Online Dating:
How to Find My Soulmate
Successfully Online; Secrets Revealed
By Tiffany Williams
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Tableof Contents
1.Introduction
The era of computer and Internet connectionhave unraveled a positive change in every sphere of human life, butparticularly in romantic relationships. It is because of thesetechnological advancements that love and relationships have becomea greater focus of unmarried men and women around the world andcompletely transformed how bachelors and bachelorettes acquaintthemselves with and date one another. Gone are the days when theonly places couples could meet were worship places, offices, roadsides or various events. The computer and Internet connection erahas made dating an enjoyable activity that can be carried outsuccessfully online.
But the biggest obstacle of Internet datingis the fact that there are many secrets to making it work,especially when it comes to long distance relationships, you shouldknow but might not be aware of. Only few men and women know thesesecrets, and to become successful in the quest to find yoursoulmate online, you need to learn the steps involved and followthem carefully. They are the keys to finding love online andkeeping it.
Online dating is fast becoming one of the topways to find a dating partner or a long term mate. You must haveseen some of the commercials where some online dating sites claimto be responsible for putting 1 out of 5 relationships includingmarriages together. But the question is not how they successfullydid that, but how you can successfully make your own online datingrelationship workhow you can find your soulmate successfullyonline!
Weve all heard about social networking. Wecan meet people online, but very often we dont know if the personwe think were meeting through social networking websites is justan illusion we have or if its the real person. This is becauseuntil were actually able to meet someone in person, we dont knowwho they are and if their profile is composed of a bunch of lies.This book teaches you how to distinguish a genuine online daterfrom one thats insincere before the two of you ever come face toface.
Before I proceed with instructions on how youcan find your soulmate successfully online, I believe you shouldknow who I am and what I do. My name is Tiffany Williams and Im arelationship enthusiast who uses my blog and online radio show,Relationships360, to help people repair, build and maintainpositive, enriching, long-lasting relationships. I wrote this bookfor all the bachelors and bachelorettes in the world who do notregard online dating as taboo. Its for anyone searching for lovebut cant seem to find the right person. Its for those who believethey can find their other half through online dating. Finally, itsfor those who have found someone online and desire to make therelationship work.
Likewise, this book contains advice to helpyou avoid the pitfalls of dating on the Internet. It even includestips on how to make your long distance relationship work should youmeet someone online who lives in a different town, city or countrythan you. I know a lot of people are down on long distancerelationships. However, you can actually be successful in themsimply by reading this book. You dont believe me? Then, wait andsee!
2.Online Dating and the Internet
Years ago when online dating surfaced, it waskind of taboo. You would hear people shouting Oh my goodness, howcould you think about meeting somebody online?! But as more andmore people gain access to the Internet, the scope of the kind ofpeople you can expect to meet online continues to broaden. So,whereas, a few years ago only a handful of people had access to andactively used the Internet, now with the proliferation of theInternet via our cell phones, laptops, regular desktop computers,tablets and so forth, the number and type of people that can goonline has grown significantly. Likewise, the more people goonline, the more they turn to the Internet to find love and formrelationships. And now, online dating is no longer taboo, at leastin the United States.
Right now we have around 300 million peoplein the U.S., and about 150 million are online. And, if you havethat many people online, theres bound to be enough people whoshare the same interests as you with whom you can potentially formrelationships. If they live close enough to you, then the proximitymakes building a great relationship much easier. However, if theydont live close, hopefully you can develop a good long distancerelationship, which youll learn how to do later in this book.
When it comes to age, it used to be mostonline daters were between 21 to 35 years old. Thats not the caseanymore. Right now, you have online dating sites that are dedicatedto older audiences, people over 65 that have been widowed or havenever been married. These senior focused dating sites try toconnect older people with other seniors in order to find a matewith whom they can spend the rest of their lives. However, themajority of online daters probably still range between the ages of18 to 40. And, if you are under 18, you really shouldnt be datingonline yet.
There are many laws and regulations companieshave to follow, which prohibit Internet dating for someone under 18years old. Online users under 18 years of age who wish to meetother people should probably be using social networking websiteslike Facebook and Twitter. If youre over 18, you are totally freeto date using online dating websites.
3.Understand Yourself and What You Want
One of the things Ive realized as arelationship enthusiast is that understanding your motive for usingan online dating website is crucial to your success. It is truethat people have different needs and reasons for why they want tomeet other people via the Internet. To some people, online datingis more casual, while to others, online dating is a way to developa serious relationship. Often, it depends on what stage of life aperson is experiencing. In addition to ones life stage, everybodyhas different criteria they use to determine who to date. Forexample, some people are more involved in religious organizations;some people are more involved in politics; some people are moreinvolved in their culture, such as being Hispanic, Jewish, WestIndian or whatever the case may be. And one of the things Ivefound is, very often, youre going to look for people that you havea close affinity with because you have points in common that youcan share together. And the more youre able to focus on peoplethat have values and interests similar to yours, the moresuccessful I believe youre going to be in finding somebody onlinewith whom you can actually build a relationship.