Figueroa Greg - Dating Questions And Answers For Women

Dating questions & answers for WOmen

By: Greg Figueroa & Emily Feliciano

Dating questions & answers for women

Greg Figueroa & Emily Feliciano

Published by Greg Figueroa & Emily Feliciano for Kindle

Copyright 2013 Gregory Figueroa & Emily Feliciano

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INTRODUCTION

The idea for this book came from working on another book called Make the move: love, sex, and dating advice. We saw a great opportunity to elaborate on some common dating questions that a dating advice book couldn't get into. It was important to us that we answer Single, Dating, Sex, and Relationship questions that should appeal to women.

-- Greg and Emily (November 1, 2013)

SINGLE QUESTIONS

1. I'm jealous that my friends get a lot of attention, how do I make guys approach me or at least talk to me?

I would say have a more open personality. You might seemed closed off. Are you more jealous of your friends or do you want companionship? Don't let the idea of competition blind you.

2. I'm a recent grad out of college, where can I meet guys with my busy schedule?

You can meet guys anywhere--while you are out and about--doing errands or participating in your hobbies or interests.

You also have to ask yourself what type of relationship do you want: something serious or something casual. There's nothing wrong with wanting casual part time companionship.

3. My girlfriends say I shouldn't approach guys, do guys really like pursuing?

Guys do what they have to do. We are expected and expect to be the pursuers. There's nothing wrong with saying Hi and having a conversation with someone. Do you need your friends permission for a conversation?

4. Is there anything wrong with having standards?

This question sounds a bit presumptuous. My guess is people are telling you that you're picky and they are right. I wouldn't really focus on the standards part. I would focus more on the need for pickiness. Is pickiness a defense mechanism? You do realize that your checklist will never be 100% filled out. You have to be okay with just good enough.

5. How come I never get responses from the guys that I'm attracted to online?

With that limited information I would say there is something about your profile that turns them off or isn't appealing enough. Now I assume you message some of those guys too. There is a good chance you are messaging guys out of your league. Send me an email and we can look into it and help you have more success online.

6. I'm overweight, should I lose weight first before approaching men?

First off, you should want to lose weight for yourself and no one else. Losing weight can boost your confidence and bring you more interest from the opposite sex, but I doubt it will get rid of your current insecurities.

Don't use losing weight as an excuse to hide and avoid talking and dating guys out there. It would be such a waste of valuable time that you won't get back.

7. He never texts me, is it worth texting him anymore?

Hell no, right now you are worse off than an average booty call. This guys has very little to no interest in you. Trust me, people who like you would be texting you.

8. What advice would you give to freshen up a stagnant online dating profile?

I would rewrite a little bit of it to highlight the positive parts of you and to elaborate on your hobbies and interests.

The biggest change you can make is adding new pictures. On deck: you want a face picture (no obstructions), full body shot and action shot of you doing something fun. Within that framework, you can put up whatever you want that is lit well, shot well, and has captions.

9. What advice would you give a divorced woman entering the dating scene?

Keep your emotions in check. Bite your tongue when your mind thinks of talking in depth about your divorce and your ex. People are slick, someone casually asking you about your divorce or dating life is not an excuse for you to give them the whole A to Z story.

People are less likely to date someone who is stuck on their past or filled up with pent up angry. Just because the anger isn't directed at them still doesn't make it any less awkward.

10. I'm friend zoned...help?

For your sanity, accept it. If you've been friend zone, it probably means that you made a move for something more and got rejected. You did the best you could. If you value the friendship let those feelings go and move on. Don't be the friend with an agenda.

11. My girlfriends say there's nothing wrong with being intimidating and knowing what you want, what do you think?

Honestly, intimidating is code for being an obnoxious bitch. You can't treat people like a work underling. And I think sarcasm from an intimidating woman doesn't make her look any more appealing.

12. Is it wrong to date while being pregnant with another man's baby?

There is nothing wrong with being pregnant and dating. Now you must accept that some guys will find it weird to be with you while you're preggers. Logistically, dating will be easier in the first and second trimester. The third won't be as enjoyable, unless, youre dealing with someone who has put in the time to get to know you throughout your pregnancy and is by your side.

13. I'm a hopeless romantic and I want something real, how can I make that happen?

Everything you experience is real--good or bad! You want to avoid the time wasters, but your type is goes for the high risk (emotionally and impulsively) and high reward (intense passion and companionship). Chasing that feeling of a relationship or companionship. You go all in without letting the other put what they have to offer. Some guys have very little to offer and some have a lot. Just don't put the cart before the horse in dating.

I think if you filter out more and hold back your natural inclination to go all in. You can find someone very real and worth your time.

14. I can't control my negative body image thoughts even though some guys find me attractive, how should I control it from impeding my love life?

You admit guys find you attractive, so there is something inside you that goes beyond just weight issues that manifests itself as negative body image issues. You have to pinpoint the initial problem and cause and not just the symptom. I will take a few guesses:

14a. You were made to feel worthless by others.

14b. You are an emotional eater that uses food to feel better.

14c. A traumatic incident has left you scarred.

14d. Did you lose someone who made a integral presence in your life?

14e. Has society bombarded you with false standards of beauty? A lot of time we use media as a guiding source in how out lives should be, but a lot of that is manufactured, exaggerated, and made to promote products to you for profit.

15. Is there such thing as being single for too long and how it negatively affects your dating prospects?

When we are single we are more worried about ourselves and whatever is in our little world. So we fall into habits or a certain way we like to do things and what we like. We have to take an active part in making room in our lives for others. Don't allow them to run wild, but allow them some space in your life.

Examples: 15a. You love watching a certain show at a certain time and week. On occasion, DVR it and catch a rerun of it.

15b. You're super busy and love to do yoga twice a week. Maybe once or a month you let go of yoga and hang out with the other person. You can always pop in a DVD or go on YouTube and catch up on some yoga if you really need it.