Yella Cremer - Mindful Lingam Massage Quick Reference: erotic, tantric massage for couples

copyright 2022 Yella Cremer ISBN: 9783752848793 www.lovebase.com You can reach the author at yella@lovebase.com All rights reserved. Duplication, also and especially in extracts, requires the written permission of the author. About the author Yella is a sex expert and intimacy coach. For over 20 years she has been gathering experience in the fields of sexuality, tantra, BDSM, sexual shamanism and so-called sacred sexuality through travel, seminars and personal development. To pass on these experiences, Yella founded the tantra massage practice Ayella (nowadays Ayana), in which she herself gave massages and led a team of up to 14 women and men. Through this work, she was able to learn much about peoples sexual needs.

She now passes a great part of this extensive knowledge on to the readers of her books. Her book Yoni Massage - Desire, Healing and Intimacy appeared in 2018. It describes in detail how healing intimate touch can be and how the wonderful art of massage can have a positive influence on our sex lives. Included are attentive instructions for the partner, but also tips for self-massage. Published in 2014, her book, The G-spot Guide for Sex Gods sold over 12,000 copies and remains one of the leading guides in this area. Yellas quick references are also much sought after.

For each topic, specific instructions and tricks are provided in a compact format on 2 pages of A4. These are laminated for extra durability. Available topics include G-spot Massage, Yoni Massage, Lingam Massage, Female Ejaculation, Clitoris Massage, Anal- and Prostate Massage, Anal Massage for Women, as well as Pussy Yoga (an introduction to the use of yoni eggs). All are available from Amazon, from local booksellers and the Lovebase website ( http://www.lovebase.com ). There you can find videos as well as further online courses, including some that are free of charge. In 2017 Yella designed the online course Slow Sex.

It supports couples in finding the wonderful world of slow sex to discover a completely new way of sexuality. The structure of the online course allows this is to happen at their own pace and is completely tailored to the couples needs. Lingam Massage Quick Reference
23 Massage Techniques Yella Cremer Contents Introduction Arousal, pleasure and relaxation A lingam massage can be sensuous and exciting, but also calm and relaxing. Start with no intention of getting anywhere. If the man gets aroused very quickly, spread this energy with long strokes over the whole body. It can be supportive if he breathes deeply.

Remind him to relax in case you notice him tense. For many men it is new that their lingam is at the center of attention while they dont have to do anything except for taking the time for their own sensations. Lingam massage tips:

• Heat the room well: 25C or more.
• Provide a relaxed position for your man and check every now and then.
• Use natural oil without fragrances and silicon-based lubricant for the lingam, as this stays slippery for a long me.
• An eye-mask can help the man relax. Also see to your own comfort and relax.
• Warm up your hands by rubbing the palms quickly against each other.
• Start with touching his whole body, e.g. long soft strokes.
• Whenever you touch him, put all your attention and love into your hands.
• Breathe deeply. You can make audible breathing sounds to remind the man to also breathe deeply.

Welcome Place one hand calmly on his genitals and one on his heart as a welcome. Hold them there with all your a en on and take long deep breaths. 2. Cock Shiatsu Start at the base of the lingam, take the shaft between thumb and forefinger and press slowly for some seconds. Move your fingers upwards by 1-2 cm to the next point. 3. 3.

Frenulum salutation Hold the point directly below the gland, on the frenulum (where the foreskin is attached to the gland). Start with small circles in both directions. 4. Cross-country skiing Hold the lingam with both hands, then glide your thumbs in long skiing movements from base to tip on the right and left of the shaft. 5. Rainbow rub Embrace the gland with one hand.

If your man has a foreskin, pull it up around the gland and knead the gland and the frenulum gently. 6. Healing grip First hold the shaft in the middle with both hands closely together. Then one hand moves up towards the gland, while the other one slides down towards the testicles and finally holds them for a while before repeating the grip. 7. Rock around the clock Stroke the lingam from its base to the tip with both hands alternatng.

Move it each time a bit in one direction in a circle, like the hand of a clock. This technique works best in a half-erect state. 8. Cock cradle Embrace the lingam as amply as possible with both hands and hold. 9. Belly delight Stroke the lingam with one hand following the other alternatingly in a flowing movement from the scrotum upwards to the belly.

Press the lingam slightly against the abdomen. 10. Perineum vibration Clench your fist and put it firmly against the perineum (the area between testicles and anus). Start vibrating it lightly without changing its position. After a while you can turn your fist. 11.

Ball ring One hand grabs the scrotum above the testicles and carefully pulls the skin tight, while the other hand strokes, plucks and teases the balls. 12. Juicer Embrace the gland with one hand so its tip is in the center of your palm. Then twist the hand to the left and to the right. Make sure you apply enough oil or lubricant beforehand.