Perks - Incredible sex: 52 brilliant little ideas to take you all the way

Incredible
sex

CAREFUL NOW

Follow the tips in this book and you should find yourself reaching the sexual heights every time. However, there are no guarantees in life so if things dont go your way first time we cant be held responsible. Make sure you treat your lover with care and respect and if he or she isnt happy with any of the ideas you want to try out go slow and dont pressurise. And remember, practice makes perfect!

Infinite Ideas would like to thank Peter Cross, Sabina Dosani, Marcelle Perks, Helena Frith Powell and Elisabeth Wilson for their contributions to this book.

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Brilliant ideas

Sexual fantasy a short cut to great sex.

There is nothing, nothing, quite as sexy as someone who knows how to flirt properly. They can make your toes tingle and your legs turn to jelly.

Practical exercises to keep you both buzzing.

Once youve got there, perhaps you wont want to come back down. For multiple orgasms or extra stimulation, lend yourself a hand.

Enjoy the journey and shell be ecstatic.

Some positions work extra hard to stimulate your clitoris. Try the CAT and the PUSSY and see if you meow.

Find ways to immortalise your other life the one devoted to passion. Anything from taking photos to making your own home movie can keep the passion flowing.

Remember the initial excitement of the first hot date, the first kiss and the first time you ever woke up together?

The secret to giving great oral sex is to remember that the recipient has to be able to concentrate.

The whip and the flesh, inside the world of S and M. The pleasure of pain and sweet submission.

but ring the changes

Quickie sex in half the time and ways to satisfy each other when you dont have time to go all the way.

G it up and get a multiple buzz!

One of the best ways to maintain your sex drive is to set regular pleasure sessions with yourself.

Acting out fantasies takes a bit of practice, but can certainly brighten up a boring Saturday night.

A good sex life is the key to being incredibly sexy, and fantasies have a large role to play in ensuring that.

Just the thought of your new lover or favourite fantasy can make you wet. Charge yourself up into an erotic good mood.

If youre wise, the bathroom is the place to go to get dirty.

Tips for the sexually adventurous (not for the faint-hearted).

Explore voyeurism and exhibitionism and bring a completely new verboten edge to your love life

Theres nothing quite like a bit of splashing and thrashing around in water, especially if its combined with a bit of aqua erotica!

Remember: we dont always get what we want. But we can ask.

Different ways to get both your genitals glowing. Dont think prelude to penetration, savour it as the main event.

Quicker, harder, faster? How to come more easily.

The most obvious places may not be your top erogenous zones. Do you know what really turns you on?

Surprise your lover sexually every week for a year and you can bet you wont be collecting any boring in bed prizes.

Were coming over all PC.

Better orgasms mean more effort, and a buzzing vibrator and a drawer full of sex toys helps you go at it longer.

Delay orgasm a.k.a. peaking and youll know the true meaning of climb every mountain.

The idea of tantric sex is that instead of rushing towards an orgasm, you delay for as long as possible in order to merge with your lover in body, mind and spirit.

Choosing the best vibrator material and shape for your needs.

Bringing your partner off with your hand is a staple of a good sex life and for men an essential skill to develop as this is the only way many women can come during intercourse.

Why every couple needs some.

How do you get on with those old favourites? You know the ones youre sure even your mum knows.

Some women see being pregnant as an excuse not to have sex. Madness. Sex when youre pregnant is brilliant.

Slut sex can be a turn-on for both of you.

Casual sex is an exciting alternative to traditional relationships. It can be an emotional minefield, though, so heres how to have the spark without getting burned.

Who knew that going to the shops could be so good for your love life?

It feels good to give pleasure to your partner. You want to hear those moans. Here are a few tricks to put up your sleeve.

Put a little thought into your next blow job hell appreciate it.

Alternative girls-gotta-have-it zones within the vagina. That mysterious wee thing, the G-spot. Talk about best of both worlds!

Few things in life will earn you so much gratitude for a moderate amount of effort as giving great head.

Can you ever know too much?

The first time someone ties you up is a revelation. You are no longer in control and with that comes a feeling of total abandonment.

Even if it wasnt talked about much, rear entry has always been mainstream its the original form of birth control.

Steep yourself in the mysterious wonders of the Far East, where not coming is the goal.

The Hotel Room.

Danger is the fastest-acting aphrodisiac.

For a different buzz, try cutting off one of the senses it can intensify the others. Just when you thought youd tried it all, discover the sublime art of sensory deprivation.

I know. You can only bring yourself to talk dirty when youre drunk. Very drunk. So drunk that next morning you cant remember what you said.

Are you doing the grown-up thing looking at each other enough during sex? Here are some ways to position yourself so that you can see how you feel.

Learn to express sensuality with your whole body.

Youre probably thinking that the kind of people who write about sex must be sexperts or, at the very least, enthusiastic sexpots and that youll be unlikely to find any ideas suitable for you. But the success of a book promising to transform your sex life doesn't lie in its risqu content. A sex book will only work if it's do-able. Readers should want to act on the suggestions rather than just read them for vicarious thrills or, more likely, in growing consternation.

This is a book of sex suggestions and solutions, whether youre young, free and single and want to get more out of your sexual encounters or youve been married for years and need some new ideas to have better sex with the person youre with. All the ideas have been tried and tested by real couples and in many cases we can vouch for the ideas taking our own sex lives to new highs. The information is broadly aimed at heterosexuals, although we hope that it will appeal to the whole spectrum of couples gay, straight and everything in between. Similarly, if youre single or dont have a regular partner, please dont cringe at all the tips aimed at regular couples. Just store the advice up for the future, for a time when you can get to test the ideas out.