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Why I Wrote This Book
Lets get right to the point.
The simple fact is that people really do hate dating because they haven't been successful in finding and keeping the love of their life.
Im so certain that I can instruct you on how to FIND AND KEEP YOUR SOULMATE that I am willing to guarantee it.
You will find that this book is comical, helpful, and easy to read. It contains well over 101 wonderful suggestions for successful dating. It is a unique take on being single with useful, realistic, practical recommendations.
Women, wouldn't you love to know what is going on in a man's mind? Well, Im going to tell you what he is thinking and why. You're going to learn the secret of how to attract men and make them fall in love with you...AND most importantly, I'm going to reveal what to do to make your lover want to be with you forever.
You will also learn the mistakes women make that make men head for the exits. Have you ever asked yourself, What happened? He seemed so into me, then suddenly something caused him to lose interest and now hes gone. What did I do wrong? Well, Im going to tell you, and if youre honest with yourself, you'll recognize exactly what you did to lose him.
Have you ever walked into a bar, a party or any room full of attractive people and most of the men seem to be fascinated by a plain Jane type? What is it that she has, or says, that makes so many men hang on every word? Well, she knows the secret and Im going to reveal it to you in Chapter #27.
Men, Im, going to show you how to approach any woman, no matter how beautiful, and engage in an icebreaking conversation. You will either end up with a date or at least you will get her phone number. (see Chapter #28). Do you have any idea how many times a woman has found you interesting and attractive, but you didn't know it? Not only did you miss an incredible opportunity to meet a beautiful, exiting woman who is interested in you, you don't even know how many times you missed out. I promise you'll learn how to read a womans body language. She has little or no control of it. Her tells are signaling you that she is interested in you and she wants you. Its a universal phenomenon. It works everywhere; London, Paris, Buenos Aires, Brooklyn and even in Ames, Iowa.
Sounds good so far, but I'll bet you are asking, Who is this guy that is promising to teach me all these mysterious secrets? Now, this is going to be a little difficult for me because I really dislike talking about myself. It sounds like bragging. Self-praise really does stink, but I can't hide behind that statement as a reason not to tell you. So, at the risk of you thinking that I'm dislocating my arm patting myself on the back, here are the facts.
My business background has been in Direct Marketing. In my early thirties, I became the Chairman of the Board and President of two publicly traded companies. Many of my techniques are still being used years after my early retirement. I have been honored to be called a problem solver and a visionary. So, when I became single about eleven years ago, I embarked on the tedious challenge of comprehending the secrets of successful dating. What works and what doesn't. I read everything I could get my hands on about the single life. I interviewed at least a thousand men and women, many of whom helped me form my philosophy of successful dating.
Now, why am I sharing my secrets? Way down deep, I always felt that my calling should be in the entertainment field, but I never pursued it. I thought I could have been a writer, director, producer or almost anything behind the scenes having to do with the creative process. If my book becomes a success, it will satisfy a life-long craving. So, when people ask me what I do, I'll smile and say, Im an author. Just as I get enjoyment out of making people laugh, I also gain lots of satisfaction from helping people. My current business is named Savconsulting. People would ask me, What do you do? I said, I guess I'm like the Lone Ranger. I ride into a problem situation, help solve it and then ride off into the sunset with a hearty, Hi-ho, Silver! I've never charged for my services, so I've told my accountant that its a non-profit corporation. It truly gives me a great deal of satisfaction helping people who are suffering. Many singles are suffering through the dating process waiting for their soul mates to rescue them. I know I have helped many singles and my book will help thousands more. This low E-book price covers my costs.
A quick note for men: not only will I be helping women find and keep the men of their dreams, but I'm also going to enlighten you about what makes a woman tick. You are going to learn how to develop enough confidence in yourself that you will feel comfortable approaching ANY woman. I'll also reveal to you the best pick-up line ever and literally make her want you after only a few minutes of conversation. You'll also be reminded about the women to avoid and why, and how to keep the one you want to be with you forever.
Oh, if my vision is still working correctly, I still have to respond to your next question and the answer is...Yes, I have found MY soul mate. She is kind, caring, intelligent, funny and beautiful, both inside and out. Not only is she the love of my life, but she inspired me to write this book.
So, I figured it out, put it to use and now Im going to share it with you. Finally, you can Stop HATING DATING and find and keep the love of YOUR life.
To me, successful Direct Marketing conveys, Tell me quick and tell me true or else my friend, to Hell with you! This is the mantra most successful companys use in their advertising. We had to get to the point quickly or else the reader would lose interest. We also believed in the Enter Here theory. To illustrate:
Three competing appliance stores were lined up next to each other. The store on the left placed huge signs in their windows claiming GIANT SALE. The store on the right quickly followed with their huge signs saying 50% OFF SALE. However, the brilliant middle storeowner made a huge sign that he put over his entrance that simply stated ENTER HERE.
This is why I named my book 101 Ways to Stop HATING DATING...every single person that I mentioned the title to said, Right on!
I have numbered 101 Ways to Stop HATING DATING in the book. First you'll see Rule # followed by sequential numbers, followed by the advice. I did not stop exactly at 101. I gave you more. AND there are another 60 additional helpful suggestions throughout the balance of the book.
So, ENTER HERE and you can finally Stop HATING DATING!
Preface
According to The New York Times , for the first time a majority of American women are living without a husband. It has reported that fifty-one percent of women did not have a spouse, up from thirty-five percent in the 1950s. Several factors are driving the trend: women are marrying later, they are living with men out of marriage, or simply choosing not to re-marry after divorce or widowhood. Now, lets look at both sides.