Adam Loya - Heal Your Sacred Sexual Self: Emotional & Spiritual Healing for Sexual Dis-ease

Heal Your
Sacred Sexual Self

Emotional & Spiritual Healing for Sexual Dis-ease

Adam and Dawnee Loya

Copyright 2013 Dawn Atargatis.

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ISBN: 978-1-4525-8491-1 (sc)

ISBN: 978-1-4525-8492-8 (e)

Library of Congress Control Number: 2013918554

Balboa Press rev. date: 11/11/2013

Contents

Sex is a meditation.

Learn the art of it.

Savour it.

Prepare for it.

Become sensitive, silent, open.

When you are going into lovemaking,

you are entering the Temple.

Enter only when you are prayerful

then you know

the secret of sex . . .

laughter belongs to life.

Let sex be playful, fun.

Osho

Dedication

We pledged February 14, 2013 to rise up

with Billion Rising

offering Divine Love light

to all sexual dis-ease.

May all benefit

without one exception.

We offer our gratitude

to all who guide us, especially: Margot Anand, Mantak Chia, Eve Eisler, Shakti Gawain, Louise L. Hay, Kutira & Raphael, Don Miguel Ruiz, and Ananda Sarita.

to our parents: Betty & Bill Matejka and Gardenia & Arthur Loya.

to our Ancestors. Bless and praise Tibetan Yoginis: Yeshe Tsogyal and Machig Lapdron.

to Osho and sannyasins worldwide.

to Amma, for introducing us.

to our plant teachers. Thank you Mayantuyacu and Temple of the Way of Light in Peru.

to Hrana Janto for her inspiring images of the Goddess in all her guises.

to Anandamayi Ma, Grandmother Elda, Pam Gordon, Lynn Grabhorn, Catherine Ponder, Swami Radha, Luisah Teish, Viramo, and Susun S. Weed.

to our supportive family . . . Hannah Aurora & Raul, Danita, Jamara & Jonah, Lisa, Charis & Jeremy, Mimi & Roman, Casey & Dan, Rosalea & David, Grandmother Barbara, Mama C., Moga, Elizabeth, Mazie, Parnell, Paul, Kimmie, Sarat, and Yamaya.

to Elizabeth Calvin, and all who support her, at Human Rights Watch for introducing Fair Sentencing for Youth to California.

to our patient wise loving guides at Balboa Press.

May you be joyful

May your good fortune

and happiness increase.

Buddhist prayer

This book is an offering of healing for all those who courageously choose to take responsibility for their sexual dis-ease. Here is spiritual guidance regarding our Sacred Sexual Self. We intend to expand your sexual awareness.

We wrote this book to create peace, after years of grieving the lack of sexual joy here on our abundant Earth Mother. We offer all the opportunity to heal the tragic imbalance, which deeply affects us all, that oppressing the Universal Divine Mother has resulted in. We are guided by the Divine Feminine to share these teachings for the greatest good, for all those who are sexually exploited. Our intention is to empower you. When we treat our dis-ease with loving kindness and compassion, when we are willing to change old patterns, when we are willing to forgive; we heal our whole being.

We love sex: sex connected with love and spirit.
This is a magnificent gift.

. . . It is impossible

for us to learn elsewhere

what we are incapable

of learning within our own bodies.

Mantak Chia

We are an unique couple who have been connecting spiritually, emotionally, and sexually for eight years. During this transforming time, we have courageously opened to each other to heal our Sacred Sexual Selves. We have spent our lives contemplating our own sexual dis-eases and the global crisis.

Our spiritual journey began when Adam received the address to write to Circle of Love Inside for guidance. This is a compassionate seva created by the great Saint, Amritanandamayi Ma. Adam was surviving his life in the dire circumstances of a youth unjustly imprisoned, year number 12. He was sentenced to life locked in cage after cement steel cage, for a crime he did not commit. He was a victim of human rights violations in California. He was ready for love.

I love how you have given me

the power to heal,

to take back my Sacred Sexual Self

and reclaim what is mine.

Turtle

This is the shamans path: experiencing the depths. Adam is a miraculous survivor, with a very strong spirit, who is now willing to help others to heal. Adam has always had a devoted spiritual practice. He is an impassioned Mestizo artisto. He has had time to write, meditate, and cultivate. He is willing to change and eager to learn new ways of being. He values his inner child and has faced his pain to heal his wounded little boy. He also has the nurturing ability and heart-felt compassion to heal Dawnees wounded little girl. This is of great benefit for healing our Sacred Sexual Self. Our wounded inner child can cause havoc in intimate relationships.

Adam introduced Dawnee to Toltec Wisdom. We both have ample opportunity to practice the agreement to not take things personally. Ometeotl.

Adam is a compassionate comfort to those around him. He genuinely honours, respects, and remembers the Goddess, which is very refreshing. He is truly a Divine Love God.

Dawnee introduced him to Tantra and Taoism. She joyfully shared her practice of healing herself metaphysically with Louise L. Hays affirmations. Shakti Gawain guided us with her workbook to trust our ability to creatively visualize. Devoted Raw Chefs from around the world teach us about Blissful Food.

Dawnee is a healing artist who has practiced massage, journal writing, sacred dance, meditation, yoga, organic gardening, and inner child healing for decades on the peaceful Gulf Islands of BC, Canada. She was guided to embrace the Divine Mother in her early 20s. She loves to prepare alive food, nourishing all in the very best ways. She encourages breathe meditation awareness. Her dentist is amazed that she does not need medication to have her teeth worked on. She has always been a passionate humanitarian, speaking up for ending racism, sexism, exploitation, animal cruelty, and child abuse. She has creatively expressed her Sacred Sexual Self, as she has been guided to by Divine Love.

We fell in love in a hopeless place. We opened to love and healing no matter what. Mystical love magnetized us. Our practices of romantic love and cultivation sustain us. Faith and compassion guide us. We pray daily and create clear intentions.