this guide is about. Its about figuring why hes not calling, how to not call him back, and, more importantly, how to get him to call you . Yes, thats a bit dizzying, but the point is quite simple: You want men to call you and you dont want to chase after them. You want it the other way around, right? Well, if thats what youre after, youve come to the right place.

Ill give tips on how to get men interested and keep them interested, as well as the other topics mentioned above. More importantly, I will touch on subjects about becoming more self-aware and getting past the temptation to succumb to desperate measures, therefore getting over potentially making a fool of yourself. Its about being cognizant of what you are doing and how to stop doing it so you dont end up getting embarrassed or feeling humiliated. Those arent very good feelings to feel, are they?

But, in the end, its all up to you to stop being desperate. Its up to you to get over it, start dating and find a good man. Were going to keep things simple and to the point as I am not a fan of minutiae. What we want to accomplish is getting past the BS that makes us feel bad about ourselves and onto the real, good stuff like finding a good man and, perhaps, even having fun while dating. What a concept, right?

To boil it down to the essentials: In this book, I will tell you how to land the man of your dreams using the old standby of being confident while using techniques that are sure to drive him crazy. In a good way, of course.

Ready for the challenge? Lets get to it.

The Urge to Call

Weve all done it. Its like we cant help ourselves. Its there, our phone, staring at us, urging us to pick it up, call and Well, see what happens. It is the urge to call.

Do you find yourself in this predicament more than youd like to admit? You liked a guy but then he didnt call. Its happened to the best of us. But lets pause and examine this a little more closely. Lets just take it a step at a time. Lets as they say, break it down. Okay? First comes the date. Right? It went well, you had fun, blah, blah, blah. He dropped you off or you two parted ways at the restaurant and then you went home with the warm fuzzies . You might have even had a nice dream about you and him on some tropical island. You could see yourself with a guy like that. You liked him and you cant wait to hear his voice again, like tomorrow, first thing. But if he wants to call later, thats okay too.

But then something odd happens. Its like The sound of silence. Crickets. You phone isnt blowing up. Its not ringing. No, its as quiet as a mouse. You feel just a little puzzled and then you begin to get the feeling that maybe he isnt going to call. Or maybe you dont. Maybe you still think he is going to call and so you wait. For a while and then it just becomes too damned much, and so you start calling or even texting him.

First its just to make sure hes still alive, right? I mean, accidents do happen. Just that initial call to make contact. Thats all. To let him know youre still interested. He needs to know youre interested, right? You dont want him to think you didnt like him, right? He certainly wont call if he thinks this.