Romy Miller - How to Be Wanted: A Guide to Using the Law of Attraction for Better Relationships, Dating, Love and Romance

HOW TO BE WANTED

A Guide to Using the Law of Attraction for Better Relationships, Dating, Love and Romance

REVISED AND UPDATED

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HOW TO BE WANTED

A Guide to Using the Law of Attraction for Better Relationships, Dating, Love and Romance

REVISED AND UPDATED

ROMY MILLER

ARTRUM MEDIA

How To Be Wanted: A Guide to Using the Law of Attraction for Better Relationships, Dating, Love and Romance (Revised and Updated). Copyright 2012 by Romy Miller.

All rights reserved. No part of this book may be used or reproduced in any manner whatsoever without written permission from the publisher. For information go to www.artrummedia.com.

Published by Artrum Media.

eBook ISBN13: 978-1-938107-01-6

eBook ISBN10: 1-938107-01-2

The preceding edition of this book was published in the United Kingdom and the United States in 2009 by Artrum Media under the title Lucky In Love, Lucky In Life: How to Be WantedUse the Law of Attraction to Date the Man You Most Desire and Live the Life You Deserve.

Disclaimer: This book is not intended to replace medical advice or be a substitute for a psychologist. The author and publisher expressly disclaim responsibility for any adverse affects of this book. Neither author nor publisher is liable for information contained herein.

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You are the Law of Attraction in action.

Contents

Here We Go Again

Its been a few years since I first published How to Be Wanted: Use the Law of Attraction to Date the Man You Most Desire and Live the Life You Deserve and I thought it was time to perhaps do an updated, revised edition. Along with that, Ive decided to revise the subtitle as well: How to Be Wanted: A Guide to Using the Law of Attraction for Better Relationships, Dating, Love and Romance. I think this suits the book better and relays the overall message of using the Law of Attraction to help in these areas.

Contained in this book are principles of the Law of Attraction and how you can apply them to everyday situations, especially in the areas of love, romance and dating. However, there are also chapters about using the Law of Attraction to make your lifeand your attitudebetter. In the end, thats what its all about and once you can do that, you can open yourself up to many new and good experiences.

The point of the book is to inspire you and I believe thats what all good self-help books dothey give you inspiration and really open up your mind. I hope thats what Ive conveyed in this edition.

With that in mind, best of luck to you and to applying the Law of Attraction to your life.

Be Safe

I want to briefly touch on a subject thats quite important and that is safety. You have to keep yourself safe. I think its obligatory to include a warning about some of the men you might run across. And I dont mean for this to be a downer, but we have to be safe in these days and times. Were women and we know there are a lot of creeps out there, unfortunately, and some of them want to hurt women. So, this goes without saying, but I will say it anyway: Be safe. Be aware. Be cautious. Always tell someone where you are going and with whom. Always listen to your gut, as it will let you know if something is askew with certain men.

Got it? Good. Lets get to the fun stuff.

Its Raining Men and Youre About To Get Soaked

Life isnt about finding yourself.

Life is about creating yourself .

George Bernard Shaw

In dating its all about being wanted. But you cant always get what you want, right? Well, the Law of Attraction begs to differ.

In fact, I would venture to say that in life, its all about being wanted as well. Do they want me for the new job? Does the waitress want my tip badly enough to give me good service? Do the men I like want to take the chance to get to know me? And the list goes on and on.

So, if life is all about being wanted, how do you do this? You use the Law of Attraction to get it. Easy, right?

Wait a minute, you protest. You want me to use the Law of Attraction to get the man of my dreams? Isnt that some kind of hokey, mumbo jumbo, metaphysical thing that hippies use when theyre taking psychedelic drugs? Or is this the thing that they talk about in infomercials?

Uh, no, not exactly.

Havent you always wanted to be that girl? I bet you have. You know the girl Im talking about. Shes pretty and cute and she gets just about everything she wants out of lifefrom the best jobs to the best clothes to the best men. She knows that its raining men and shes getting soaked. Shes lucky in love and shes lucky in life.

That girl can be you.

You can have any man you want. You can have the life you deserve. And all you have to do is take the first step. And the first step is nothing more than knowing what you want. And beyond that? Well, thats what this book is all about. Its about how to attract the man and life of your dreams by not only utilizing the Law of Attraction but also your God-given female assets. By the time were through, you will have everything you need to go out and get that manor menand also the life you deserve.

Sprinkled throughout the book are chapters on how to be wanted, things you can do to make it happen, along with advice about why you should do it and how. The other chapters discuss things that might be blocking you from getting what you want out of life, consequently blocking your full potential.

A lot of the book, however, is concentrated on the Law of Attraction. You might sometimes wonder, What does all this have to do with getting a man? And to that I say, Everything! Until you begin attracting good things into your life through the Law of Attraction, a good man cant be attracted, either.

Also, please note that this is my take on the Law of Attraction. You might have read other books on this subject and wonder why mine isnt identical to those. Well, this is my interpretation and how Ive applied it to my life and, when asked, told others how to use it as well. This isnt your cookie-cutter Law of Attraction or dating book. What I want this one to give you is a real, hands-on approach to how it works, why it works and how you can make it work for you. Once you figure that out, you can get the life you deserve and land that good man youve always wanted. You have to know that you can be lucky in love and you can be lucky in life. Its all about putting the Law of Attraction into action for you.

The point of this book is to get you ready to go out there and get the man and the life you want and desire. This process of manifesting desires will bring you to that point of embracing what you truly want out of life.

So, yeah, it is raining men and you are about to get soaked. By the way, leave your umbrella at home.

Like Attracts Like

Many people dont understand, or even realize, what the Law of Attraction is. The odd thing is, its really no secret and its not that hard to comprehend. Anyone in any walk of life can do it. I can do it. You can do it, too. So what is it? Metaphysical mumbo-jumbo? Something a yoga guru teaches his followers? No, not exactly.

The Law of Attraction is this: Like attracts like. Whatever is in your life now, you have attracted. But you protest, No! I havent done this. This bad dating stretch or all the horrible men or the unsavory unhappiness is just because of extenuating circumstances. I didnt cause it. Not me! I havent done this to myself.