Michael Sweeney - How to Get a Boyfriend and Keep Him--The Bulletproof Strategy

HOW TO GET A BOYFRIEND AND KEEP HIM THE BULLETPROOF STRATEGY

A complete step-by-step guide to help women go from being single to in a relationship with the man of their dreams

By

Michael Sweeney

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C hapter 1 Selecting a Quality Boyfriend

Chapter 2 Male Attraction 101

Chapter 3 Dont Contact Him First The Principle of Scarcity

Chapter 4 The Secret Behind Creating Attraction

Chapter 5 Its Time to Move On!

Chapter 6 Socialize!

Chapter 7 Time to Spruce Yourself Up

Chapter 8 Your First Date

Chapter 9 Powerful Attraction Building Techniques

HOW TO GET A BOYFRIEND AND KEEP HIM THE BULLETPROOF STRATEGY - A complete step-by-step guide to help women go from being single to in a relationship with the man of their dreams

By Michael Sweeney

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W hen it comes to men, whatever you do, please do not just take the first guy who shows interest in you. The higher your standards are, the easier it will be to actually attract a man in the first place, believe it or not. This comes from the fact that men are inherently attracted to women of high value, and women of high value have standards. High standards.

Regardless of whether or not you currently have a boyfriend, I want you to get out a piece of paper, a pen and answer the following questions:

What are the important qualities you desire in a boyfriend?

Why are those things important to you?

If somebody wrote a list of things to describe you, what would they be?

What do you most enjoy in life?

What do you most appreciate about yourself?

Those questions are absolutely necessary if you are to select a quality long term boyfriend. Realize that the above questions are not so much about your future boyfriend, as they are about YOU. You must know yourself before you can ever hope to trust your own judgment enough to select a long term mate.

Here are some of the qualities you might look for in a man

Hes playful and teases you

No one wants to be with a boring guy with no sense of humor. Now, I'm not saying you need to find yourself a clown or a comedian, but he should be a person that is fun to be around, who will make you laugh and will tease you from time to time to maintain the chemistry and make your relationship fun.

He challenges you

If you slack off or dont push yourself to reach your maximum potential, he will call you out on it and you will love him for it. Basically, he makes you want to be a better person.

He doesn't get jealous

He knows you're his and he's secure and confident enough to not get jealous each time you interact with another guy.

He isn't waiting on you, he has his own plans

He understands that in a relationship it's ok not to spend every minute of every day together. He encourages you to go have coffee with your girlfriends while he'll be watching the game with the boys.

He knows how to deal with your moods

Sometimes you need your own space, sometimes you need a shoulder to cry on, sometimes you just need to be listened to - he gets it.

He knows when and how to apologize

He knows if he's done something wrong and will apologize like he really means it, because that's what a real man does.

He leads a purpose-driven life

He values you of course, but he also values his own progress in life. In other words, he lives his life with purpose and passion and you will love him more for it.

He is not afraid to talk about his feelings

He will never hesitate to talk about his hopes, fears and dreams. He wants to connect with you on a deep emotional level and knows your bond will be stronger for it.

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O k, lets get right to it, Im about to reveal to you the rules to getting with the man of your dreams.

Lets start with the things to avoid!

Dont be a chaser

Men like to chase women. Why? Because men are hunters and more importantly they like to be challenged. If you chase a man, youre by definition not being a challenge.

If youre already seeing a guy and want him to see you as a serious potential girlfriend, here are the key unattractive behaviors to avoid:

Insecurity

The best way to turn a guy off is by acting insecure. Men like women with confidence the same way women like men with confidence. This is not a conscious choicemen cant help but feel repelled by needy or insecure women.

Now lets talk about the different forms of insecurity.

Jealousy in a relationship

When a girl acts in a jealous way with her boyfriend, shes basically subconsciously communicating to him that deep down inside, she doesnt feel good enough to be with him. Men hate women who are controlling: what they really want is a woman who is in control. When you act jealous, youre basically showing him that you are weak and not in control.

Acting jealous includes asking your boyfriend where and who he is with at all times, getting annoyed when he talks to other girls or even putting other girls down.

These types of behaviors repel guys.

Dont be a control freak

Trying to control your boyfriend is another big no-no as it only demonstrates how insecure you really are deep down inside. You will know that you are being a control freak when you always tell your boyfriend not to hang out with girls or even his own friends.

This is the same thing as acting jealous, which is a form of neediness. Theres a saying that goes: nobody needs the needy, and believe me when I say that no guy wants to be in a relationship with a needy girlfriend. Like I said earlier, dont be controlling. Instead, be in control of yourself and your negative emotions.

Think about it, if someone forces you to do something against your will, what will be your first instinct? You will want to rebel and do the exact opposite. Its the same thing for your boyfriend.

Putting his needs before your own

Men want a woman who is her own person. In other words, you should never place a mans needs before your own. Of course, Im not saying you shouldnt be giving and have an always be there for your boyfriend kind of attitude. All Im saying is, your entire life should not only revolve around your boyfriend.

If you agree with everything your boyfriend says or wants to do, sooner rather than later, he will lose romantic respect for you.

He who cares the least, controls the relationship

Many girls think that men are only attracted to mean girls. In reality, however, men are not attracted to means girls, theyre attracted to some of the character traits displayed by these so-called mean girls. Mean girls are not only conceited, they often display high value by having self-respect and the tendency to not act in a needy way, both of which are powerful signals that turn men on.

Dont get me wrong, men do like nice girls. And by nice girl, I DONT mean being a doormat or a pushover, NOBODY likes a pushover. I mean nice girl, as in, a person with good morals, integrity and someone he can trust.

Neediness

Have you ever asked a guy youre seeing the following: